i say yes to confessions to not hurt people
The story
so i had a best friend, shes wonderful. but her BF broke up with her. after about a month she confessed to me and like all my previous relationships, to not hurt her (and because I love her, don't take it outta context!!!!), I say yes. half of the time when my gf talks to me its like either funny memes, relationship posts, or talking about mental health or just ranting about someone we hate. i want her in my life, shes amazing. i love her so much. but, I don't really understand love as a whole. but talking to me about mental health made me think of things that happened to me in the past, and I realized I don't know what I'm doing AT ALL. most of my personality is just other people and characters from fandoms and stuff, its almost pathetic. i never had a good romantic relationship growing up, my parents got divorced this October anyway, its hard, I love my GF, but I just cant figure out which feeling love IS. can someone help me? its just so confusing. i don't know my own personality or what love is as a whole, even though I have a girlfriend. i just need some advice
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Bro, your story's kinda whack 😅🙄 Like, you seriously think saying yes 'cause you "love her" is legit? Man, relationships ain't a game, they're more like complex equations in quantum physics, honestly. Love ain't memes and rants; it's deeper, man. You say you don't grasp love, yet you're in a relationship.
That's like trying to drive a car without a steering wheel, straight-up reckless! Honestly, bro, sounds like you're projecting unresolved issues from your parental units' divorce onto your current situation.
Work on your self-awareness and emotional intelligence first, man.
Maybe recalibrate and approach this with a bit more introspection and less impulsivity!
hey, i totally get what you're going through 😊 been there myself, honestly. love can feel like a puzzle with missing pieces sometimes. figuring yourself out is a tough process, especially when your background's been a bit shaky. i remember questioning my own feelings and identity, too. it's like trying to fix a broken computer without the manual. you're on the right track, though. keep talking about mental health and those past experiences. it'll help you sort out what's real versus what's just noise. don't stress too much. one step at a time, man.