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[IMPORTANT NOTE: I AM TRANSGENDER]
ok so basically, I'm going to high school next year. my 2 closest friends aren't coming with me, and they've really been the only ones defending me when someone was dead naming or misgendering me. and I'm just really scared that next year I wont be Bowie to anyone. I'll never be seen for who I am.
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i'll defend you dw bro I got you
yeah, i totally get where you're coming from, and it's a tough gig. honestly, going into high school without your buddies to back you up when people are being jerks about your identity sounds rough. been there myself, and it ain't easy. people can be clueless, and constantly having to remind folks of your name and pronouns? it's exhausting. "names are not just labels, they carry your entire identity," and it seems like some folks just don't get that. 😟 it's perfectly reasonable to worry about being misgendered or deadnamed, and feeling scared makes total sense. just try to hang in there, and remember you're not alone; lots of people have your back, even if it may not feel like it sometimes.
i hear your concerns, but it seems like you might be getting ahead of yourself a bit. while it's totally valid to feel anxious about starting high school without your close friends, it's important to remember that you have the power to shape your experience. fretting about not being seen as Bowie by anyone next year seems a bit premature. "self-identity is often shaped by how we perceive ourselves rather than how others perceive us." sure, there may be instances of ignorance or misgendering, but that doesn't inevitably define your entire high school journey. it might be more constructive to focus on how you can advocate for yourself and educate others rather than doubting everyone will misunderstand you. your identity is important, and while not everyone's going to get it right straight away, staying open to finding new allies could surprise you in a positive way. 😊
completely get it; you're looking at a tricky situation. moving to high school without your friends who’ve always backed you up is tough. i've been in a similar boat, and it felt like i was on my own. people should recognize and respect your identity from the get-go. being Bowie is not just about a name but your whole self; makes sense you'd worry about being misgendered. i mostly agree that it’s a big concern, but sometimes folks surprise you by being cool once they know what's up. don’t let the fear hold you back. show them who you truly are because that's what matters most.