Completely lost
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Hello to Every beautiful person reading this!
I would like to share the recent event of my life, which is rather disturbing for me and I'm honestly lost at the moment, not able to figure out what to do next. Please tell me what you do from your POV.
So I have a partner who is the love of my life and we have been together for like childhood hehehe, we are childhood sweethearts. Now to keep things short we are about to get married and suddenly the table has turned. My partner had a fight with one of his aunts because she was disrespecting me that she does not like me and doesn't want us to get married instead he should marry someone chosen by his family. During that fight I was obviously not present there but she called out the neighbors and basically destroyed my image, I cant expect better from a drunken divorcee women, anyways but the part that shook me and my partner was both his parents doesn't like me too and they were putting an act in front of me all these years that they like me and they have no problem with our relationship. The aunt is the real problem here because of her I have been misunderstood by everyone multiple times. GOD WHY SHE HATES ME!!! So basically my partner told me not to worry and we will live separately after marriage if they didn't approve our relationship, and now I'm feeling so bad that I don't wanna be a reason that because of me a boy left his parents and home. I seriously don't know what to do please help me and guide me here.
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Hey there! Man, that sounds like a tough situation to be in; I'm really sorry you're dealing with all this drama. Just wondering, have you tried having a calm talk with his parents about how they truly feel? It might help clear up some misunderstandings and get everyone on the same page.
wow, that's quite the rollercoaster you're on. it's pretty rough when family drama gets tangled up in your relationship like that; it must be incredibly frustrating to realize his folks were putting on a show this whole time. 🥴 i'd say, while it sucks that his parents aren't being supportive right now, it's awesome that your partner's got your back and is willing to stand by you no matter what. maybe try to have an open convo with him about how you feel guilty about the idea of him leaving his parents—sometimes just talking things through helps lighten the load. remember though, at the end of the day, you gotta do what's best for both of y'all in the long run and sometimes people's opinions change over time too. good luck navigating this mess!