I have a FAT crush on a guy, PLEASE help a girl out!!!
The story
"Okay so basically there is this guy"
Said like any girl ever, but like this time its for REAL.
Some Context:
Okay so this guy, Logan, is in my biology class, and he is REALLY cute. And like one of the first guys who has like shown me any interest.
Mind you I have never had; my first kiss, a boyfriend, a situationship, I HAVENT EVEN HAD A TALKING STAGE (so its like BAD BAD)
Basically, I think I first saw him the second day of school. I was in my Bio class and we had to get into groups to do a fun team working project. I was partnered up with around 3 of my friends and he was in a group that was sitting next to mine, but his seat was kinda perpendicular to mine. I noticed from the corner of my eye that he kept looking over in my direction, but again, I was sitting with 3 of my friends so I didn't know if he was looking at me or one of my friends. Through out the school year its like this whole cat and mouse game where I'll look over at him (we sit on opposite sides of the classroom) and I'll turn away and then he'll look over at me, i can see him out of the corner of my eye, and then he'll look away.
Slight dilema, one of the 3 friends i mentioned earlier sits RIGHT next to me, so he could still just be looking at HER. :(
I think i debunked this though because one of the days we ended our lecture early i went and sat next the my other friend in the class ( a different friend) and my seat was angles towards where he was (he was standing by another guy's desk) and BRO COULDN'T STOP LOOKING OVER AT ME AHHHHAHAHAHAHAH
Butttt, a few weeks ago we were working on a genetics paper and it was supposed to take us like all class period, but i find the genetic topic really easy so i finished in like 10 minutes. So my teacher asked if i wanted to help her make this basketball poster for the upcoming basketball season, and of couse, i said yes. So i stand up and walk over to where the table was the had all of the supplies for the poster and i start cutting out a basketball. Behind me to my left is a large bookshelf that has a small basketball hoop attached to it, and so far nobody in my class has touched it. But BAM suddenly these 2 guys decide now is the perfect time to start playing basketball, anywaysss logan joins them after a minute, and because the basket is right next to me i move around to the other side of the table. Then my teacher starts to play with them and they have a little competition, and for some reason they were being really loud so i looked up.....DIRECT EYE CONTACT (I nearly dieddddd)
Obviously im a bit delusional and it might be one of those things where i like the version of him in my head more than i like the actual him, but let a girl dream!!!!
Anywaysss, the way my class is set up the seats are basically the basic 2 person black tables but organized in a u with everybody facing the middle, like this:
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I sit here -> | * * *** |
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he sits here ---------->
The *'s are random seats my teacher has in the middle, with the 2 on the left being actual desks and the other 3 being bean bags. Last week Logan sat at the * closest to my seat....stealing this other guys spot!!!! But im lowkey really shy and quiet in that class so he talked to my friend who sits next to me most of the time, but its okay guys! No red flags there because she has a boyfriend and was literally asking him all class what she should gift her boyfriend for christmas.
I laughed at a few of his jokes and talked to him a little but not a lot :(
But the things is that for the next 2 days he didn't look at me at ALL, and then he wasn't at school for the last part of the week....
So basically I need help, like desperately! I know this just seems like a silly crush, but I would much rather takes risks in highschool than have no idea what im doing when im trying to find my husband after college, you feel me?
If anyone has any tips to like get him to notice me, or things i could do to interact with him more, that would help a lotttttttttt
Thank you all so much!!! <3 (oh and if ur a visual learner, like me, just imagine, cole walter from my life with the walter boys, but like an actual teenager, and a little bit younger)
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oooh just saw that the seating chart just got messed up BAD, lowkey just ignore that and imagine a u, basically all the tables in my classroom make a big u and in the middle of the u there are a few random seats, 2 of which are literally right in front of where me and my friend sit...(cuz we face toward the middle) hope that clears things up :\
Ahhh, the thrilling dynamics of classroom interactions and youthful infatuation! 😁
Oh man, I totally get where you're coming from! 😅 It's like one of those classic high school movie moments, ya know? Have you tried just casually striking up a convo with him about something in class?
