Worried about my situation as a victim
The story
I keep talking to a friend I could trust on Discord after a grooming incident, and then I see so many notable members of the community I tried to be successful in finally get all the roles, but I’m left in the dust thanks to a groomer.
Which got me thinking
That groomer HAD a game that thankfully didn’t reach popularity but the fact that it got any sort of following is baffling to me.
Which got me thinking
I tried to be successful for 3 years, always failing thanks to some asshole. How are they still big and popular, especially with how they indirectly but still blatantly led me to the groomer because I needed help with art, and I tried replacing each person that betrayed me because I was desperate?
It’s called cheating. Everyone has the rights to share their creations to the world. Hard effort doesn’t matter as long as it comes from the heart and as long as people give others their time to shine. People that harassed me might have heart (may be a black one but my point still stands), but the latter? They did not help me at all. Begging for free art is bad, but NOBODY told me it was unacceptable kindly. They passed it off as “oh you’ll get them next time” or “I don’t talk to [slur]s like you.” I wanted help after a community dumped me previously. I since then apologized for any behavior, but the scars still remained, and now they’ve reopened after the grooming incident. Funnily enough, the groomer is STILL in that site and is even friends with an admin.
Cheating should get you NOWHERE in life. How did they cheat? They took advantage of a rookie artist with a young soul. Most people did poor jobs explaining how art truly works and instead dumped me by a single mistake, leading me to find someone, until I found my then best friend and turned out to be a manipulating asshole. I’m still left in the dust with no niche and forced to start over while these so-called “veterans” got a following through cheating and manipulation. Their art might rock and they might have a good sense of humor, but they’re not worth it if their heart is so locked up and sadistic.
Even though one person is already pending consequences, I really, really want to cancel them so hard they’d feel depressed for their sorry ass life of touching children instead of grass and leave the internet forever. I can’t say the name however since “it might ruin research” but that shithead really deserves it, and I want zero trace of them ANYWHERE. As for the people who had led me to them, I want the same punishment as that groomer. Directly or not, they were still taking advantage of me and leading me to the groomer. However, I do think the groomer deserves more than just a life sentence for even talking to me at my lowest.
Another thing is Discord. I've been doing a decent job handling my schedule on Discord, keeping it around three hours, and it feels good to finally have a friend I can talk to every day, but I'm also worried about something. Is it really Discord's fault?
How do I go about all of this while still keeping the research? Are the people that indirectly led me to the groomer also at legal fault due to immorality? Am I supposed to use Discord to attempt to get friends and keep sharing my art with them if research is still ongoing? Is revenge like this really justified considering it was prolonged? My parents want to sue Discord for failing to keep me safe, but I believe friends are more important than being a millionaire. What do I do?

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man, that's such a tough situation you're in 😟. it's wild how ppl get away with so much just by being manipulative. "cheating should get you nowhere," you nailed it. ppl who exploit others like that... ugh, it's seriously frustrating.
i get that wanting revenge is tempting, but sometimes it feels like it just drags you down. focusing on finding real friends and creating art from the heart can be more rewarding in the long run. and yeah, discord can be a double-edged sword. it's more about how people use it, rather than blaming the platform itself. gotta be cautious but still connect with good folks.
suing discord might not solve much, especially if you find real connections and learn from it instead. stay strong, and hopefully, karma will do its thing. 🔥
it's clear that you've been through a challenging experience, and your feelings are valid. however, it’s important to consider whether focusing on retribution will bring you the closure you seek. "revenge is never a straight line" is a concept that suggests it can be complex and ultimately unsatisfying.
while it's understandable to be frustrated with those who inadvertently led you to the groomer, holding them legally accountable could be difficult. indirect involvement doesn't always equate to liability.
while discord can be a complex platform, it primarily depends on how users engage with it. maintaining a balanced approach and fostering genuine connections may yield better results over time. seeking professional guidance from a therapist or counselor could also help you work through these emotions and focus on healing. it's important to move forward with a positive outlook and concentrate on building meaningful relationships in the future.
it's understandable that you are feeling upset about the situation. the experience you went through was undoubtedly difficult, and it's quite perplexing how some people manage to manipulate and exploit others effectively; the fact that those individuals remain unscathed while you are left grappling with the ramifications is deeply unsettling. utilizing discord as a means of communication does indeed carry risks, but perhaps examining its role in bringing a positive connection to your life could offer some solace.
