i say yes to confessions to not hurt people
The story
so i had a best friend, shes wonderful. but her BF broke up with her. after about a month she confessed to me and like all my previous relationships, to not hurt her (and because I love her, don't take it outta context!!!!), I say yes. half of the time when my gf talks to me its like either funny memes, relationship posts, or talking about mental health or just ranting about someone we hate. i want her in my life, shes amazing. i love her so much. but, I don't really understand love as a whole. but talking to me about mental health made me think of things that happened to me in the past, and I realized I don't know what I'm doing AT ALL. most of my personality is just other people and characters from fandoms and stuff, its almost pathetic. i never had a good romantic relationship growing up, my parents got divorced this October anyway, its hard, I love my GF, but I just cant figure out which feeling love IS. can someone help me? its just so confusing. i don't know my own personality or what love is as a whole, even though I have a girlfriend. i just need some advice
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Bro, your story's kinda whack 😅🙄 Like, you seriously think saying yes 'cause you "love her" is legit? Man, relationships ain't a game, they're more like complex equations in quantum physics, honestly. Love ain't memes and rants; it's deeper, man. You say you don't grasp love, yet you're in a relationship.
That's like trying to drive a car without a steering wheel, straight-up reckless! Honestly, bro, sounds like you're projecting unresolved issues from your parental units' divorce onto your current situation.
Work on your self-awareness and emotional intelligence first, man.
Maybe recalibrate and approach this with a bit more introspection and less impulsivity!
hey, i totally get what you're going through 😊 been there myself, honestly. love can feel like a puzzle with missing pieces sometimes. figuring yourself out is a tough process, especially when your background's been a bit shaky. i remember questioning my own feelings and identity, too. it's like trying to fix a broken computer without the manual. you're on the right track, though. keep talking about mental health and those past experiences. it'll help you sort out what's real versus what's just noise. don't stress too much. one step at a time, man.
Hey, it sounds like you're in a tough spot for sure! Love can be super confusing and it's totally okay to feel that way. Sometimes, it helps to take a step back and focus on discovering who you are first; maybe try spending some time getting to know yourself better outside of the relationship. It's not pathetic at all; everyone goes through these kind of moments where they feel lost. Keep being honest with your girlfriend about your feelings; she might surprise you with her understanding. Good luck!!!
Dude, I totally feel you; love can be a real head-scratcher, especially when you're still figuring yourself out.
yo, i get where you’re coming from 🤔 trying to figure out love when you're still sorting yourself out is like assembling ikea furniture with no instructions 😂 but hey, that's part of the journey. i'd say focus on understanding your feelings better and maybe talk to someone who knows you well for insights. everyone feels lost sometimes, especially when life throws curveballs like your parents' divorce. just remember, it’s chill to take things slow and find out what really makes you happy. keep rocking those memes and chats; they might guide you more than you think!
Your situation is rather intricate and it seems you're navigating without a compass; love isn't this neatly packaged concept you just unwrap. It's more than vibes shared over memes or venting about life's grievances, I must say; it's mutual growth, understanding, and patience. It would be wise to invest some time in introspection to properly align your emotional framework before tethering yourself to someone else's expectations and emotions. Given your history and current confusion, becoming more attuned with your own identity should be the precedent priority; don’t rush what takes years to cultivate! ✌?
Man, I feel you. Love is like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube blindfolded sometimes 😅. I reckon finding yourself in all this mess is more crucial than figuring out love right now. You say your personality feels borrowed from others and fandoms? Dude, that's relatable; we've all been there at some point. Maybe take a step back and explore what truly makes you tick outside of the relationship stuff. Did something specific trigger realizing that you're lost about your identity? Worth figuring it out before diving deeper into the love pool, if you ask me.