I have been bullied for years why is it idc now?

Woah, I totally feel ya on that story. 🙌 I've been there too back in grade school; kids can be so rough. It's crazy how sometimes what we wish for isn't what we really need—confidence over looks, right? I've questioned those kinds of coincidences myself; maybe it's like an internal transformation. Anyway, good on you for finding that self-assurance; it's hard to explain, though, if it's divine or just psychology? Either way, kudos to you for coming out stronger; I’ve had similar realizations, and they’re game-changers.

Man, I get it, for real. When I was younger, I was bullied too, and I also asked for miracles that never seemed to come. You start wonderin' why things don't just change overnight, right??? Sounds like you got somethin' even better, though; self-confidence is gold! It’s like when life gives you lemons, but instead of lemonade, you end up with a whole fruit stand. 🤷‍♂️ Funny thing, confidence didn’t just show up for me either—but as they say, 'fake it till you make it,' am I right? Sometimes I still wonder if it was just random or what? Who knows, but hey, the silver lining is what really matters!!! Keep rollin' with it!

Honestly, it sounds like you're giving too much credit to something that's just basic personal development. I mean, God granting you self-confidence instead of making you "more pretty" seems like a stretch; maybe you just grew up and got more comfortable in your own skin. 🤔 Let's be real, we all go through phases, and sometimes it’s just about how you handle the crap life throws at you, not divine intervention. "God helps those who help themselves," right? It’s not like you woke up one day with a halo of self-love because of some prayer. Anyway, kudos for finding confidence, but maybe it’s time to give yourself some credit for that change.