Teacher at his wedding!!
The story
Heyah!
This story isn't my own. It's from one of my teachers. And no names are included.
Dude was my Math teacher(HS). I was always curious about my teachers lives... So they shared.
At the time... I wanted to be a wedding planner. So, I asked a lot of my teachers about their weddings or their romantic relationships.
I was sorta the goodie-two-shoes. So they shared with me.
Back to my math teacher... He shared that he God super drunk on his wedding. And he bought a fake cake... Which I can understand for budget reasons, but at least get the top of the cake for the 1 year anniversary😭!! Dude didn't🫠. He bought Costco's sheet cake. Again, nothing wrong with that. I just personally think the getting drunk on one's own wedding isn't very smart.
The next story is if my ASL teacher. She was dating a dude for 7 years, then the dude cheated on her. She was very sweet... Albeit pretty shy... But cheating shouldn't be happening😑. Regardless of any excuses... Talk to your partner. Get therapy. Talk to some friends, family, even strangers can help give advice. Also, if dude had feelings for someone else, but still loved my ASL teacher... Is that really love? What is love? Dating for 7 years, you'd think all your opinions, beliefs, and expectations would align at some point.
Same goes for one of my therapists... Girly dated this dude for 5 years, no ring, and a cheater. My therapist said that she used to be a "plain Jane" but started eating healthier, taking care of herself, and simply enjoying her life more than she was before. She'd get dolled up and spend time with her SO. And the shitty part is that after a vacation to I think it was some sorta islandy area... Greece or Italy I think... Dude broke up with her after finding someone he liked better. My therapist at the time said the girl looked like how she used to be... "Plane Jane". Nothing wrong with a plain Jane... But come on, break up before the cheating. And due was cheating on my therapist for 3 years🫠. Sad ain't it🥴. By the way... This relates to school cause she was my HS therapist😅.
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I must admit, I mostly agree with the perspectives shared. However, I can't help but question the judgment displayed in some of the situations. As a planner myself, the notion of a fake cake on such a momentous occasion—without even a keepsake tier for the anniversary—raises a few eyebrows. And as for those romantic entanglements, it's truly disheartening to witness such breaches of trust. In my experience, authenticity and transparency are paramount in any relationship, whether personal or professional. I once knew a colleague who faced similar dilemmas, and it always baffled me why individuals don’t communicate more effectively before things go awry. Would love to hear if others, too, have encounters that made them ponder over these matters!🧐
Gash! I totally agree... I just didn't wanna ruffle any feathers with people who don't view certain wedding traditions as important. Since these days... Money is very tight for a lot of people🥲. And I get that🫠💸.
Oh! I almost forgot... Sorry to hear about your buddy🥲. Cheating can be rough😮💨. My English teacher is actually for cheating😫!! Since she got her current husband from cheating🫠. You could consider her the "other girl" but some might consider her "the one who won"🤷🏻♀️? It's crazy to me🤯!! Luckily non of my classmates agreed with her... But it was crazy that my English teach would think such a thing... So again, sorry for your buddy... And I wish your buddy all the best!!
Honestly... Responded to the wrong person. I'm still getting used to this this was supposed to be for
ExtravagantTurquoiseShadowHypotenuseInJakartaWithEmbarrassment. But um... The website immediately brings you to the top comment🫠. Sorry for the constant notifications😮💨.
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10d agoNo problem for the notifications! I suppose my comment stays at the top because I was the first to comment, seems to be ordered like that 🤔
wow, totally feelin' this story! agree with all of it, honestly. weddings can be super crazy, man... planning ain't easy but getting wasted??? that's risky; i knew a buddy who did the same thing, and it was a legit disaster. relationships are another trip, right? gotta say, cheatin' just ain't cool, no matter what.. my bro went through somethin' similar, and it messed with him bad. sometimes you gotta wonder if people ever think it through.. just wish folks would communicate better, ya know? relationships are complex and deserve respect 😅
There seems to be a common belief between all the comments... Communication is key😄👍🏻✨!!!
Oh! I almost forgot... Sorry to hear about your buddy🥲. Cheating can be rough😮💨. My English teacher is actually for cheating😫!! Since she got her current husband from cheating🫠. You could consider her the "other girl" but some might consider her "the one who won"🤷🏻♀️? It's crazy to me🤯!! Luckily non of my classmates agreed with her... But it was crazy that my English teach would think such a thing... So again, sorry for your buddy... And I wish your buddy all the best!!
i gotta say, I’m not feelin’ this story at all. think everyone’s got their own way of doin’ things. weddings and relationships are personal, right? even if someone gets "super drunk" at their wedding, maybe that’s their way of cuttin’ loose 🤷♂️ the thing about relationships, though, is that love ain't a one-size-fits-all deal. the whole “cheatin’ ain't cool” bit, we get it, but folks make mistakes. ever heard “to each their own”? everyone deserves a chance to figure their own stuff out. so I’m not buyin’ into all the negativity here, really.
This is a subjective... Opinion-based website. So, I understand that some of the things said might ruffle some feathers.
Yes... For some, getting super drunk on their wedding day is their own choice. I totally understand that. But that doesn't mean that it's the right choice. There are times and places to cut loose and there are times to not. Weddings usually are filling with love as well as fun. But being drunk and not remembering anything is sorta a waist of time, energy, money, and memories that could've been had. I mean to say that my Math teacher got black out drunk😑. Which is different then having a few drinks and enjoying the evening with family, friends, and the one he loves.
By the way, I never mentioned anywhere that the cheating thing fits all. It's my own opinion that couples should communicate before breaking things off. It's a gradual process. And I didn't say that they're obligated to. But it's just my own subjective opinion that there would be a clean break up, or a continuation of a relationship, if they talked more😮💨.
And we're all figuring out all our own sh*t🥴! That's why some of us come here to air out our grievances.
So thank you for sharing your opinions. And I understand where you're coming from. And that we agree to disagree... And that's A-okay😄👍🏻✨!!
One last thing... My English teacher was for cheating. And I may not agree, but she's an example of how cheating can work out for some people. That's how she got her husband. And I'm happy for them and her children. And a year or so later, his ex wife became there friends. But again, it's not very common around where I live and lived, so it's understandable that my view is... Well... My view... If they makes any sense🫠.