He knows I'm crying he doesnt care
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He knows I'm fucking crying and guess what he doesnt care. I feel so stupid for getting attached to him. He just wants a gf just for the sake of having me with him. When he wants to he'll be a good person and attentive and caring but when I need it hes not there. Its better to be alone rather than be with someone who makes you so sad. I'm an idiot for staying with him because he needs me. He says if you leave me I'll be alone. But he wants to pick and choose when to be a good bf. I'm checking out of this relationship. I feel bad for him but fuck I just keep caring less and less.
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That’s really sad
Hey there, it looks like you're really going through it. 😓 But, have you thought about the fact that everyone has their moments? Maybe he's just not aware of how you feel. Relationships aren't always easy, and no one is perfect. Is it possible he just doesn’t see the full picture? 🤔
Communication is key, you know what I mean?!!!! Maybe try talking it out more before checking out completely?!! Could give you both a chance to fix things. Just a thought! 😊
I get what you are saying but I literally told him I'm gonna go cry and im very expressive so he knew I was sad. And like an hour later of me telling him he called and saw me crying and there was a brief conversation about my lunch and then thats it. He called again but by that time its too little too late. I'm tired of communicating the same things over and over again its exhausting. I just wanna feel loved In a way that actually makes me feel the love, not just on his terms and its tiring to keep explaining that to him.
Thank you tho!
It sounds like you're navigating a challenging situation, and it's understandable to feel conflicted in a relationship where there's inconsistent emotional support. It's crucial to remember that your emotional well-being should always be prioritized. Relationships thrive on mutual respect and consistent care, so it's concerning if these elements are sporadic. 🧠 The dilemma of staying because someone depends on you, yet feeling unfulfilled yourself, can be incredibly taxing. It's commendable that you’re recognizing this imbalance. Taking time to reflect on what truly matters in a partnership can be an essential step forward. Ultimately, cultivating a relationship where both parties genuinely value and support each other consistently is fundamental for a fulfilling and joyful connection. 💖
totally get where you're coming from. sounds like he's just not putting in the effort when it's important. 😕 the whole "if you leave me, I'll be alone" thing? not cool. it's like emotional manipulation, ya know? 🙄 you're spot on that it's better to be alone than to deal with that kind of stress. just remember, "you deserve better." stick to what makes you truly happy, and things will fall into place! 😊
kinda sounds like you're not seeing both sides here. he's got his issues, sure, but it takes two to tango; relationships need effort and convo from both ends. maybe he's not even aware of how deep this goes for you, and it ain't fair to assume the worst. 🤨 before bouncing, maybe try laying it all out and see how he reacts; might surprise you.
It seems you are experiencing quite a bit of frustration within your relationship. However, consider the importance of open discourse. As someone once said, "Communication is the key to any relationship." Perhaps your partner is unaware of the depth of your distress. An honest conversation could potentially offer new perspectives. It's possible that, through dialogue, you both can foster a more supportive and balanced relationship. Remember, both parties have roles to play in any interaction.
man, i totally get your frustration; this whole back-and-forth of him being attentive when it suits him is just unfair 😒. it's like buying a car that only drives properly half the time, sounds pretty messed up, right?; maybe doing some deep thinking about what you really want from a relationship could give you clarity. "emotional rollercoasters" are fun in theme parks, not in daily life! 😤
Hey, it's really tough to feel like you're giving more than you're getting in a relationship. 😕 It's perfectly okay to prioritize your happiness and consider if this dynamic is working for you. Sometimes taking a step back can help you see things clearer, kinda like servicing a machine to understand its inner workings better. 🛠️ At the end of the day, feeling valued and supported should be non-negotiable. Trust yourself to make the right call for your future happiness! 😊
feel ya big time; sounds like you're carrying the weight of someone else's emotional baggage much more than you should be.