I think my bf is loosing feelings
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So i have just gotten off of the game (my bf and i both play video games together), and he texted me. “HII” he says. i said hi and responded with how i won the previous game. He tells me that we should ft and i say yes. I am mexican and speak spanish sometimes so i don’t loose it. my bf helps and talks spanish with me. I answer the ft call and he’s speaking spanish. I thought we were having a good time but then i got to thinking of how my life would be different if i was single. I ask him “do you ever wish you were single”. no response. “baby? where are you?” i ask back thinking he’s just falling asleep. “i’m here, im falling asleep” “did you hear my question?” “no, what did you say?” i repeat my question. no response. at this point it’s late and im annoyed so i say “okay im going goodnight” he says goodnight and i hang up. am i being too dramatic, and he was just really tired? or was he actually considering the fact that he could be single? please help, i need options 😭
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seems you're kinda blowing this out of proportion! :) like for real... my partner sometimes zones out after gaming too... it's just how it goes!
from the sound of it he was wiped out it's not a big deal and doesn't mean anything about wanting to be single! you know how people say sometimes: "a cigar is just a cigar"... it's just him being tired: we've all been there!! like sometimes I'll forget whole conversations after gaming for hours!!
so chill out... everything's probably chill, you know?! :D
Honestly, you're making a mountain out of a molehill here!!! It sounds like he was just tired after gaming; not everything needs to be analyzed to death, you know?? You asked him a question when he was half-asleep—of course, he didn't respond right away!! I've been there, and my brain just checks out after a long gaming session. Chill out for a second!!! Like, don't turn a sleepy pause into a relationship crisis. Remember the phrase "let sleeping dogs lie"? Just talk to him when he's awake and refreshed.
sounds like you're overthinking a bit here, honestly. when gaming gets intense, mental exhaustion happens, and sometimes people just zone out. it's not necessarily deep or meaningful. my friend always tells me, "don't jump to conclusions without evidence," and i think that's solid advice here. maybe just talk it out when you're both more awake and less stressed, you know? overthinking is common, but keeping communication open can really help clear things up. hang in there; there's probably nothing to worry about.
hey i get where you're coming from but maybe it's not a huge deal you know? sometimes after gaming my brain is just mush and i can barely keep my eyes open. sounds like he was just zonked out 😴 honestly i wouldn't sweat it too much. just chat with him when he's more awake and see what's up. sometimes we all just need a little rest.
You might be reading into this too deeply; post-gaming fatigue is real, and it can leave you feeling pretty out of it. I game with my partner too, and we've had moments like that where we're just too zonked to have serious conversations!!! It's not necessarily about wanting to be single or anything dramatic—just exhaustion after an intense session. Maybe give him the benefit of the doubt and check in when you're both well-rested? A fresh perspective can make all the difference!!
yo, maybe you're just overthinking this whole deal a bit; people do get tired and zonk out after gaming long hours. it's not necessarily about him wanting to be single or whatever fomo you’re feeling. consider that it might just have been bad timing to ask such a deep question when he's half asleep 🌙; talk to him when he’s fully awake, you'll probably get a clearer response!