I am sitting in my dorm room at uni, just thinking... i'm already 19 and still a virgin. not that it's bad or anything... but it feels like everyone else around me has already crossed that bridge, you know? it's starting to stress me out honestly.

my friends don't know about this little secret of mine and i'm kinda dreading the day they might find out. feels like one of those things they all assume you're done with by now. i mean, we're all adults here. sometimes i worry what they'd think or say if they'd somehow find out.

i've been with my girlfriend since we were both 16. she's amazing and we're on the same page about a lot of things, especially our religion. we're both pretty committed to waiting until marriage but... man, sometimes it just feels impossible to wait that long.

i guess the big question rattling around in my head is: what's even the right age to lose your virginity? everywhere around me there's all these different messages being thrown about it. when you're this age you're supposed to be doing this or feeling like that...

it's confusing and makes me wonder if there's even a 'right' time other than what each of us personally decides for our own selves.

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