I don't deserve life
The story
My survival instincts are good! This "anxiety" is really just me keeping safe. I don't get why others don't act like this. When so many things go wrong or you see so many movies that are "relatable" go wrong, "best case" becomes "best lie". It's what my thoughts tell me. My period cramps now feel worse and I feel more rapid heart-beating, but really, it's not a panic attack, it's just deep focus. No adult would be that nice, especially in events like MEFCC where you expect older people. No way they'd be so nice. They'd all probably politely tell me no for a photo but do it with someone else. It's possible. school, the exams, the marks, the resume, my ranking, my future, my potential husband, my future career, my lack of skills, my dumbness, my ugliness, my friendlessness, the million things that could go super wrong with evidence to support it!? Are they not real?! I'm not capable, I'm stupid. Then one day, I'll wear a bikini showing my belly hair even though I wax my arms and legs every 4 months (my hair grows back kinda slow after waxing) even though I don't feel safe wearing them but I did it anyways because other girls did it in some random pool party I get invited to by the cool girls until they take photos of me and post it on their Instagram group because they secretly despise me. The girls in my class may "accidentally" ignore me and act all nice and sweet and acknowledging, I don't trust people, they can be hiding stuff. I know this from watching "Eighth Grade", that movie was...something. Even though I was 6 in 2018, it doesn't matter. Apparently the 13 experience is real! Every kid thinks like me, they all plan and think about potential life issues. I may get cancer somehow even though nobody in the family struggled, maybe some ancestral gene kicked in to do that. Many people say that movie was relatable, and while I can't remember most of it, it's bound to happen! My parents will be like the ones in movies confused with technology or my hyper-fixations, even though unlike the tropes they know computer and tech well because they're engineers (I never understood that trope growing up) and mom works in a media company and when dad's in the mood, he'll talk about a cool non-fiction book he read about war or murder cases or philosophy or memoirs. "Awkward" becomes "awful" when you know deep down your worth in the grand scheme of things is 0. I only matter to my family because of mammalian instinct, not love. I was wrong about stuff like whales, they don't love, they just raise them. If I score low, if I look so ugly in MEFCC no grown cosplayer would wanna take a photo with me even with permission, where no matter after the next 7 years I'm still alone, I work as an accountant or back-breaking fry cook instead of even a marine biologist because that's actually still a cool job that's more practical, I'll just be a golly joke in the grand scheme of life.
Sometimes people hate people for no reason. My parents are probably doing this because they're like every other parent of nerds, give up and only tolerate it because their kid doesn't listen when they hear "Anime is bad!" or "Read real books!" or "Japanese are weird!" Dad may say a few things like, "Japanese work culture sucks" or "Why don't you read more non-fiction books?" but he doesn't force it, he should. "Kindness" is when someone says yes to make you happy, not because they enjoy it. Dad may have opted out from watching JoJo, but mom continues, claims her favorite of Part 1 is Speedwagon, and she still chooses to watch with me. How weird is that!? Also, since the world is so mean and hostile, I've heard of transgressive art. Since I draw, how about I skip trying to be cool like Araki and do the shocking, disturbing and gory or s-xual stuff to show my anger, like how other people vent. I may regret it in the long run since it isn't me, but apparently according to many movies I watched which are coming-of-age, what is "you" at 13? So, maybe "you" can be super angry, open about your violent ideas and opinions, draw nasty stuff, and I don't know, what do artists who vent draw? I end up drawing my favorite characters or my own characters or crafting, but I don't know, to be truly soothed, should you draw the "art of transgression"? I've seen artists draw p-do art or intense gore or nudity or characters uh...doing IT, and again, I'll regret it very badly because it's in my art book, MY BOOK, but to be fair, many other kids do it, many ADULTS do it and they get sold for millions or talked about, isn't transgressive art true venting?
