I recently connected with a woman named Sarah via an online dating app, and we swapped a few messages before deciding to meet for a coffee. The initial meeting was somewhat dull but pleasant enough, and after having coffee at a local cafe where I picked up the tab, we agreed to continue our outing at a nearby park.

We drove for about half an hour, enjoying some casual tunes and small talk on the way. Arriving at the park, we strolled around, engaging in light conversation about our jobs and hobbies.

Suddenly, I needed to use the restroom. When I returned, I found Sarah chatting animatedly with another guy. As I approached, it was clear he was flirting with her, and to my surprise, she introduced me as just a "friend." He then asked for her number, suggesting they should meet up for a drink. She quickly agreed, they exchanged a warm hug and a cheek kiss, and he left.

Feeling quite put off by the whole thing, I made up an excuse and left without her, driving back home alone. I felt a mix of annoyance and relief as I didn't have to endure the awkward ride back.

Sometimes, I wonder if I acted too hastily, or if it was the right call given the situation.

Imagine if this scenario unfolded on a reality show? The cameras zooming in, capturing every awkward expression and the tension in the air. I bet the audience would have a field day analyzing and reacting to every detail, possibly sympathizing with me or criticizing my quick exit. Would I come off as the villain, or just a guy dodging a bullet?

Did I react too harshly by leaving the date?

Was I right to leave the date early?