LOL, they are so concerned if my dating life
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They are so concerned if my dating life when they are all gay. They should just move on and get going as they are not perfect after all. A guy who takes 3 years just to wanna meet you is just a fcking waste of time lmao.
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I've been there, and I get the frustration 😅
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I can see where you're coming from, but isn't their concern a sign they care, even if it's a bit overbearing? 🤔 I remember when my friends were all up in my business, and it drove me nuts, but looking back, it was kinda nice knowing they had my back, even if their approach was off. And a guy taking 3 years to meet up??? That's just wild!! Have you considered that maybe he had his reasons or insecurities??? Sometimes people take forever because they're dealing with their own stuff. "Waste of time"? Maybe. Or just poor timing; life's too unpredictable to let this drag you down.
Hi before you judge if u only knew this guy "online" no I did not . He was someone I used to work with so the connection was there. I get that he might have his reasons to keep on blabbering about us on the internet and on the unsent project site but I still think if he wanted to he would isn't it? I guess his feelings was not as strong as I have for him. The what ifs are what is killing me but hey maybe I'm just crazy lol
Yeah, the "what ifs" can keep your head & heart busy for a while 😅
I just hate that he just keeps on posting online about it but never had the courage to at least talk to me
I've shut up about it for a very long time lol
I can feel the frustration 😅
Seriously? You're upset about their concern when they're just acting like any normal friend would? It's called camaraderie, and if you've never heard of it, maybe reflect on why their opinions infuriate you so much. A guy taking three years to meet isn't surprising in this era of digital procrastination and commitment-phobia; but why waste your energy being irked about it instead of simply moving on? Have you considered that they might be projecting their insecurities onto your situation and that it's not really about you? Establish your own standards and boundaries, and stop worrying so much about what others think. 🤷♀️ If you don't want their involvement, why allow them to impact you so much?
Yeah I posted this days ago I'm fine now hahahha
Honestly, this rant seems more about deflecting blame than addressing the real issue 🤔. Everyone has imperfections, including yourself; maybe your friends are simply trying to express genuine concern, even if their focus seems misguided to you. Waiting three years for someone to meet up sounds absurd, but dwelling on their deficiencies won't help you either!!! If he's not reciprocating your interest, then why are you still caught up on it??? Have you thought about setting clearer boundaries instead of allowing these situations to frustrate you so much? Taking a step back and evaluating what truly matters to you might lend some clarity and peace.
All good llol
i get why you're frustrated about your friends being all up in your business, but sometimes people just care too much and don't know how to show it 🤷♂️, and if a dude is taking 3 years just to meet, i'd say that's a hint he's not really into it or maybe he's dealing with his own stuff, but either way, life’s too short to wait around for someone