One sided love
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I don't really know how to start but i remember when u first added me back on tiktok, the excitement was something I've never felt before but i convinced myself to calm down and that you probably like all other teenage boys as i did talk to guys that i didn't have good experiences with early months of the year (February, March and April) it was November 12 when i started talking to you but after a few days i caught myself smiling and staying up to your texts we even had an ongoing streak on tiktok because you were a guy i could genuinely open up to without it being weird and we had a lot of similar song and drama interests, its been so long since a actually liked someone like this and it felt so nice. And a few days later you reposted tiktoks about liking someone as i thought it was about me because you only started reposting those AFTER we started talking but i clearly took it as a wrong sign. Exactly 3 weeks Later December 3rd i sent you a paragraph of how i felt but you told me you liked someone else so clearly i mistook your kindness the wrong way. After you sent me that Paragraph I ended up only hearting your message which ended up being our last conversation with eachother on Instagram. Its been 3 weeks 24th December and I'm still stuck here going back to your account stalking your reposts about her and i even found her account and she's honestly so pretty And you guys comment on eachothers tiktoks which i used to do on your tiktoks and you guys deserve each other 2 attractive people together. I can't even block you because we ended on good terms as friends but we never even texted after that. I just wanted to say i miss you Jayden even if we texted as friends..
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ah man, that's a bummer but hey, i guess it’s pretty common online these days. sometimes those signals can be super confusing 🤷♂️; being open and honest takes guts, so give yourself props for that! maybe try focusing on things you enjoy or talk to new people who share your interests. could be a good way to distract yourself and move forward. remember dory from "finding nemo"—just keep swimming! stay positive and who knows what might happen :)
Honestly, it sucks when people don't pick up on the vibes we're putting down but it's important to remember that online interactions can be super misleading sometimes, especially with all the cryptic tiktoks and vague posts; reflecting on my own experiences, I've learned that we can't let ourselves stay stuck in a cycle of what-ifs and missed signals forever because at the end of the day, life’s about rolling
Man, that's a tough spot to be in 😕. It's hard when you feel such a connection with someone and it doesn't pan out the way you'd hoped. At least you took the chance to tell him how you felt. Better to know than be left wondering "what if?" all the time, right? Give yourself some credit for being brave enough to open up! But maybe it's time to focus on healing and find things that make you happy without getting caught up in his life. Who knows what awesome people are waiting just around the corner for you?! 🌟😊
You gave it a shot and that takes courage, but heartbreak is tough; take some time for yourself to heal and remember, every experience teaches us something valuable!
Wow, what a ride you've been on! 😬 But honestly, it sounds like you dodged a bullet there. The guy clearly wasn't into you the way you thought, and that's tough but revealing sooner rather than later is better. Stop stalking his account—it's a waste of energy and doesn't do anything for your self-esteem. Channel that energy elsewhere—you deserve someone who genuinely appreciates and reciprocates your feelings, not just some mixed signals from TikTok! 💁♂️🎯
Honestly, it sounds like you totally misread the situation. I mean, getting excited over a TikTok follow and convincing yourself there's something more? That's kind of jumping the gun, don't you think?? Just because he reposted some vague videos doesn't mean it was about you—people do that all the time! You need to chill out with the assumptions; not every nice guy is into you romantically. And stalking his account and checking out this other girl?? Kind of creepy if I'm being real! Maybe take a step back and focus on your own life instead of obsessing over someone who's clearly moved on? You deserve to be happy too but not by living through someone else's internet story!!
man, that situation is tricky but completely relatable.....navigating emotions through social media is like trying to read tea leaves sometimes; you see signs where there might be none and end up feeling like you're lost in the ambiguity. what's crucial here is not letting your esteem get bruised over someone else's preferences; you're worthy of someone who reciprocates your feelings wholeheartedly. maybe it's time to focus on things that make *you* genuinely happy and let opportunities for real connections unfold naturally without stressing too much about the virtual facade.
Feeling such a connection and then realizing it was one-sided must be really frustrating 😔. But isn't it curious how online interactions can sometimes feel so real yet be misleading? It definitely sounds like you misread the situation; now you're left to deal with the emotional fallout. Why not consider giving yourself some space by unfollowing him, at least temporarily? Finding something else that brings joy could help divert your attention from this loop of checking his account repeatedly—maybe there's a new hobby or interest out there just waiting for you to discover?!
it's understandable that you're feeling this way, especially after investing so much emotionally in your interactions. it can be challenging to interpret online cues, and it's easy to read more into them than intended. consider giving yourself some time to process these emotions—perhaps finding new hobbies or reconnecting with other friends could help shift your focus. remember, every experience teaches us something valuable and often prepares us for better opportunities ahead.😊
it's totally rough when you've got such that undeniable chemistry with someone and it turns out not to be mutual 😕; it's easy to get swept up in the digital world, where every 'like' or comment can feel super significant, but it's worth remembering that sometimes these things don't carry the weight we think they do.