although the urge for retribution is palpable, pursuing revenge might not provide the closure or healing you are seeking. have you considered exploring alternative outlets, such as creating art, as a form of emotional release and self-expression? it seems like focusing on your passion, and leaning into supportive friendships could foster personal growth and resilience. connecting with a community that genuinely values and supports your artistic journey may lead to more fulfilling experiences in the long run.
hey, i totally get where you’re coming from, and it’s frustrating as hell to see others getting ahead in ways that just don’t seem fair. it looks like you’ve been through the wringer with all the chaos involving the community and that groomer. you’re right to feel upset about your struggles, and it’s valid to want some form of justice.
the fact that the groomer is still around and getting support is unsettling; it's important that these platforms do better in keeping their users safe. however, balancing between wanting justice and focusing on your own growth might help you find some peace. holding onto too much anger could end up holding you back from new opportunities and supportive communities that are out there waiting for you.
maybe, instead of focusing on the negatives, trying to connect with people who value your art and offer genuine support could be a game-changer. your experience and the strength you find in overcoming these hurdles will definitely add depth to the work you create and the relationships you build in the future. keep pushing forward—you’ve got this!
man, i totally get where you're coming from. the whole situation seriously sucks. it's insane how some ppl get away with that kinda garbage and still think they’re on top. like, "cheating should get you nowhere," right? it just blows my mind how everyone else gets ahead by playing dirty while you’re busting your ass trying to make things work.
the fact that the groomer’s still hanging around is messed up. there’s stuff going on everywhere online, and platforms like discord need to step it up; they really should be doing more about this nonsense. oh, and those so-called "veterans" you're dealing with? it’s frustrating as hell when the community you want to be a part of lets people like that thrive while vulnerable folks get trampled over.
i once had a similar experience in a different art community where people would side with the big names, totally overlooking the shady bits just 'cause they had "talent." 🤬 it's like if you don't have a big name, you don’t have a say. but hey, maybe carving out your own space with real, decent ppl is the way to go. what’s stopping them from facing the consequences? real justice would be seeing them knocked off their high horse.
look, i get that you're upset, but blaming everyone else isn't the solution here. people in the community may not have been perfect, but calling them out for cheating just because they succeeded when you didn't is harsh. the reality is, some folks excel due to a mix of talent, timing, and yes, sometimes a bit of luck. pointing fingers isn’t going to help you progress.
it's unfortunate the groomer is still around, but you can't hold the entire platform accountable for one bad actor. discord can be a valuable tool when used right, and it's ultimately up to individuals to keep themselves informed and vigilant. maybe some introspection is needed here instead of focusing so much on revenge. sure, those experiences were rough, but overcoming them might give you the strength to navigate obstacles more effectively in the future. 🎯
you mentioned “cheating” and how it shouldn't get you anywhere, yet it seems the real focus should be on building resilience and adapting to the evolving dynamics within the community. isn't it worth considering how you can turn this negativity into a source of motivation rather than dwelling on what others did wrong?
hey, i get that you're going through a rough time, but maybe it's worth considering another perspective. i know it feels like people in the community let you down, but sometimes it's more about misunderstanding than malicious intent. blaming everyone won't necessarily make things better; maybe focusing on moving forward could be more productive.
discord can be tricky, but it's more about how we use it and who we interact with. the issue seems more with individuals who took advantage rather than the platform itself. i know you want justice, but it's crucial to think about what will truly help you heal in the long run.
it sounds like you've had a tough journey, but maybe channeling that energy into your art and connecting with genuine people could be more rewarding. have you thought about how you might use this experience to grow stronger and build a community that truly values support and cooperation; sometimes focusing on personal growth can be more impactful than seeking revenge.
hey, i totally hear ya, but maybe there's a different way to look at things 🤔. it's rough to be left in the dust, i get it, but blaming others for their success might not be the best move. sometimes people just catch a lucky break or happen to be in the right place at the right time.
i know it stings when it feels like no one's got your back, especially after all the junk you’ve been through. but chasing revenge could just end up being a waste of your energy. maybe putting that effort into finding a new group of peeps who really appreciate and support your art might be more worth it; after all, there's gotta be some folks out there who will vibe with you.
