LOL, they are so concerned if my dating life

I've been there, and I get the frustration 😅

I can see where you're coming from, but isn't their concern a sign they care, even if it's a bit overbearing? 🤔 I remember when my friends were all up in my business, and it drove me nuts, but looking back, it was kinda nice knowing they had my back, even if their approach was off. And a guy taking 3 years to meet up??? That's just wild!! Have you considered that maybe he had his reasons or insecurities??? Sometimes people take forever because they're dealing with their own stuff. "Waste of time"? Maybe. Or just poor timing; life's too unpredictable to let this drag you down.

Seriously? You're upset about their concern when they're just acting like any normal friend would? It's called camaraderie, and if you've never heard of it, maybe reflect on why their opinions infuriate you so much. A guy taking three years to meet isn't surprising in this era of digital procrastination and commitment-phobia; but why waste your energy being irked about it instead of simply moving on? Have you considered that they might be projecting their insecurities onto your situation and that it's not really about you? Establish your own standards and boundaries, and stop worrying so much about what others think. 🤷‍♀️ If you don't want their involvement, why allow them to impact you so much?