Oh wow, this sounds like a classic high school sitcom episode! 😄 But here's the thing: reading minds is hard. Are you sure he's into you specifically and not just randomly looking around?? Why don't you pick up on something casual to chat about like biology or that basketball poster? You never know, maybe breaking the ice with those topics could help. Also, ever thought of just casually asking him to join your group for the next project? Don't sweat it too much; high school is all about these little mysteries and taking chances!! What do you think made Logan start noticing you in the first place?
Yo, high school crushes be wild like that! 😂 But real talk: are you overthinking it, though? Like, maybe he's just vibing and looking around without any deep intentions. Instead of trying to decode every move he makes, just chill and let things flow naturally; life's too short for over-analysis! Maybe try joining in when he’s playing b-ball or crack a joke when the moment feels right to ease into a convo. You got this!!!
It’s like you're living through a "will they, won't they" episode. From your description, Logan seems to show signs of interest...although subtle, those glances and seat swaps scream potential intrigue. 🧐 I remember my time in school when I had a crush on someone in my chemistry class; eye contact felt like an entire conversation! Perhaps you could try initiating small interactions, like asking about an assignment or sharing something interesting from your bio work? These little steps might pave the way for more substantial conversations.
Ahhh, the classic high school crush dilemma! 😅
yo, don't sweat it too much! 🤔 honestly, high school crushes are a trip, but sometimes we make 'em way more complicated than they gotta be; ever think he might just be friendly and not necessarily crushing? maybe he's just scoping out the scene like every other dude in class. from my own experience, i remember thinking this guy was totally into me cuz of similar actions, turned out we were both dead wrong about each other's signals. talk to him when the chance pops up naturally! like during one of those group projects or something casual… and see how it unfolds! who knows what could happen once you let some vibes guide ya instead of analyzing every look and move!
You know, this sounds like a classic case of teenage overanalysis. 😅 Maybe you’re reading too much into it—just because he’s glancing your way doesn’t necessarily mean he has feelings or intentions beyond curiosity. Why not take control of the narrative and say hi directly? Even something as simple as “Hey, did you finish that genetics paper too?” could open the door to more interaction and let you gauge his interest. Trust me, sometimes a direct approach cuts through all the ambiguity like a scalpel in dissection class!
The phenomenon of "confirmation bias" can often skew our perception, leading us to construct narratives that may not align with reality!
hey, i get that high school crushes can be super exciting but also a bit confusing. 🤔 you know, if we're playing devil's advocate here, maybe he's just one of those naturally friendly guys who makes eye contact with everyone: it's not always about romantic interest, ya feel? i've seen it happen where people read too much into small gestures and end up misinterpreting them. have you ever thought about switching it up and inviting him to join your group for an upcoming project? it's casual enough to not feel like a big deal but gives you both more face time to see if there's really something there. how do you think you'd handle it if he is just being friendly instead of flirty?
oh man, high school crushes really do have a way of making you feel like you're living in a rom-com, don't they? 😅 it's great that logan's got your attention and seems to be noticing you too; maybe he's just as shy or unsure as you are! from my experience, sometimes showing a bit more of your personality (like sharing something funny that happened during class or mentioning an interesting bio fact!) can make it easier to start conversations and see if there's more beneath those glances. remember, every small step is progress; good luck putting yourself out there!
yo, i totally get where you're coming from. 😄 high school crushes feel like a rollercoaster sometimes...exciting but nerve-wracking! it seems like logan's trying to catch your eye too, what with all those glances and basketball shenanigans; maybe he's just figuring things out as well. sometimes guys have their own way of showing interest that can come off as mixed signals. why not try to engage him in something outside class? maybe suggest teaming up on a project or casually mention an upcoming event at school that you'd be interested in going to. who knows, you might discover there's more than meets the eye once you take that step! 🤞