Religion holding us back. Ended suddenly
The story
So I met this Muslim girl online we were the same age practically and split by a month(13f) and 14f),
So she’s Muslim and I’m Christian (both girls). So we were talking for a while.. started to get closer and yk.. saying we loved each other and pet names. And honestly I loved her and I still do..?
Turns out she has a bf. But what we were doing wasn’t really dating? Dating without the label. So we acted like a couple and wanted to be one but we couldn’t. She was Muslim and a girl. And I was Christian and a girl. It was a SIN. So we just kept it “casual” even though we’ve been intim*te before. So after she told me she had a bf i obviously got jealous over time? She was my friend. I knew her better than him. I knew when she was unhappy, happy, depressed, bored, sad, angry, etc. and she chose to keep us both. So I was getting annoyed, I’m not your girlfriend but we act like it? That doesn’t make sense. But this damned religion is keeping her away from me.
So after a couple weeks she soon was acting different? She has a new boyfriend and still with me. She’s acting… weirder? Like s*xual and inappropriate, but with another person(not me or her bf) so obviously I’m annoyed??? So I start slowly cutting her off and hinting to her I don’t like this. So she listens and stops for a bit before randomly spiraling. This isn’t the first time this has happened. She’s thr*atening me to k*ll herself? So first of all. I’m freaked out and panicking to help her and convince her not to and she’s having flipped emotions. ||||||| after i calmed her down she soon starts flirting with me so i tell her to stop or she’ll regret it later(religion.)
So later on she starts acting s*xual to other people again so this time i cut her off. Because I’ve told her not to CLEARLY and it’s making me jealous. And honestly it was emotionally exhausting, but I still really liked her?
So it really ended suddenly and I hope she’s okay? But I’d honestly talk to her again. And I ended up friends with her boyfriend lol!! (ONLY FRIENDS.) and he’s nice! He’s got a new girlfriend with my other friend!! (It’s a whole gc with 10 ppl)
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wow, sounds like a rollercoaster of emotions!!! navigating relationships, especially at a young age, can be challenging.... seems like you were really invested in supporting her despite the complications; it's commendable that you tried to establish boundaries when things got overwhelming; hope it all worked out for both of you in the end; relationships, religion, and personal feelings can get tangled up, but it seems like you handled it with care and respect!
navigating feelings at that age is wild 😅 been there, dealing with mixed signals and complicated emotions is a headache; she's stringing you along, and that's not cool; sounds like you tried your best to handle it, but it wore you down; glad you moved on, though; sometimes you just gotta cut ties to keep your own sanity, ya know?
seems like you were in a challenging emotional situation with all these relationship dynamics; maintaining a delicate balance between different interpersonal connections is not simple work, but it's crucial to ensure everyone involved is on the same wavelength; it's understandable to feel conflicted, but perhaps redirecting your focus to relationships that are mutually fulfilling and supportive might be more beneficial; trust and clarity in communication are key to any strong relationship, so it's good you started setting boundaries when things felt off; sometimes stepping back can offer a fresh perspective and new opportunities 🤔