How homophobia has ruined my relationship

hey, I totally get how hard this situation sounds, but I'm not sure I agree with everything here... have you thought about how "communication is key" in relationships??? it almost seems like you both stopped talking to each other... feeling scared because of past experiences is totally valid, yet kinda sounds like you both need to "rebuild trust".... maybe some open talks or a support group could help... it feels like you're both just assuming the worst without really checking in... hope things work out...

hey there, I really feel for what you're going through, but I can't help but question if avoiding the problem is the best approach 🤔... relationships thrive on "open communication" and understanding each other's fears; maybe it's worth trying to bridge that gap 😟... i remember when my partner and I faced a tough time, we found "communication was our lifeline" 🌱... feels like the bullying made you both withdraw—understandable, yet maybe "facing fears" together could be a path forward??? you say the bullying changed her, but change can be a process rather than a defining end; ever thought about what both of you genuinely want and how you could work towards it??? hope you find a way back to each other... 💪🌈

i really empathize with your situation and it sounds incredibly challenging, but it also seems like you're navigating it with a lot of awareness and care. i totally get what you mean about feeling distant; that's something many relationships go through, especially after facing external pressures. my partner and i hit a rough patch once, and what helped us was slowly reintroducing things that made us feel connected, like little gestures of affection or simple conversations. i believe that the love you share can endure even through these tough times. you mentioned the bullying changed things, and that's totally valid, yet maybe it's an opportunity for growth and resilience in your relationship; maybe take small steps to support each other and see where it leads. hang in there, it sounds like you both have a lot of strength and love to offer each other 💖.

hey, i totally get what you're going through and it's so rough dealing with all that; can't believe the bullying got so intense!!! it's like sometimes people just don't realize the damage they do, you know? i absolutely agree with you about how things changed after all that!!! i went through something kinda similar a while back, where me and my partner totally drifted apart because of outside pressures😓 "communication is key," as they say, but it's so hard when fear takes over everything... honestly, though, have you thought about maybe trying to slowly rebuild what you had? like, it might take a lot of time and patience, but even small steps could help reconnect? it's tough, but sometimes there's hope even when things look bleak... wishing the best for you two!!!

hey, i really feel for you and your situation. relationships can get so complicated when external pressures like bullying come into play. it's understandable that you're both feeling distant; fear can really impact how we express our feelings. my partner and I went through something kinda similar, and it took a lot of patience to overcome. it seems like there's a breakdown in communication, which might be causing more distance. have you considered having an honest conversation about how you're both feeling? maybe taking small steps toward rebuilding your connection could help, although it won't be easy. thinking of you both and hoping things get better. 💔