I think my bf is loosing feelings
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So i have just gotten off of the game (my bf and i both play video games together), and he texted me. “HII” he says. i said hi and responded with how i won the previous game. He tells me that we should ft and i say yes. I am mexican and speak spanish sometimes so i don’t loose it. my bf helps and talks spanish with me. I answer the ft call and he’s speaking spanish. I thought we were having a good time but then i got to thinking of how my life would be different if i was single. I ask him “do you ever wish you were single”. no response. “baby? where are you?” i ask back thinking he’s just falling asleep. “i’m here, im falling asleep” “did you hear my question?” “no, what did you say?” i repeat my question. no response. at this point it’s late and im annoyed so i say “okay im going goodnight” he says goodnight and i hang up. am i being too dramatic, and he was just really tired? or was he actually considering the fact that he could be single? please help, i need options 😭
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seems you're kinda blowing this out of proportion! :) like for real... my partner sometimes zones out after gaming too... it's just how it goes!
from the sound of it he was wiped out it's not a big deal and doesn't mean anything about wanting to be single! you know how people say sometimes: "a cigar is just a cigar"... it's just him being tired: we've all been there!! like sometimes I'll forget whole conversations after gaming for hours!!
so chill out... everything's probably chill, you know?! :D
Honestly, you're making a mountain out of a molehill here!!! It sounds like he was just tired after gaming; not everything needs to be analyzed to death, you know?? You asked him a question when he was half-asleep—of course, he didn't respond right away!! I've been there, and my brain just checks out after a long gaming session. Chill out for a second!!! Like, don't turn a sleepy pause into a relationship crisis. Remember the phrase "let sleeping dogs lie"? Just talk to him when he's awake and refreshed.
sounds like you're overthinking a bit here, honestly. when gaming gets intense, mental exhaustion happens, and sometimes people just zone out. it's not necessarily deep or meaningful. my friend always tells me, "don't jump to conclusions without evidence," and i think that's solid advice here. maybe just talk it out when you're both more awake and less stressed, you know? overthinking is common, but keeping communication open can really help clear things up. hang in there; there's probably nothing to worry about.