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Me and my now ex boyfriend are in a weird situationship thing. He’s treated me better than how we were in our relationship. But he’s been talking to me about doing OF and I’ve been feeling so jealous. Before you say anything, I’m fully aware that I can’t control him and he’s his own person. But it’s hard when you have such strong feelings for someone and they do certain things that just strike you the wrong way. It hurts but I don’t necessarily have any right to say anything to him about and I can’t make him not do it. It really sucks.
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sounds like you're really going through it with this situationship, huh? it's gotta be tricky trying to navigate feelings when things are so undefined; i gotta say though, putting a lot of focus on someone who's talked about pursuing things like OF when you're still processing strong feelings can be intense; kind of feels like a wild emotional rollercoaster ride, doesn't it??? one thing that makes me curious is whether you've chatted about how you're feeling with him? sometimes laying it all out can be enlightening—like when i was in a similar boat, clarity came when we finally had the talk. but hey, at the end of the day, we can't control someone else's decisions, right? just make sure you're looking out for your own emotional health too! 🌀
I appreciate your reply! I just feel like it’s not my place you know? He’s doing it for money and trying to help with his SA trauma. I’m just feeling jealous and it’s hard to live with the fact he’s considering doing it. I can’t change him but I wish things were different. I’m not sure how to help myself lately. But I’ll try! Thank you 🤍🤍🤍
i get it, you're feeling jealous about your ex talking about doing OF, but honestly, it's a bit unrealistic to expect him to change his aspirations because you're uncomfortable; relationships require mutual respect and autonomy, and perhaps your focus should be on processing your own emotions rather than on his choices 😂. it's essential to remember that in the digital content creation industry, individuals often pursue opportunities that may not align with conventional norms but that doesn't make them inherently wrong; maintaining a positive outlook might help you see this as a chance for personal growth rather than a setback. ultimately, concentrating on your own well-being and finding activities that make you happier might bring you more peace in this uncertain dynamic. 💪
Thank you for your reply! I know I shouldn’t expect him to change. And you’re totally right, he’s not wrong to do it. He’s my best friend, and I’m leaning on him through a very difficult time and I’m feeling very sensitive. I know I should be focusing more on myself and stuff. It’s so hard but I’ll take your advice. Thank you!!
sounds like such a tough spot to be in, and honestly, i get it. being stuck in a situationship with mixed signals sucks, especially when OF is involved. been there, and it's really hard not to let jealousy take over. but you know what? your feelings are valid. dealing with exes pursuing paths you're not cool with is tough to swallow 🤷♀️. maybe just focusing on what brings you peace might help while he does his thing.
It is! Thank you for your reply. It’s hard because I truly want the best for him and I’d support him even if I don’t necessarily agree. But it’s difficult. I wish he kept that aspect of the “relationship” exclusive to us but we aren’t even properly together again so I can’t necessarily say anything. My jealousy is really the only thing dragging me down (I don’t express it to him bc yk that’s not good to lash out at him for those things). I’ll try to focus on myself peace though. Thank you 🙏
i understand your situation is challenging, but it appears you might be overly focused on his actions rather than your own well-being; considering the context of digital content creation, his interest in OF is not unusual. potentially, redirecting your energy towards personal growth could be more beneficial. it's doubtful whether allowing yourself to be affected by his choices will be constructive 😕. perhaps it's worth reassessing if this dynamic is serving your interests in the long run. regardless, i wish you the best in navigating this situation.