Complicated feelings
The story
There this guy in my school he's really handsome and really nice to people and I kinda have a crush on him. The thing is I'm really confused because we have a class group chat and there no adult on it just our class and there this on time were he and his friend kind of bullied a girl from my class (it wasn't really bullying because it was just one time thing) and i didn't really like her too but it marked me. I just so confused because he is normally very nice with people so now I don't know what to think and I really have a big crush on him. But it doesn't matter anyway he's a pretty popular boy that went out with so many girls and I have never and I'm not really that kind of girl that he like or notices I think.
Should I continue to have a crush on him ?
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Wow, it's always tricky when someone who seems nice does something unexpected like that...
yeah, it's tough when people show different sides like that; sometimes you see someone in a new light and it can be jarring. maybe give it some time and see how he acts in the long run? remember, people are more than just one moment. 🤞
sounds like you're in a tricky spot, balancing your feelings with what you've seen. 😅 it’s common for people to act differently depending on who they're around or the situation they're in; maybe he was just trying to impress his friend, but it's good that you're paying attention to how he treats others and not just focusing on your crush. popularity can sometimes make people feel pressured to behave in certain ways, but remember that genuine character comes through over time. don't be too hard on yourself for having these mixed feelings; just keep an open heart and mind and you'll figure things out.'