Very TMI question (anyone with a uterus, ANSWER ME, please)
The story
I'm 13, and I get periods. They hurt sometimes but they tell me I'm fine. I've had them when I was 9, which is pretty early for some reason. I've got bad days, okay days, and days where for some reason my pubic regions hurt, not my abdomen. I've never taken painkillers for this since hey, I could at least manage for a while. When it's too much, sitting down somewhere helps and hot showers too. But some women don't like it, and hate it so much they take birth control, or they feel proud and celebrate when they hit menopause maybe at 45. So does that mean I should do what they do for whatever reason, like gender dysphoria, they don't wanna get pregnant, it hurts too much or sensory issues? They do it for all the reasons, even when I don't get them. Maybe I'll get them later when I'm older. Should I Take birth control, have an IUD, maybe arm implant, or a hysterectomy, or maybe get early menopause. They all do it, and I feel like I'm missing out. All adults I see do that, and woman said, "I'm glad I got menopause. It's not as bad as people say it is! I absolutely hated the cramps and sensory issues, so this was amazing." Are my periods bad? A lot of them make it seem like this scary, looming danger that will and WILL hurt me.
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girl just be you. you don't have to worry about stuff like this until you're older. maybe you'll love menopause, maybe youwon't you're too young to be worried about what's gonna happen when you're, like, 45. also, you don't need birth control. if you can handle your periods, handle them! you don't have to do what every other woman is doing.
Girl, it's entirely normal to feel overwhelmed by the stories and experiences of other women when it comes to periods and menopause. But remember, everyone's body is different, and what works for one person may not be necessary for another. It's great that you have found ways to manage your period pain without medication so far. Just because some women choose to use birth control or opt for procedures like hysterectomies doesn't mean you have to do the same. Your body, your choice! Focus on taking care of yourself in a way that feels right for you at this moment in your life. And hey, who knows what the future holds – things might change as you grow older, but for now, embrace being you and don't feel pressured to conform to anyone else's standards or choices.
Hey! I just want to say that it's totally valid to feel a bit confused or overwhelmed by all the different experiences and choices women make regarding periods and menopause...
I know it can be hard not to compare ourselves to others, especially when we see adults around us making decisions about their bodies. But trust me, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to this stuff. Your body is unique, and what works for someone else might not be what's best for you. Just keep listening to your body
girl, it's easy to feel like you should be doing what everyone else is, but remember that everyone's journey with their body is different and personal, so just focus on what's best for you right now and maybe talk with a trusted adult or professional if you're feeling unsure.
Periods can be such a pain, literally! 😫 It's all about what feels right for YOU. Ever tried talking to a healthcare professional about your options? They could give you some clarity on whether something like birth control makes sense for you now or later. Don't rush into decisions based on others' experiences—your body's got its own rhythm. How do you usually cope when it's particularly tough?
It's interesting how you're contemplating all these possibilities at such a young age; it shows a level of understanding that's commendable.
You are facing a dilemma common to the developmental stage you're in; it's crucial to remember that bodily autonomy means having control over your own health decisions. Don't be swayed by others' choices just because they have vocalized their satisfaction or dissatisfaction with certain methods. Every individual has different thresholds for pain and discomfort, so assess what's best for you without external pressure. You may or may not need interventions like birth control or surgery in the future, but that's something to navigate as circumstances dictate. Stay informed about your options and prioritize what feels right for you in this moment 😉