We discovered feelings for eachother but now they’re distant
The story
Me and my best friend have always been really close, and recently, we both realised we had feelings for each other. It was a really good feeling and we were both really happy, but ever since then I feel like they’ve been avoiding me to talk to other friends instead. I understand this is a big thing and it’s gonna take time to get used to this new dynamic and all, but it feels like they’ve been avoiding me, or at least trying to talk to other people instead of me for the past week or so and it just hurts because I want to talk and be with them but I can’t just make them talk to me, or tell me what’s going on.
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totally get how you're feelin, this situation can be confusing n' all 😕 reckon it might be wise to give em their space: it might help 'em wrap their mind around this new dynamic?! sometimes peeps need some solo time to think... maybe try chatting with 'em gently?
hope it works out for you both 😊
oh man i totally get u cuz i've been in the same boat it's really a bummer 😞; feels like ur being pushed aside u know i mean why would they avoid like hangin' with friends is cool but don't leave ya best pal hangin' it's kinda messed up in my opinion..; hope it doesn't stay like this just keep it chill n' maybe things'll get back on track without too much hassle hopefully fingers crossed
yeah i totally hear ya having been in a similar situation 🙃 it's tough when you feel like someone close is getting distant i get it cuz once i had a friend do that to me and it's like what's goin' on should i be worried or just give them some space it's tough to judge; sometimes ppl need time to figure stuff out without pressure but hey communication is key maybe see if they're ready to chat without pushin' too hard just kinda vibe it out you know hope things smooth out for ya
ugh i'm feelin' ya on this one 😤 it's like seriously why play mind games??? this stuff ain't cool man!!! got a buddy doin' the same thing and it messes with your head big time‽‽ sometimes you're left wondering what's wrong with me?? just talk it out if they ever give you the time jeez!!!