going to talk to my boyfriend after breakup
The story
hello , i want my identity to be anonymous and don't want to tell more about myself i am a 20year old female and i am a student. recently i asked a question to my boyfriend what is it if you ask i asked hi m about thier parents approval in this relationship where he is a muslim and i am a christian it was a very happy and healthy relationship of 1 year we were about to celebrate our 1 year aniversary and i asked this question at 18th of january 2025 i asked him what if your parents does not accept our relationship what would you do and he told that he wants both of us and i told him what if there is a situation arrives where you need to choose between me and your family what would you do ?? as a curious girlfriend i asked him this question and what he said stunned me within an hour or so he came to a conclusion that we should end it here and lets not go long way and get hurt and tells that he is doing this for me and told that he is doing this for me and he does not want to hurt you and keeps silent these all happened in call when i went to talk in real with him he ran away currently im in holidays and im in excruciating pain i dont know what to do but i think if we talk in real there might be a chance that he will realize what he is doing now should i do it ???
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I genuinely empathize with your predicament; relationships involving cultural or religious divergences can be incredibly challenging. It's disheartening that he chose to terminate the relationship so abruptly. In my experience, open, face-to-face communication often resolves misunderstandings and can be cathartic.
However, his decision to avoid confrontation speaks volumes about his conflict resolution skills. Maybe it’s wise to reassess if reconciliation is in your best interest. 🤔 Nonetheless, sometimes people don't realize the repercussions of their actions until they lose something valuable...
CrazyPinkShadowBrontideInSanFranciscoWithLoneliness
22d agosorry but i gotta disagree with ya on that! when my friend went through something similar, it drove her crazy waiting around for him to come back... talking things out face-to-face might even make things worse... sometimes you gotta let folks do their own thing and figure stuff out themselves 😅
it's truly heart-wrenching to hear what you're going through 😢 navigating relationships with cultural or religious differences can definitely be tough.. his sudden decision to run seems impulsive and maybe not entirely thought out while his intentions might be to prevent future hurt it's crucial to consider both sides of the equation! perhaps a calm in-person conversation when you're both ready could bring clarity?
whatever you choose, I wish you peace and healing in this journey❤️
FunkyLimeWaterRaconteurInStockholmWithAmusement
22d agonot quite sure i agree with you there 😬 yeah navigating those differences is tough but sometimes talking it out doesn't always help!
maybe space is what's needed and not more conversation.... his choice to break up could be a way of dealing with stuff that's too heavy, better not rush into things again!