My ex best friend cheated on his girlfriend with me
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Hi
So I got a few months ago my ex best friend/ex Situationship told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend for me because I made him feel safe and loved. Fast-forward a few months I gave him a time limit of when to break up with his girlfriend because I wanted to spend the holidays with him. He then and said, broke things off with me after having intercourse with me. I threatened to tell his girlfriend and now he’s telling everyone that I’m crazy because I have bipolar. So now every time I go to my neighborhood McDonald’s he clears at me and my now boyfriend. But I wanna know if I was crazy to like him in like that or if I was just being a hopeless romantic at a point.
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Honestly, it sounds like you might have been seeing things through rose-colored glasses; expecting him to just drop everything for you was kind of naive. 🤷♂️ The whole situation seems messy, and threatening to spill the beans to his girlfriend only added fuel to the fire… like throwing gasoline on a dumpster fire. It's understandable you're questioning your feels now, but maybe take this as a sign to distance yourself from this drama; focus on your current relationship instead of getting stuck in what-ifs.
I’m not really stuck on the drama I’m happy with my bf but I feel like his gf should know even if she doesn’t believe me but I’m unsure if I should tell her
Wow, what a rollercoaster you've been on!!! I totally get why you feel the way you do. Honestly, people like that guy often try to manipulate situations for their own gain; 🙄 I've seen it happen before with friends who ignored big red flags and got burned. Your intuition about warning his girlfriend makes sense because no one deserves to be kept in the dark about matters of the heart; still, focusing on moving forward might help preserve your peace of mind. Trust me, living well is the best way to leave all that mess behind and embrace what truly matters: your own happiness!