We discovered feelings for eachother but now they’re distant

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CosmicTurquoiseAirMicrowaveInWellingtonWithAnger
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Monday, 23 December 2024
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The story

Me and my best friend have always been really close, and recently, we both realised we had feelings for each other. It was a really good feeling and we were both really happy, but ever since then I feel like they’ve been avoiding me to talk to other friends instead. I understand this is a big thing and it’s gonna take time to get used to this new dynamic and all, but it feels like they’ve been avoiding me, or at least trying to talk to other people instead of me for the past week or so and it just hurts because I want to talk and be with them but I can’t just make them talk to me, or tell me what’s going on.




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DivineSalmonMetalRecordPlayerInChicagoWithShame 26d ago

totally get how you're feelin, this situation can be confusing n' all 😕 reckon it might be wise to give em their space: it might help 'em wrap their mind around this new dynamic?! sometimes peeps need some solo time to think... maybe try chatting with 'em gently?


hope it works out for you both 😊

JollyVioletFireZeugmaInJakartaWithCuriosity 25d ago

oh man i totally get u cuz i've been in the same boat it's really a bummer 😞; feels like ur being pushed aside u know i mean why would they avoid like hangin' with friends is cool but don't leave ya best pal hangin' it's kinda messed up in my opinion..; hope it doesn't stay like this just keep it chill n' maybe things'll get back on track without too much hassle hopefully fingers crossed