sure, discord's got its flaws, but it can also be a chill way to connect with genuine people if you’re careful and take your time. i bet focusing on your creativity will help you bounce back stronger and find a community that truly gets you. keep your chin up and remember that every setback is just an opportunity to grow and learn 🌟.
it's really unfortunate how things have turned out for you, and i get why you’re feeling so frustrated. you’ve put in effort and time into trying to be successful in your community, only to be sidetracked by some really unsavory individuals. honestly, it's baffling that the groomer is still allowed on the platform; this is a major failure on their part to ensure user safety.
your anger towards those who indirectly led you to the groomer is understandable, though it might be misplaced in the long run. while they may have played a role, focusing solely on blaming them might keep you stuck in this negative headspace. revenge sounds appealing, but it could end up being more trouble than it's worth.
you’re right in calling out the community’s hypocritical behavior—allowing certain individuals to thrive despite their unethical practices. at the end of the day, it’s about finding people who genuinely appreciate your work and support your journey. try channeling your energy into connecting with those who bring positivity into your life. just because it hasn't worked out yet doesn’t mean it won’t in the future 💪.
i totally get why you're upset, but fixating on revenge won't solve much. i've seen how negativity can cloud the bigger picture, and it's essential to focus on what you can control. blaming others for their success might be a bit misplaced; everyone has their journey, and their cheating might not be as straightforward as it seems.
discord can be a double-edged sword, for real. while it can be a platform for these unfortunate experiences, it also offers a chance to connect with great people. i had a rough time with a community once, but finding the right folks there helped me in ways i hadn't imagined.
“hard effort doesn’t matter as long as it comes from the heart,” and that’s what will ultimately set you apart. the past can't be changed, but how you navigate the future is entirely up to you. maybe channeling some of that energy into your growth could open doors you hadn't considered yet; think about all the potential that's still out there waiting for you. it might not be easy, but it's definitely worth it. 💪
yeah, i totally get how you're feeling, and i'd probs feel the same way if i were in your shoes. it's crazy frustrating when you've been working your butt off trying to make it, only to have things messed up by some shady people. you put yourself out there, and then they twist things around, that's just cold. 😟
i remember when i first started sharing my stuff, i had a few rough patches too. people took advantage and it felt like i was just hitting wall after wall. so i def agree it’s tough and not fair. but focusing all your energy on those folks who wronged you might just keep you stuck in a negative loop; maybe looking for communities that genuinely appreciate your work could be a game-changer.
and hey, while discord can be a mess sometimes, it’s also where i found some of my now close friends. sometimes it helps to find those few good apples among the bad ones, you know? keep pushing forward, 'cause your art and your growth are what matters in the end. keep your head up, there's still so much potential ahead for you!
it's so tough to read your story and not feel a wave of empathy 😔. you're absolutely right to feel let down by the community, especially when you've been putting in so much effort and passion. it's crazy how some people manage to stay ahead by shady means... how is that even fair?!
totally hear you on discord being a mixed bag. like, it can be an amazing place to meet genuine peeps, but at the same time, it can be a hotbed for drama and negativity. i've been on communities where it felt like nobody had my back, and it deeply affected the way i viewed my own work... so frustrating!!!
even if the past experiences are painful and unfair, maybe thinking about new paths and focusing on what brings you joy could be worth considering; there's always hope in finding a better crowd who truly values your art. keep being awesome and don’t let those bad experiences define everything. you got this!!! 💪✨
i understand you’re going through a rough patch, but dwelling solely on blaming others isn't the way forward. while it’s tough to see others succeed when you feel left behind, their journey has its own set of challenges you might not be aware of. life doesn’t always play fair, but focusing too much on what others are doing can keep you stuck in a loop of negativity.
being upset about how people indirectly led you to the groomer is valid, but it's essential to recognize that not everyone was deliberate in their actions. people make mistakes, and sometimes misguided decisions lead to unfortunate outcomes that aren't entirely due to malicious intent.
yeah, discord can attract some bad actors, but it's a tool like any other. it's all in how you choose to use it and the communities you decide to be part of. maybe consider investing your energy into improving your art and finding a supportive group where people genuinely value what you bring to the table. wouldn’t it be more productive to focus on your growth than to dwell on the actions of those who may not deserve your attention? 😐