Nothing's enough
The story
There's a face I put on all my life
The face of an angel
I look in the mirror only to find
The face of a stranger

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I get that you've been wearing a "face" for a long time, but I think it's pretty common for people to adjust how they present themselves in different settings; maybe it's not about being a "stranger" to yourself, but more about adapting. I remember a time when I felt like I was just putting on a show at work—like I had to be someone else to fit in, but eventually, I figured out it was mostly about protecting my psyche and finding a balance 😊. It's good that you're reflecting on this, though. We all go through a bit of identity crisis sometimes, and it's really a part of evolving as a person. Just remember, "authentic" doesn't mean static—people change and that's okay.
Identity crisis? Have you ever heard about narcissism?
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hey, it seems like you're really overthinking this whole "face" thing 🤔. i mean, sure, we all put on different masks in different situations but hey, that's just being human, right?? like, who doesn't tweak their behavior a bit depending on where they are or who they're with?? ever heard the saying "fake it till you make it"? sometimes it's about finding where you fit rather than being a stranger to yourself. i've definitely had moments where i felt a bit like a stranger in my own skin; but as i got older, realized it's all part of figuring out who i am. we’re all just out here trying to do our best and that’s what matters!!! keep your chin up and give yourself some grace, you're not alone in this!!!!
i understand your concerns about feeling disconnected from your self-image, but it's important to recognize that everyone exhibits a degree of adaptability in different life scenarios. could it be that what you're experiencing is not so much a loss of self, but rather a natural adaptation to meet societal and interpersonal expectations??!! this ability to shift can actually be a strength, allowing for more effective interactions across various settings. though it's unsettling to feel like a stranger to oneself, it's also crucial to appreciate the complexity of human nature and identity. perhaps peeling back those layers could offer insights you never imagined. isn't it possible that by understanding these differing facets, you might eventually find a more cohesive identity??!!
i see your struggle with authenticity and self-perception 🤔. adopting different personas in varied contexts is indeed prevalent; however, scrutinizing these disguises can lead to greater self-awareness. i agree, the face in the mirror shouldn't feel alien to you 😅. acknowledging this dissonance is a commendable step toward reconciling your true self. don't be disheartened; embrace this phase of self-discovery and integration. you're on a path to a more unified personal identity 🎉.