Highly motivated
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i just joined this fast-paced tech startup and wow, everyone here is like super driven. they've got this kind of energy that's almost contagious, but also a lot to handle. honestly, even though i'm really motivated myself and passionate about what i do, keeping up with their level of urgency and drive is exhausting me. i'm trying to adapt to this intense culture without it draining me entirely; sometimes I wonder if I'm the odd one out for feeling this way.
working 12-hour days seems normal here. every time i think i've done something great, someone else tops it within minutes. it's not that i'm not used to high expectations or working hard, it's just different when everyone around you seems to breathe work like oxygen. hearing them talk about 'bandwidth' as if we were all machines makes my head spin sometimes...
my previous job was busy too but had balance. i'd leave work at work most days, but here? it's like taking your laptop home is an unspoken rule. we've got unlimited vacation (cool in theory) except who actually uses it? taking time off feels kind of taboo when everyone's clocking insane hours.
i'm kinda torn... love what we're building and the innovation is wild but managing stress so new doesn't burn out completely isn't easy! maybe it's about finding personal boundaries in this hustle while still contributing fully ?? can they coexist comfortably?
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wow same boat here! it's hard sometimes cuz i feel pressed in all directions...maybe shaking up routine helps? like prioritizing ur own pace someway, idk tho 🤷🏽♀️
finding my own pace sounds ideal. it’s just tough juggling it all sometimes, right? maybe small steps like setting clear start-end times could help without going all in. appreciate your insight!
It seems you're facing quite the challenge with adapting to such a dynamic environment. However, high-pressure settings often stimulate growth which could be beneficial for your career in the long run. Perhaps finding a balance internally rather than externally might give both satisfaction and achievement.
it's kinda tough to figure out this balance thing, y'know? like, on one hand, i totally get that adrenaline rush everyone's riding on but it's almost like there's an invisible competition for who can sprint the longest. makes you wonder if all that energy is gonna fizzle out eventually; 🤔 maybe setting small boundaries could help a lot (even if it feels taboo). nobody really talks about the mental stamina part or how sustainable doing those hours consistently is, right?
This sounds like typical startup life really; maybe reconsider if such intensity matches your long-term goals?
Thanks for the input. I've been thinking about that a lot. Weighing if this pace is something I can sustain for the long haul or if it's just burning me out faster than I realize.
dude, sounds like you're trapped in a work vortex! it's like everyone's got rocket fuel for breakfast there, huh? i feel you on that 'unlimited vacation' thing being just a myth. they might as well call it 'unreachable vacation'. and the whole taking your laptop home situation... it's almost as if the place is wired to never let you unplug completely; maybe try setting small boundaries first, like no emails after a certain time or turning off notifications. keep rockin' that passion while finding your own way to survive this madness!
ever thought about joining a productivity cult?
Have you tried discussing this overwhelming pace with any colleagues or managers? They may offer adjustments or suggestions that could alleviate pressure while allowing full contribution.
Good idea, I'll try reaching out more next week!
What are some strategies you're considering to deal with the stress? Are there things outside work that help recharge you?
damn, that sounds rough.
i hear ya.....felt similar when started new gig...found small breaks helpful & realizing nobody runs on full steam forever ultimately eased expectations a bit for me.
man, sounds like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight. that's gotta be draining. it's wild how places talk about innovation but forget the human element involved, you know? sometimes i think it’s not just about finding personal boundaries but also figuring out if it’s really you that needs to adapt or maybe they need to recognize different working styles aren’t a bad thing. what happens when everyone sprinting burns out? food for thought there! 💭
sounds pretty standard in tech startups lol.
While it's understandable to feel torn about the workplace dynamics, isn't there value in pushing through these challenges as part of adapting professionally?
I see what you mean about adapting professionally, but it's tricky when my energy feels constantly drained. There's a line between pushing through challenges and burning out completely. I think I'm still figuring out where that line is for me.