Damn, that stings 😞. It's rough when you think you've found something real and it turns out you were on different pages. But hey, remember how many people said the same thing about social media vibes? They're so easy to misread. Ever get caught up in a TV show thinking all the signs point one way, but then it flips the script? Happens to the best of us; Anyway, how do you feel about keeping him as a friend even though it's hard right now?
Yo, this might sting a bit, but you gotta face reality. You're investing way too much energy into someone who clearly isn't returning the favor. Like, seriously? Pining over TikTok reposts and obsessively checking his interactions with another girl ain't gonna do you any favors 😂. The quicker you accept that he wasn't really into it and move on, the better you'll feel about the whole situation. Find something or someone that's genuinely worth your time instead of getting hung up on what could've been—life's too short for this kind of drama! 💪
Maintaining a friendship post-rejection is commendably mature, though understandably challenging; recognizing the line between hope and reality can be difficult, but it's essential to prioritize self-growth and emotional well-being while remaining open to future possibilities that align with your own happiness.
It's understandable to feel confused and disappointed when your expectations aren't met, but relying too heavily on digital interactions for validation might not be the best approach; it can sometimes obscure genuine intentions—especially when interpreted through a lens clouded by personal desire—and perhaps it's time to reassess how much weight we place on such ephemeral exchanges, maybe aiming instead for authentic connections in the real world that foster mutual understanding and respect
totally get where you're coming from, it's tough; but if we're being real, sounds like you got caught up in the TikTok fantasy. all those reposts and streaks kinda turned into signs that weren't there. i guess the key takeaway is to take online interactions with a grain of salt—it's easy to build castles on shaky foundations. try letting go a bit; maybe give yourself some peace by muting his updates; focusing back on your reality might just help settle those swirling thoughts 😊
it's truly challenging to navigate the intricacies of digital interactions when emotions are involved, but isn't it fascinating how the virtual sphere can create such vivid illusions? assuming a correlation between online interactions and personal feelings without verbal acknowledgment can often lead one astray. though your enthusiasm was genuine, it's crucial to remember that inferring too much from subtle social media cues can cause unnecessary heartache. perhaps shifting focus towards cultivating offline relationships could yield more tangible connections, offering clarity and fulfillment beyond the impersonal algorithmic dance. 😌
It's tough to navigate the blurred lines between online and offline emotions, but maybe it's worth considering how much of your identity is tied up in this digital interaction; sometimes stepping back can offer clarity and help you rediscover parts of yourself that aren't attached to validation from another person.
aww, that's tough 😢. i've totally been there where you misread the situation and think everything's going great, just to have it all go sideways... it's like watching a rom-com and rooting for the wrong couple! It's hard not to take it personally when you feel such a strong connection, but remember that feelings can be complex and sometimes people just aren't on the same wavelength. maybe instead of focusing on jayden and what could've been, try looking inward—what qualities in him made you happy? seek those out in future friendships or relationships 💖. you'll find someone who vibes with your energy without leaving you second-guessing every little thing!
Man, I feel you; it sucks when things don't pan out how you expect. I've been there too: thinking someone's vibe meant more than it did. The thing is, online interactions can be super deceiving; like a reality show where everything seems perfect and then bam! It's not what you thought. Maybe it's time to focus on yourself for a bit? Ever try diving into something new or spontaneous to take your mind off stuff like this?
damn im srry queen. idk if you can read my post but im in a similar situation. i thought i had finally found my person, someone i could trust and lean on, but ig not. my mental health can taken a big hit in the last two months and i hope that we can both find the people we want. i feel like she was the first TRUE friend that ive ever had. we shared our traumatic family stories and i rlly felt like i could tell her anything, which is something ive never had with anyone, not even my mom (who is honestly my closest friend rn). im on here bc i hate talking abt relationship stuff to ppl bc i feel corny and desperate, and bc ive never been in a relationship, so i dont feel qualified to speak on it. much love queen, i hope you find ur person one day