WHAT SHOULD I DO? asking if we could meet up
The story
So the thing is I'm in first year in my engineering college and 2nd sem. So I kinda used to run into this guy like rarely while commuting to college in public bus and like barely see him at college and I like him. And then at like my 3rd last exam went to him and asked his name, his department and told him my name. If I remember I used to have eye contacts with him like from my pov and then I get like 3 day gap for each exam and on the last day of exam which was like almost 6-7 days after I asked him his name he sent me req in insta and I accept his req. And then he texted me first too and asked why I asked him his name. I told him I wanted to get to know him seriously and we kinda ended up talking and realized we both kinda have same interest and hobbies. So I ended up asking if we could meet up and we met 2 times during the break and so he walked me home during these 2 meetups and when I told him about my case he told me he doesnt remember me at bus but rather used to see me sometimes during canteen from faraway and like most times my back. And it's been like 17 days or smth and now he doesnt text me first and college started from this week's monday and I asked him about text he says I find it boring to text and like I dont know what to say so I dont text. And when I asked him about how he should also ask me to meet up instead of me only he said you should plan the meetups. But then again when I'm with him he mirrors my way of talking like yesterday when I went like mhmm he goes like mhmmm and I went mhmm mhmm and then he also went like mhmmm mhmmm and then another time when I went like ahaa he goes like ahaaa too. And then he walked me home too yesterday? Like he goes like probably I need to go with you too. And then he told me how he used his money which was given to him to buy jacket to eat with me when we met up 2 times in the holiday and during the meet up at holiday he even held my bag like the stuff till I got home and we even shared the same umbrella and yesterday he got on bus and like asked if I wanted the window seat before sitting down by extending his hands and then he also kinda avoids eye contact with me but like we shared the same food, like I mean he ate from the same spoon as me and so I met him today at bus while traveling to college and he sat beside me and then again he avoided eye contact like talked straightly without turning to my side and so I don't know anymore. I'm just overthinking and overthinking. He also mentioned how he downloaded insta and tiktok to follow me and said like how he first just wanted to ask me why I asked his name and then somehow it's like this. What should I do????? This shit so confusing me.
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Wow, that's quite a story! Sounds like he's giving mixed signals. 🤔 Maybe he's just shy or not great at texting? Some people are better at face-to-face convos. I’d say keep communicating openly and see if you both can find a balance that works for you. Just be yourself and let things unfold naturally!
well he did say he was bad at texting and would prefer real life meetings but still he would like text first and try during like very very early days and I don't know anymore. I'm just here overthinking
Well, it seems like you're overanalyzing this situation quite a bit; it's understandable given the mixed messages. 🤔 From what you've described, he shows interest by meeting up and even making gestures like sharing an umbrella or walking you home. However, his lack of texting might simply reflect his discomfort with digital communication rather than his feelings towards you; remember that actions often speak louder than words! Perhaps focus on spending time together in real life and see where things naturally go without putting too much pressure on figuring out every little detail right now.