Just about a guy (idk if he's deadass)
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I cannot tell if this guy likes me or if I'm being manipulated. We met online, came off flirtatious and I'm learning about him, says he cares more about personality than looks and says I have a good personality. He's one year older than me so that's good, he has a job, workouts, tall, emo. Ngl there are certain traits that remind me of this gross guy I knew but don't text anymore. Anyways he says I deserve the world, misses me, whatever kind stuff and then logs off. It could be because he's tired after work or if it's the weekend, then idk, could be gaming. I do think he has depression which is fine. We also talk about our day and some interests. He did text me on discord and the boys on there are....werid but he hasn't said anything sexual yet and it's been a few days so that's good. This is embarrassing that I'm even bringing this up but he's also matching with someone on Roblox, hopefully it's just his sister or friend. Idk, am I being love bombed? Am I apart of a roster? Am I just being extra careful because of my last experiences with online men and dating? Any insight is helpful 🖤🩷
I should also add that this isn't a straight or cis relationship. Idk, maybe that's helpful.
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sounds like you're trying to figure out if he's the real deal or just playing games with ya, huh? i totally get that vibe, especially with your past experiences. honestly, it could be a mix of both; he might genuinely like you but also not know how to balance everything going on in his life. all those sweet words are nice, but actions do speak louder, ya know? give it some more time and see if there's consistency in his behavior!! trust your gut instincts too—they're usually spot on when it comes to this stuff. 🖤
honestly, i think the whole online dating scene can be a real roller coaster; you just never know what's behind the screen. it’s great that you're cautious 'cause let's be real, sometimes people aren't exactly what they seem. when he says he cares more about personality than looks—well that's cool and all—but it's still important to see if those words match up with his actions over time. 😅 and like, matching on roblox? maybe it's innocent but also might be worth asking him directly if it bugs ya'; communication is key in any type of relationship. sounds like you've learned from past experiences so keep trusting yourself while exploring this connection!
man, this situation sounds like a classic online dating mess. i mean, if the dude's already juggling stuff on roblox that says he's got the mind of a kid, yeah??!! it's not exactly reassuring when someone praises you to the moon and then dips without any real-life consistency. i've been there too—dealt with people who say one thing and do another... pretty much played out as bs! my advice? don't invest too much till his actions genuinely align with those sweet talkin' words. keep your eyes open before getting emotionally invested.
Update: he face revealed but I wasn't physically attracted to him..; I don't really know how to break it to him but I'll try. I think I need to look in better places. I guess this case is closed.