awaiting bipolar diagnosis

Man, I feel you on this! 😤 People can be so clueless sometimes!!! Like seriously, why do people assume they need to treat us like fragile glass just 'cause of some health stuff? It’s frustrating as hell to not be seen for who we really are. I've been there too, feeling like I'm trapped in a shell people don't get. Do you ever wonder if it’s more about their own discomfort than ours??

totally get what you're saying 😑. it's like people think being sick defines every part of who we are, and they forget we're still regular folks just trying to live our lives. i remember when i had a rough patch health-wise, it felt like all my interactions were either awkward or overly sappy, which got old fast. what’s with the need to tiptoe around everything? sometimes i wonder if they're worried about saying the "wrong" thing so much that they end up making it worse!

I completely resonate with where you're coming from. It's like people forget that beneath the surface of any medical condition, we're still striving to maintain our individuality and autonomy. Interestingly enough, I've found that when I was in a similar situation, it sometimes helped to gently guide conversations back towards normalcy by sharing more about my interests and hobbies; perhaps it can subtly remind others that there's more to us than just our ailments? Have you ever considered openly discussing this dynamic with those around you??? Sometimes people just need a little nudge to understand how best to engage with us!!! Stay strong and remember you're so much more than any challenge life throws your way.

i find it quite intriguing that you seem to interpret concern from others as a burden rather than an expression of genuine care 😅. have you ever considered that their "walking on eggshells" might be more about their own discomfort in navigating unfamiliar territory, rather than a reflection on you? 🤔 the notion that your brain is only "halfway working" seems a bit harsh; perhaps it's just operating differently, providing unique insights and perspectives that others might miss. i wonder if embracing moments of silence could actually offer deeper connectivity instead of viewing them as something to be avoided. what do you think would change if you acknowledged these perceptions and reframed them positively?

It's rough when people treat you like glass 🙃, but it's important to remember that your intentions are genuine, and those who truly know you will see that.

I can appreciate how frustrating it must feel when people misinterpret your actions and intentions based on their own assumptions. It sounds like you're navigating a challenging situation with grace, and it's important to remember that "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself," as Franklin D. Roosevelt once said. Keep doing the things you enjoy and want to do; over time, people will likely begin to understand the genuine motivations behind your actions. Stay strong and hopeful.

totally get where you're coming from. it’s like when people find out about the health stuff, they suddenly forget how to act normal. 🙄 it's not like we’re just our condition, right? i mean, doing something nice should just be appreciated without all that weirdness. ever consider sitting them down and telling them what you really need? might be worth a shot.

I hear you, feeling like folks don't see the real you behind your health challenges can be super frustrating; I wonder if you've tried straight-up talking to them about how their actions make you feel?

yeah, it sucks when people act differently around you just cuz you're not feeling 100%. but i gotta wonder if maybe it's partly about how you're perceiving their actions. like, are they really that concerned about offending you, or is that just what it feels like to you? 🤷‍♂️ i've been there too, thinking everyone was treating me weird, but then realized some of it was in my head. have you tried letting them know you'd rather they treat you more normally? sometimes being upfront can make all the difference.

I understand your frustration. People often forget that we're more than our health conditions and miss the whole person behind it. I recall going through something similar, where folks around me hesitated to act naturally, making interactions feel forced. It's like they fail to see we still have agency; just offer us normalcy instead of constant reassurance! 😊

man, it sucks when people act like they gotta tiptoe around you just 'cause you're dealing with some stuff. it's crazy how folks think medical stuff erases your personality, like suddenly you're just your sickness; have you found any ways to help others see the "real" you beyond your condition? maybe sharing a piece of yourself that’s got nothing to do with being sick could flip the script. hang in there, you're still you no matter what life throws at ya 💪

I get where you're coming from, and it sounds rough when people don't quite know how to navigate your situation. But sometimes I think folks just need a little direction; like, maybe they just aren't sure what's helpful or not. I've been in a similar spot with my own issues and found that humor helped me break the ice—cracked a joke at how overly careful they were being, and it actually loosened things up. Maybe trying that could shift their vibes toward seeing you as "you" instead of focusing on what's different?

It's not just about others' perceptions; maybe it's time to take some responsibility for how you respond to their actions and make a conscious effort to communicate better with them 🤨.

It appears rather perplexing when individuals attempt to categorize others solely based on their health status, leading to an oversimplification of a person's identity. This pattern of behavior may not necessarily stem from ill intent but rather from a societal tendency to stereotype; consequently, open dialogue might be one avenue to dissolve these misconceptions and bridge the disconnect. Nonetheless, there remains an inherent complexity in persuading others to fully appreciate the nuanced dimensions of your character beyond the superficial lens of illness.

look, i get it. but maybe you’re focusing too much on how others react??? 🤔 people will always have their assumptions and judgments. doesn’t mean you have to internalize them. i know it’s hard not to, but letting people’s opinions dictate how you feel just gives them control over something that should be yours! try flipping the script by setting boundaries – let them know what works for you. at the end of the day, your life is your own... whether they get that or not!!!

ugh, it's so annoying when people can't see past the surface and just treat you like "normal." 🤦‍♀️ i mean, you're not suddenly a different person just because of your health issues, right? ever thought about switching up the conversation by bringing up your hobbies or interests whenever they start acting all weird? might help remind them you're more than what you're going through. and hey, what’s that one thing that makes you feel most like yourself, no matter what others think?