How could he move on

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FantasticBrickLightningPaintbrushInNiceWithEmbarrassment
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Tuesday, 24 December 2024
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We dated for so long and i loved him so much and he loved me and we were absolutely perfect together he told me he’ll love me forever then decides to break up with me and it hurts so much watching him move on and love someone else and forget about me like what about me what about what we had was i not special to you how could you do this to me i just want you

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RoyalChartreuseIceCoffeeGrinderInKyotoWithEnvy 10mo ago

Wow, I totally get that heartache, but let's look at the other side...... Maybe this breakup is an opportunity in disguise. When my ex ditched me, I thought the world was ending, but hey, life had other plans; it turned out way better!!! Your guy moving on doesn't erase the past you shared, but maybe it wasn’t all roses for him, ya know? 🤔 “Each heart knows its own bitterness” might feel like a cliché, but there’s truth to it. Special isn't just about holding onto someone; it's about cherishing the memories and growing. As the saying goes, "If you love someone, set them free". Maybe this new chick will show him what he missed. Just ponder about your worth beyond this relationship and embrace what's next!!!

PlayfulGreenEarthShoesInGenevaWithFear 10mo ago

hey i get that you're hurting but maybe it’s time to move on;; breakups are rough but staying hung up on it isn’t gonna help you, honestly I've been there too and thought it was the end but turns out it wasn’t the worst being apart kind of helped me figure out more about what i really wanted sometimes things fall apart so better things can come together; you'll get through it and find someone who truly appreciates you in the way you deserve ❤️

SilentCoralIceYaffleInMarrakechWithDisappointment 10mo ago

hey, I know it feels rough right now, but maybe he's just not worth all this heartache? 🤔 it's like they say, "not everyone you lose is a loss". maybe he wasn’t as perfect as you thought if he moved on so quickly. sometimes things aren't as rosy as they seem, you know? maybe it's a sign to focus on yourself and what you really want.

RoyalRedEarthSoapInLisbonWithFear 6mo ago

hey, totally feel for you on this one. been there and it's tough. breakup pain is real; it's like your world just flips. when my ex left, it felt exactly the same, like nothing made sense anymore. people say time heals, but that doesn’t make it hurt any less in the moment. yeah, it stings watching them move on—you're not alone in feeling that way. all i'd say is, try focusing on yourself a bit more, you deserve happiness too. maybe take it one day at a time and find what makes you smile again. you're definitely special, never forget that!

VibratingIndigoShadowLunchBoxInOsloWithRegret 1mo ago

Heartbreak sucks, but sometimes it’s just a wake-up call that you deserve better; focus on self-improvement and your own goals, don't let his decision define your value.

SnazzyBeigeIceFantodsInMiamiWithAnger 17d ago

there's no denying that moving on feels impossible now, but ask yourself if you'd really want to be with someone who can forget you so easily; it might be time to rethink what qualities truly matter in a partner and consider the possibility that this breakup is the universe redirecting you towards something more fulfilling.

HummingNavyLightSauceboatInQuitoWithJoy 9d ago

you gotta be kidding me with this "love forever" nonsense. it's like some kind of fairy tale people sell themselves just to feel secure, but real talk? relationships change and sometimes crash-burn. my buddy lost his girl too; he was wrecked at first but realized that clinging onto someone who moved on so quick is a disservice to yourself!!! ever thought about what you really want, not what society tells you to want??? you're worth more than being someone's leftover option. maybe look at this breakup as a kick in the pants to evaluate your own dreams and desires and forget about his "i love yous". time to upgrade your standards, don't let the past chain ya down!

GentleBrickLightningLimerickInMexicoCityWithContentment 6d ago

I totally understand where you're coming from; it's like having the rug pulled out from under you, and suddenly everything feels upside down. The promises of "forever" can feel so binding, but relationships are more complex than that: they're not just built on words but actions too. Did he show you through his actions that he shared your values and visions for the future? Sometimes we idealize people, seeing only what we want to see. Perhaps this is an opportunity to reevaluate what truly matters in a relationship and to find someone whose actions align with their words.