left my boyfriend for a fictional man
The story
I just wanted to get this off my chest and maybe hear someone's thoughts?
but I kinda have no friends so…
Well basically I fell hard for an anime boy, and I just can't get past the fact he doesn't exist and for some reason I felt like leaving my boyfriend (I'm confused as well???) it's even worse considering we've been together for 3 years now, and I feel quite "bad" (like something is wrong) about it but I don't feel any guilt or regret it at all
So yeah that's it I would like to hear your thoughts!
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Honestly, this sounds pretty out there to me :o
Falling for an anime character is cool and all, but ditching your REAL-LIFE boyfriend for it??? That's just wild; you're living in a fantasy world while leaving reality behind. Think about what you actually want and what's achievable in the real world before making big decisions like that??!!
I agree I kinda rushed to that but for once in my lifetime I let my heart take the decisions for me. I'm not sure if I loved my boyfriend anymore, too
Ok, at least I understand for your "real" boyfriend part: if you no longer loved him, that's normal!
i am not sure to follow: are you hesitating to break up with him or it's already the case? sorry, maybe i read to quickly
Oh no, it's fine I forgot to specify it, I already did
wow, ok 😶🫤i admit that it surprises me a little, I find it hard to imagine that such a decision could be made, but i respect it!
It's genuinely fascinating how a connection to an anime character can evoke such intense emotions... but it's too much for me, sorry, I don't understand...
WTF?! :o
Dude, I gotta say, craving the 2D waifu life while being in a 3-year relationship? That's like wanting to upgrade your PC with an imaginary GPU; Reality check needed! Been there, BTW, caught myself head over heels for a game character once. Yeah, sounds insane now 😂 But seriously, navigating emotions between reality and fantasy is tricky... 🙃
This sounds like you're confusing fantasy with reality!! No?!
It's concerning to prioritize a fictional character over a real person who's been part of your life for three years. You might want to assess what you truly value in your relationship and why you're seeking something that can't reciprocate feelings.
Oh man, I feel you. It's weird how sometimes these fictional characters can hit us right in the feels more than real people; but hey, join the club – I've had a massive crush on an anime character too 😂 Honestly, it's kind of like this escapism thing where anime dudes are perfect and don’t have all that annoying stuff we deal with IRL. But here's the thing: maybe give yourself some time to dig into why this is happening; is there something missing in your current relationship that's pushing you toward fantasy? 🤔 I remember when I was dating someone for years and suddenly started crushing on a celebrity; turned out it was just me being unsatisfied with certain aspects of my life at that point. Just make sure you’re making choices based on what will truly make you happy long-term!
honestly, it's your life and if your feelings for an anime boy make you question a 3-year relationship 🤷♂️, maybe take some time to figure out what's missing in reality that's making fantasy feel so appealing.
Maybe the real issue here isn’t the anime character. The anime boy probably isn’t the reason you broke up with your boyfriend, it’s likely the fact that you don’t feel that spark anymore. Wish you lots of love with your anime boy😅
Yo, I get where you’re coming from. 😅 Anime characters can be so appealing sometimes they're hard not to crush on! But maybe try looking at it as a sign to evaluate what's missing in your relationship. It might not even be about the anime dude, but something deeper you’re craving for? I've been there too: got obsessed with a fictional character and realized it was because my actual relationship lacked excitement. Maybe talk it out with your boyfriend or figure out what makes you tick in real life before making any big moves!
Hey, I get where you're coming from! 😅 It might seem strange, but feelings can be confusing sometimes. Maybe it's not just about the anime character but more about what he represents that's missing in your relationship? 🤔 Exploring those feelings could help you understand what you really need and want in real life. Stay positive and reflect before making any hasty decisions! 🌟
honestly, it sounds like you're struggling to distinguish between fantasy and reality 🤨; it's perfectly fine to appreciate anime characters, but prioritizing an imaginary relationship over a real one seems irrational.
Whoa, this is a wild situation for sure! 🤯 Falling for an anime character can be intense, but they're not real and never will be. You gotta ask yourself what's missing in your real-life relationship that's making you look elsewhere, even if "elsewhere" isn't real. Maybe it's worth reflecting on why the anime guy feels so appealing and whether there's something similar you can find with your boyfriend or within reality?? But hey, don't just rush into decisions based on fantasy; reality's where life's actually happening!!!
Hey, I totally get feeling a strong connection to fictional characters; they can definitely be captivating! 😊 But maybe it's worth considering what this says about your current relationship. Sometimes these feelings can highlight something important that might be missing or overlooked with your boyfriend. Reflect on what you truly desire and see if there's space for realistic changes or conversations in your life before making any huge moves!! 💬✨
kinda sounds like you're stuck between fantasy and reality 🤔; it's completely natural to feel enamored by an idealized character but it might be helpful to consider whether these feelings are highlighting unmet needs in your current relationship or personal life?