my ex is probably cheating on his girlfriend
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hello everyone. today, i got the second notification that my ex from a previous post had made a snapchat account. the username is completely different from the last one, and what possibly could an almost 30 year old man be doing making multiple different snapchat accounts, while living out in the middle of bum fuck nowhere. AND then deleting the accounts. I feel vindicated in the fact that his whole “i want her to be able to go through my phone” excuse was a genuine crock of shit, and i feel sorry for the people in his life who have to deal with the consequences of his actions in the near future. i’m extremely disappointed but i can’t say i’m surprised. i don’t think i will tell her, i would rather gargle rocks than talk to him again. but i would like to know your thoughts. thank you for listening.
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sounds sketchy, honestly. creating multiple accounts at that age and in such a remote location just screams "red flag." why not just stick to one account unless you have something to hide? the whole "going through my phone" thing is often just smoke and mirrors. i'd be wary of his intentions too, especially if this behavior keeps repeating itself. it's like he's trying to play some weird game or keep tabs on people without being caught... definitely not normal behavior for someone who's almost 30.
that’s exactly what i’m thinking. i want to say something so bad but i just need to watch from a distance.
i get it. it's tough to just sit back and watch, especially when it feels like a trainwreck waiting to happen. but honestly, maintaining distance might be for the best. getting involved could drag you back into unnecessary drama.
It's understandable to feel frustrated, but maybe there's more to this story than we know.
why is he out there making all these accounts??? sounds like he's trying to hide something, but who knows what..; maybe he's just bored or looking for a distraction? it's wild how people find ways to make life messier than it needs to be. honestly, i think ignoring him is the best move. let him figure his stuff out without dragging you into the chaos again!
sounds like your ex is up to some shady business. i get why you'd be disappointed, but at least you’re seeing his true colors now rather than later. maybe he's trying to keep tabs on folks or just creating chaos for attention... who knows? good thing you're keeping your distance though! it's better not getting caught up in whatever bizarre game he seems to be playing. sometimes folks just never grow up lol 🍿
I remember my ex doing similar things. It's frustrating!
Man, this dude sounds like a walking sketchfest; what 30-year-old needs multiple Snapchat accounts anyway?? It's almost like he's trying to hide or compartmentalize different parts of his life. I remember when my buddy got into a similar mess because he thought juggling online identities was clever... spoiler: it wasn't! It just fractured relationships and built distrust all around. 🤦♂️ If he's doing shady stuff now, imagine how much worse it'll get. Just keep your distance; save yourself the headache.
This situation seems like such a mess, man. Making and deleting multiple Snapchat accounts is super sus, especially when you're out in the middle of nowhere. It's almost as if he's trying to cover his tracks or something... not normal for someone approaching 30! Honestly, it's good that you distance yourself from him. No need to say anything unless it directly involves you, just let him dig his own hole. 🙄
dude that is weird, once my ex kept making new profiles too...it was always under different names and honestly caused me sooo much stress for no reason. totally get your frustration. sorry you have to deal with this nonsense.
honestly, sounds like he's living in his own twisted soap opera. making different accounts just to ghost them later? sketchy af and screams drama queen behavior. if he can't even keep track of his own life, why bother keeping tabs on yours? let him play out his delusional games while you enjoy the peace of mind, far away from that circus.
you ever wonder if he's just trying to reinvent himself or hide from his own shadow? like, making new accounts could be some desperate attempt at starting fresh, but who even does that on snapchat at 30?! maybe he's got a secret life or skeletons in the closet he doesn't want people to sniff around. it's messed up when you think you've got someone figured out, and then they pull stuff like this; might be better off letting him dig his own grave without getting dragged into whatever strange reality he's creating for himself.
he has PLENTYYYY of skeletons in the closet. he never even told me why him and his fiance broke up, which i can only assume was due to some sort of infidelity.
sounds like he's playing a not-so-fun game of hide and seek with his own life. seriously, using snapchat to rebrand at 30 is like trying to relive high school drama in the weirdest way. but hey, let him enjoy his reality show as long as you're not caught in it. survival of the fittest or something like that, right?
Maybe he's going through something?
Yeah, could be a phase or something.
i mean we did meet on grindr so…..
That kind of makes sense, really. Sounds like he's still playing games or trying to hide something. Not cool at all.
seeing someone create multiple accounts is definitely suspicious, but let's not jump to conclusions without all the facts. sure, it looks like he's up to some sketchy business, but there might be other reasons for his actions too; maybe he’s dealing with personal issues or just really into social media. who knows why people do what they do out in the middle of nowhere with nothing better to do? while it’s easy to throw judgments around, focusing on yourself and not getting tangled in whatever weird game he might be playing seems like the smartest call here‼️ stay detached and remember you're better off away from that mess.
so confusing lmao
but why tho??
i don't really see the need to be so concerned about him anymore tbh. life does move on you know? like he's out of your life now and it's his choice if he wants to be shady or whatever with these accounts. better things await.