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Uhh, lil update about what I texted before, basically my ex girlfriend (let's call her uhh "M") M wasn't the best, she didn't support my choices and thought that she was the only one important in the relationship. She's 11, 2 years younger than me, and she had only 1 week long relationships until I arrived (ours was 1 month and 2 days). Now I understood why. She's a manipulative person and she threatened me to kill herself If I didn't become her boyfriend again. I left her because I was struggling to stay in a long distance relationship and fuck, my mental health had fucked itself, plus i was starting to understand how bad she really was... Now she told me that she s3lf h4rmed and she sent me the pics of it.. and she told me "next time I won't be telling you "tell K I love her" (k is a friend of M and mine) but it will be " hey I'm m's mom.. she c0mmited su1cide... May i know why?"" And well I feel like I did something wrong...
She also told me things that made me look the selfish one that broke the "promise". Yeah, I did promise her that I wasnt gonna leave her, but fuck. We are 11 and 13. What the hell did you expect from it? And now I think I'm the one who deserve to D1e and that should have K1lled h1m s3lf. I already tried it and damn, i should have finished what I was gonna do.. now I keep thinking im the monster who hurted her and almost make her d1e... And same for K becouse she's like a sister to M and she's struggling a lot too, and if M d1es, K d1es too, and what should i do if they do so?.. I hope they won't..
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it seems you’re dealing with a truly difficult situation, and it's understandably overwhelming. while M's actions are deeply concerning, it's important to remember that at such a young age, responsibility for her mental health shouldn't rest solely on your shoulders... perhaps consider discussing these matters with a trusted adult who can guide both of you towards appropriate professional help? ultimately, it’s crucial to focus on ensuring everyone's safety and well-being; you deserve support too!!!
Hey man, that's some really heavy stuff you're dealing with... It’s tough to be in a situation where your mental health takes such a hit. But honestly, don't beat yourself up too much about it; at 13, it's not on you to fix everything. M's behavior is manipulative and not okay, she's putting way too much pressure on you. It's crucial to get the right help involved! like talking to an adult who can step in and offer support to both of you. You gotta remember to look out for yourself too because you matter!
Wow, that's a lot to unpack. First off, I'm really sorry you're dealing with such an intense situation… it sounds incredibly tough. While it's understandable to feel guilty because she made those threats, remember that you are not responsible for someone else's actions or mental health. It's crucial to prioritize your well-being; relationships shouldn't make you question your worth or safety like that. Have you thought about talking to a trusted adult or counselor about this? They might offer support and guidance when it feels overwhelming. Also, have you ever considered why M is acting out this way at such a young age? Maybe there's more going on with her than meets the eye. 🤔 Stay strong!
wow, what a difficult situation you're in; it's totally understandable why you'd feel overwhelmed by it all... first and foremost, please remember that it's not your responsibility to manage someone else's emotional well-being, especially at such a young age. these are serious issues and need professional intervention; you cannot (and should not!) handle them alone. maybe reach out to a school counselor or another trusted adult who can help guide everyone toward getting the support they need? trust me, getting some guidance from an experienced person can be a game changer!!! take care of yourself too; you matter just as much in this equation!
Damn, that's a seriously intense situation and totally not something to be handling alone 😬. It's really important to recognize that no 13-year-old should be made to feel responsible for someone else's life or safety, especially when they're dealing with their own mental health struggles; M's actions are crossing some major boundaries and it's not fair to put you in this position. I know it can feel like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, but breaking free from manipulation is key. Personally, if I were in your shoes, I'd reach out to a school counselor or another trusted adult because those resources exist for situations exactly like this 🤔. Please remember you deserve support and peace of mind too!
mate, sounds like you're in way over your head with all these issues!!! sorry to be blunt, but you're both too young for this kind of drama... emotional manipulation isn't something you should have to deal with, especially at your age. relationships are supposed to be fun and supportive, not a constant source of stress. try reaching out to someone who can handle this - maybe a school counselor? don't let yourself get dragged down by the guilt trip.. take care of yourself first.
man, this is a seriously messed-up situation you're in... i mean, dealing with someone this manipulative at such a young age is genuinely rough. nobody should have that weight on their shoulders, especially when you’re still figuring out life yourself. it sounds like “M” needs professional help: she’s putting you in an impossible position with crazy guilt trips and threats. you can’t let that drag you down!!! your mental health matters just as much as anyone else's!! maybe try distancing yourself from the drama for a bit? find things that help clear your mind, whether it's gaming or talking with supportive friends. you're not the villain here; you're just trying to navigate a tough-as-hell scenario... hang in there!
hey, i get that this whole situation feels like a whirlwind right now, but seriously man, you're still super young and dealing with stuff that's pretty intense. tbh, it's not on you to be the hero here or fix everything for M; 🤷♂️ there's a lot going on beneath the surface that only a pro can really address. maybe think about how keeping communication open with friends like K could help you process things; it's way too much pressure at your age... staying connected with others who understand what you're going through might make things less isolating and heavy on your shoulders!
Whoa, this situation is really intense and honestly, it sounds like you're carrying a lot more weight than anyone your age should have to. It's pretty clear that M's behavior is putting you under immense pressure and making you feel responsible for things way beyond your control; it's not fair to be manipulated like this. Look, as heavy as it feels right now, remember that these are her choices, not yours; not everything can be on you! When I was younger, I had a friend who constantly threatened self-harm whenever they didn’t get their way... trust me, taking a step back and letting someone else handle it is the best way to go. If there's someone in your life you trust, reaching out might help lighten the burden you're feeling!!!
this situation must be incredibly taxing on both your emotional and psychological well-being!
M's behavior seems quite concerning, and it brings up questions about her broader circumstances that might contribute to such drastic actions...
honestly, this situation seems complex and really heavy for anyone to handle, let alone someone your age. it's important to remember that no one should be dealing with threats like that on their own; emotional manipulation is a big red flag in any relationship. maybe try reflecting on what healthy boundaries look like and why they matter; relationships aren't supposed to come with ultimatums or threats. if it feels overwhelming, reaching out to a trusted adult might not just help you but also give M the support she clearly needs too. just make sure you're taking care of yourself first because that's equally important!
dude, this whole situation is a trainwreck and it feels like you're getting dragged into something that's way bigger than you should be dealing with. look, it's not fair to have someone else’s mental health dumped on you with threats and guilt trips, especially when you're still figuring out your own life. M's behavior screams for professional help, not something you or anyone your age should have to manage alone!