I don't know myself anymore
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Hey guys, I’m 21M and something has been bothering me. It’s stressing me out to the point where I feel like I’m losing myself, even though I seem okay to people. I’m stressing about my future and life. I’m still dependent on my family, and I’ll be graduating next year (2018). That thought is making me depressed.
I wouldn’t say I’m bad at academics, but I never give it my all, and even though I manage okay, or some I know I could do better. I always tell myself that one day, at some moment or event, I’ll start giving my best(not only for academics but for my life) but while waiting for that moment, I feel like I’ve been drowning. Zoning out has become normal for me I can’t even fall asleep or walk without zoning out. If I start thinking about my life, I just get stressed.
What’s made this even worse is that I used to be religious I’d go to church, read the Bible... but now I don’t do any of that.
Am just clueless right now and had no reason that I pursue.I’m just here to ask you, what’s something that kept you working hard? What was the moment or reason that made you want to change or to want more in life?

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man, I feel you, stressing over the future is something we all go through. but here's the thing, waiting for that magical moment to do your best might be a trap; you'll just keep waiting. I've been in a similar spot, thinking I'd just wake up one day and everything would click, but life ain't always that neat.
it's cool that you're aware of it, though. that's the first step; start taking action, even if they’re baby steps. i used to put off things, thinking I’d get a sign or something. turns out, the sign is just taking that first step yourself. you've got this. just begin somewhere and momentum will build 😉
hey, i really get where you're coming from!!! it's tough when you're stuck waiting for that perfect moment to change, right? it can feel like you're just treading water. i was in the same boat myself; always thinking, "someday, I'll get it together." but that day sometimes never shows up. you're definitely not alone in feeling lost and stressed about it all.
i hear you about zoning out and struggling to focus on life stuff too. sometimes, it's really hard to find that motivation to give it your all. but you know what? that's okay. it took me ages to figure out that waiting around for inspiration wasn't helping. i found that setting small, achievable goals can be a game-changer; like chipping away at a huge block of marble until a sculpture emerges.
and hey, falling away from things that once gave us comfort, like religion, can add to the stress, but finding new ways to ground yourself could be super helpful. take it one day at a time, and don't sweat it too much!!!
hey, it is entirely understandable to feel burdened by the uncertainty of life's path and wondering when that transformative moment will arrive. in the realm of human experience, waiting for the moment of change is something many go through; the anticipation can be overwhelming. your concern about dependency on your family and the impending transition is a normal part of the growth process.
hey, i totally get where you're coming from and I’ve been there too. stressing over the future can feel overwhelming 😬. but, honestly, waiting for that 'perfect moment' to give it your all might not work. life doesn't always hand us that inspiring event. i used to think like that and it just made me more anxious. instead, try setting small goals. start with something manageable and build from there.
also, i hear you on the religious aspect. sometimes losing touch with what once grounded us can add to the stress. maybe revisiting it could help? just a thought.
feeling dependent on your family is tough, but it is part of the transition process. give yourself some grace and try not to let it weigh you down too much. keep pushing forward!💪
in my opinion, waiting for that ideal moment to initiate change might be a bit counterproductive; life rarely presents those picture-perfect opportunities. the sooner we realize that, the better.
i used to think I'd suddenly get a burst of motivation and clarity too. but honestly, sometimes you just need to start moving forward, even if you’re unsure. progress often sparks more motivation..
dude, seriously??? waiting for the perfect moment to change is like waiting for pigs to fly! it's just not practical. reality check: life doesn't work like a Hallmark movie, and those moments almost never come.
“you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” right? so just start shooting. zoning out and feeling disconnected from your religious habits is something a lot of people go through, but maybe exploring other ways to find meaning in life is the ticket. i've been down that road, and believe me, waiting around doesn’t do squat; you've gotta make your own moves and stop expecting some magic event to push you forward.
yeah man, i totally get what you're sayin'. life feels like a rollercoaster and waiting for that perfect moment to change can feel like watching paint dry. "better late than never" doesn't always cut it when you're waitin' around for somethin' to just click.
i've definitely felt stuck in a rut too, and it's easy to lose touch with things that used to be important, like religion or even just daily goals. when you're hangin' in that mental boat of 'someday,' it's like you're paralyzed. it's brave of you to open up about feelin' lost cuz honestly, a lotta folks feel the same and don't talk about it. we all need a little push sometimes ❤️
hey, i completely understand where you're coming from😞. life can definitely feel like it's spiraling out of control sometimes, and waiting for that pivotal moment to start giving it your all can be exhausting; i've been there, questioning when everything will finally fall into place.
it's tough feeling disconnected, especially when you've lost touch with things that once brought you comfort, like religion. i've experienced that void myself, and it makes everything seem a bit more daunting. keep in mind, though, that it's okay to feel this way. everyone has their own timeline for navigating these challenges. take comfort in knowing you're not alone in this journey 🙌.
man, i get it, stressing about the future is a total weight on your shoulders. but waiting around for that perfect moment to kick things into high gear? not the best strategy; life doesn't usually hand us that golden opportunity gift-wrapped. trust me, i’ve been caught in that trap, hoping for a wake-up call that never comes.
it's also a heavy load to feel disconnected from things that used to ground you, like religion. "life's what happens when you're busy making other plans," right? it's all part of figuring stuff out, so don't be too hard on yourself. finding that motivation isn't easy, but starting with small steps might build up the momentum you need. keep pushing, you'll find your way through this ❤️
i totally understand the pressure you're feeling, but waiting for a specific moment to push yourself might not be the way to go! it reminds me of the saying, "the perfect time may never come." you gotta start making your own opportunities instead of just hangin’ around for them!🎯 life doesn't always hand us a clear-cut sign that it's time to kick it into gear.
feeling detached from past routines like church is tough, but maybe it's a chance to explore other ways to find meaning or grounding. sometimes, change is disguised as loss. remember, life is more about the journey than waiting for that destination moment. keep your head up, and try setting small, measurable goals for yourself to start moving forward with purpose. you got this!!!