Every man tells a lot of lie to their partners.
The story
I've dated several boys in my life. But I left them one by one just because they shared a common trait. All of them were addicted to po*nography. I was having no problem with that until I found out my trusted ones were addicted. At the very first I thought they were good, but gradually I found out their online activities somehow. I had an access of their google account and I saw that my first was addicted to naked girls. The second and third one was involved in many dark fantasy groups in social media. And the last one, my one and only lover, I just found out he's addicted too. Even if he loves me a lot, at least I thought of that before but now I'm afraid. He has all my private photos. Still he is addicted to porn. I found out and confronted him. But he's defending himself and behaving rude. Seems like it's my fault. He's not even telling the truth. That means till today he was lying to me all these days. He promised me that he won't do that. He promised by the swear of God. How could he do that? He broke his promise. What should I do now? Our marriage is fixed. He's not ready to confess. What would people have thought if they had seen this on a reality TV show?
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Yo, it's wild how mad you're getting over something kinda typical. Most guys are into that stuff... it's not like he's out there cheating on you in real life or somethin'. I mean, maybe have an honest convo about boundaries and what you want, but freakin' out like this over his internet habits? If it bugs you that much, rethink the whole wedding thing instead of just blaming him for not livin' up to impossible standards.
man, i totally get where you're coming from and it's not crazy to be upset about this. like, it's frustrating when people you trust just can't be honest with you and it makes you feel disrespected. seriously though, when someone promises something by the "swear of God" and then breaks that promise, it cuts deep in a way that's hard to shake off. i've been in a similar situation before (not exactly the same but close enough) and honestly felt like the rug was pulled out from under me. listen, if he can’t own up to his actions now before you're even married, what’s gonna change later? 🤔 maybe dig deeper into why this bothers him more than he's admitting because those patterns don't just magically disappear after saying "i do". boundaries should mean something solid!
Relationships can get real complicated, especially when trust gets tangled up in the mix. It's pretty common for folks to have their own online habits, but when those collide with personal boundaries, things might get a bit messy; I’m wondering if there’s maybe a bigger issue here about communication and expectations? 🤔 When someone promises something sacred like that and then doesn't follow through, it's understandable why you'd feel betrayed. However, marriage is quite the commitment and understanding each other deeply beforehand could make all the difference! Maybe this is an opportunity to really talk it out without any finger-pointing or blaming (super tough though!). Finding middle ground where both of you feel respected might be key.