I'm done with Band class
The story
ok, I'm really pissed at my band teacher right now. Today, she asked the flutes (that's what I play) to play together just us right as I was yawning, so I didn't end up playing because I was busy yawning. She said something along the lines of: "Ok, I'm about to cut you about of the performance. You are never ready, and it's usually you missing the most notes." AND SHE SAID THIS TO ME. Me, who never misses a note. Like, no way she said I'M the one who's never ready when there's those two girls next to me who don't put their flutes up until the last second. She just blamed all their bad notes and unreadiness on ME. I've been a scapegoat my whole life, band was my only safe place where I knew I was good as everyone else, maybe better, and everyone took the blame for their own shit. It was the one place where I didn't have to have a million fingers pointing at me. Not anymore I guess.
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Wow, that's rough!!!! I totally get it, being blamed for someone else's poor embouchure and rhythm discrepancies... Can ruin everything;
Teachers should evaluate with more precision!!!!!! It's unfair!!! Keep your chin up!!!! It's not your fault you're the scapegoat. Maintain your fingering fluency and practice those arpeggios!!!!! You deserve recognition, not blame... Stay strong in your musical journey...
I deeply empathize with your situation, and I can understand the frustration that arises when misunderstandings occur during rehearsals. It seems particularly unfair to be singled out, especially when your personal practice and preparation are at a high standard. I have experienced similar situations in ensemble settings, where it felt as though blame was unjustly assigned, despite my attentiveness to dynamics and articulation. Nonetheless, it's important to consider that these moments can stem from a teacher's temporary oversight rather than a reflection of your abilities.
Continuing to focus on your tone quality and consistency, while communicating openly with your teacher, might help resolve this misunderstanding. Keep your passion for music alive, and know that your dedication is invaluable. 😊
Man, that's a total bummer,m, legit!!!!! Your band teacher really threw you under the bus; like, what the heck???? I've seen this happen before, and it ain't cool!!!! I mean, for real, I played percussion, and they always said, "You're too loud," when it was the trumpets!!!! Dude, it's so freakin' unfair to pick on someone who's just caught off guard, like everyone yawns, am I right????? Just keep doin' your thing and don't let this nonsense drag you down........ Focus on your scales and show 'em what you got, 'cause you totally rock that flute!!!!! 😡