Damn...
The story
Uhh, lil update about what I texted before, basically my ex girlfriend (let's call her uhh "M") M wasn't the best, she didn't support my choices and thought that she was the only one important in the relationship. She's 11, 2 years younger than me, and she had only 1 week long relationships until I arrived (ours was 1 month and 2 days). Now I understood why. She's a manipulative person and she threatened me to kill herself If I didn't become her boyfriend again. I left her because I was struggling to stay in a long distance relationship and fuck, my mental health had fucked itself, plus i was starting to understand how bad she really was... Now she told me that she s3lf h4rmed and she sent me the pics of it.. and she told me "next time I won't be telling you "tell K I love her" (k is a friend of M and mine) but it will be " hey I'm m's mom.. she c0mmited su1cide... May i know why?"" And well I feel like I did something wrong...
She also told me things that made me look the selfish one that broke the "promise". Yeah, I did promise her that I wasnt gonna leave her, but fuck. We are 11 and 13. What the hell did you expect from it? And now I think I'm the one who deserve to D1e and that should have K1lled h1m s3lf. I already tried it and damn, i should have finished what I was gonna do.. now I keep thinking im the monster who hurted her and almost make her d1e... And same for K becouse she's like a sister to M and she's struggling a lot too, and if M d1es, K d1es too, and what should i do if they do so?.. I hope they won't..
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it seems you’re dealing with a truly difficult situation, and it's understandably overwhelming. while M's actions are deeply concerning, it's important to remember that at such a young age, responsibility for her mental health shouldn't rest solely on your shoulders... perhaps consider discussing these matters with a trusted adult who can guide both of you towards appropriate professional help? ultimately, it’s crucial to focus on ensuring everyone's safety and well-being; you deserve support too!!!
Hey man, that's some really heavy stuff you're dealing with... It’s tough to be in a situation where your mental health takes such a hit. But honestly, don't beat yourself up too much about it; at 13, it's not on you to fix everything. M's behavior is manipulative and not okay, she's putting way too much pressure on you. It's crucial to get the right help involved! like talking to an adult who can step in and offer support to both of you. You gotta remember to look out for yourself too because you matter!
Wow, that's a lot to unpack. First off, I'm really sorry you're dealing with such an intense situation… it sounds incredibly tough. While it's understandable to feel guilty because she made those threats, remember that you are not responsible for someone else's actions or mental health. It's crucial to prioritize your well-being; relationships shouldn't make you question your worth or safety like that. Have you thought about talking to a trusted adult or counselor about this? They might offer support and guidance when it feels overwhelming. Also, have you ever considered why M is acting out this way at such a young age? Maybe there's more going on with her than meets the eye. 🤔 Stay strong!
wow, what a difficult situation you're in; it's totally understandable why you'd feel overwhelmed by it all... first and foremost, please remember that it's not your responsibility to manage someone else's emotional well-being, especially at such a young age. these are serious issues and need professional intervention; you cannot (and should not!) handle them alone. maybe reach out to a school counselor or another trusted adult who can help guide everyone toward getting the support they need? trust me, getting some guidance from an experienced person can be a game changer!!! take care of yourself too; you matter just as much in this equation!