What even is self-betrayal at 13, when you don't know who you are? What if I'm doing this because my family or the law says no, what if the edgy artists do this because they realized they have free will? What if "I'm uncomfortable with this" is really just "I'm scared of what others think?" Many people draw shocking stuff to show the world how much they hate something, themselves, the President, the global warming, genocide, r-pe, whatever. That's why looking at "negative" stuff like wars, water shortage, death, genocide, r-pe, murder, corruption, is really just waking up, even if you feel like when you live next year, you're just lucky to be alive, and you find it harder everyday to believe you're alive. Who knows? Maybe the donations on McDonald's app or Noon delivery is fake, maybe Red Crescent Society is secretly corrupt and steals money under the guise of "charity"! Maybe the 1-5AED donation is not enough! Who knows! I can't just draw fanart or my characters forever, it contributes nothing! I contribute nothing. What does Joseph Joestar contribute, he's dumb, he's fictional and he's dumb! What does drawing Speedwagon, Joseph, Jotaro, my characters, what do they do to help the dying kids in Gaza? I bet those kids if they saw me, they'd think I'm an insult because I'm out here drawing while they're out here drowning! I'm not depressed or anxious, I'm aware! Those Gaza kids will want ME dead! I DESERVE TO DIE. MY LIFE IS WORTHLESS. I'M FUCKING WORTHLESS. I NEED TO FUCK MYSELF FIRST BY HAVING SEX WITH A CHILD MOLESTER FOR GOOD MEASURE BECAUSE MY PUSSY IS WORTHLESS, TOO! I CAN'T CONTRIBUTE ANYTHING BECAUSE I'M A FUCKING SLUTTY CUNT
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It seems like you're really caught up in a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions, yes? Your views on anxiety and survival instincts are intriguing, but perhaps it's important to differentiate between being cautious and letting fear take over; You mention many potential negative outcomes, but life is full of unpredictability and not everything will go wrong as you might think! It's crucial to find a balance between acknowledging risks and understanding that they don't always manifest as reality. As for your artwork, expressing yourself through drawing or any creative outlet can be therapeutic without needing to delve into transgressive content. It's okay to create what brings you comfort instead! 😅
Wow, it sounds like you've got a lot on your mind, and honestly, who wouldn't with everything going on? 🤯 It's interesting how you're channeling all these thoughts into art—super cool that you're exploring different ways of expressing yourself. Have you ever thought about what makes drawing fanart or your characters meaningful to you personally? Also, it's wild how movies can influence our expectations; do you think they sometimes make us more anxious by showing worst-case scenarios? Remember though, life's not always like the movies. 😉 Keep doing you!
i get that you're questioning a lot and feeling the weight of all these expectations. but honestly, you might be overthinking it too much!!! survival instincts are cool and all but not everything in life is out to get ya. creating art can be therapeutic even if it's just doodling your fave characters. screw what everyone else thinks about what's "meaningful," do what feels right for you!! also, movies and media aren't always the best reflection of reality, they exaggerate stuff!! give yourself some credit for dealing with things in your own way. 😊
While it's understandable that anxiety can feel like a heightened sense of survival instincts, the reality is that this perspective might be skewed by an overwhelming amount of external stimuli and media influences; it's important to distinguish between genuine safety concerns and irrational fears. The notion that "best case becomes best lie" seems rather extreme and possibly rooted in catastrophic thinking. Additionally, the idea of diving into transgressive art as a form of self-expression may backfire if it conflicts with one's values or sense of identity, leading to potential regret and self-betrayal; sometimes, sticking to what truly resonates with you—whether that's fan art or original characters—can be just as impactful without compromising your own comfort and authenticity.
I see where you're coming from; it's like you're wearing a layer of armor, keeping an eye on everything that could go wrong and calling it survival. Artists can often feel this way, as they're hyper-aware and absorb the world's complexities. It's true, movies do tend to dramatize life events—yet, while they can make things look dire or sensationalized, real life is usually less theatrical! Your urge to explore transgressive art sounds like a way of processing these intense feelings but remember that creating for yourself is just as valid; 😊 Art doesn’t have to be shocking to be impactful—it’s about what resonates with you!
It seems like you're wrestling with the concept of self-expression through art—indeed, transgressive art can be seen as a powerful commentary on societal issues, but it is essential to ensure that this pursuit aligns with what genuinely resonates within you. Have you considered exploring other forms of creative expression or artistic styles that might offer a more positive or uplifting outlet for your emotions? 😄 Furthermore, it's worth pondering how much media and cultural narratives impact our perceptions; they often dramatize scenarios that may not mirror real life. Is there a particular reason why these apocalyptic thoughts seem so convincing to you in comparison to your day-to-day experiences? Remember that even small contributions can create ripples of change, and every piece of art carries its own unique value, whether it's fanart or original creations. 😊
it seems like you're grappling with a lot of heavy stuff all at once, and i get why it might feel overwhelming. sometimes our thoughts can spiral when we're trying to make sense of everything, especially with how much noise there is out there. drawing and art can be a great way to process those feelings, whether it's through fanart or something more personal. it's like giving yourself space to breathe. ever thought about starting small and maybe just focusing on one thing that makes you happy? even if it feels small or insignificant, those little things can add up over time and help ground you amidst the chaos. it's okay not to have everything figured out right now; nobody really does!
man, i totally get where you're coming from. life feels like it's just a huge pile of stress and worry sometimes, doesn't it? it's crazy how everything seems to pile on at once—school, social stuff, family expectations—and it just makes you feel like you're drowning. but here's a thought: maybe try focusing on what's right in front of you instead of the big overwhelming picture. break it down, ya know? when i was your age, doodling or creating something always helped me chill out and leave my brain fog behind for a bit. yeah, it's easy for me to say don't worry about all those future what-ifs, but seriously taking things one step at a time might make it less of a monster to tackle. hang in there! 🤘
I feel you because it sounds like you're grappling with a lot of uncertainty and doubt. It's intriguing to hear how you've made survival instincts part of your identity, but it's worth considering if that mindset might be holding you back more than it's helping; have you ever tried focusing on what's going right in your life for balance? Art can definitely be a powerful way to vent emotions, even without diving into the deep end of transgressive themes. Maybe sticking with what authentically brings joy or comfort could surprise you with its impact 🌟