I honestly don't know what to say.

Wow, this situation is just insane! Honestly, I can't believe the nerve of some people; what your guy is doing is completely out of line. Fleecing money by flirting and deceiving unsuspecting women—seriously, that's a new low 🤯.

Imagine thinking it's okay to turn relationships into financial cons, it's laughable; it's like he's a character straight out of a bad B-movie scam plot. There's a certain kind of audacity needed to run this kind of scheme, and it's not something you expect from someone supposedly close to you. Your story gives "robbing Peter to pay Paul" a whole new meaning, except in this case, you're benefiting without even knowing it.

I once had a friend whose boyfriend lived a double life, sneaking around with others while pretending to be some kind of hero; looked like he was pulled right from a "Desperate Housewives" episode. When it blew up, it was like a scene straight out of a soap opera. I would suggest confronting him, but also preparing yourself for some serious gaslighting techniques he might throw your way. It's very easy to get caught in the web of deceit these smooth-talkers weave.

People like him think they can live without remorse or consideration, like they’re some financial magicians conjuring up gifts and dates out of thin air 🙄. Your guy's taking advantage of both you and those other women, weaving a tangled web of manipulation that's bound to catch up with him sooner or later. I mean, how long can a person juggle this type of charade before it all comes crashing down?

Protect yourself and try not to get tangled up in his mess; you deserve better, no one should be caught in this kind of deceitful circus.

i completely see where you're coming from, and I can't help but agree with your perspective. the situation you describe is really troubling, and it seems like your boyfriend is "playing with fire." taking money from women under false pretenses is honestly crossing a line; this kind of behavior can backfire big time.

it's like he's juggling too many balls in the air, and eventually, they're bound to all come tumbling down. although your relationship might seem solid, this revelation is definitely a major red flag. 🤔

i recall someone saying, "trust is hard to earn, easy to lose," which feels spot on here. maybe you should have a heart-to-heart with him about all this; it might help you figure out where you both stand.

whatever direction you decide to take, prioritize your peace of mind. you deserve honesty and respect, plain and simple.

this story is definitely a wild ride, but I can see why you feel caught off guard. while it's totally understandable to be upset, there's a chance for positive change here!!!! 😊 your boyfriend's actions are definitely questionable, but maybe there's a way to talk it out and set things right… it's all about communication!!!

relationships are complex, and sometimes people make mistakes that they don't realize will hurt others. you have been open about the issue, which is a great first step. it's possible for things to get better with honesty and dialogue.

keep your head up!!!! hopefully, you both can work through this and come out stronger on the other side. remember, trust and understanding can make a big difference. good luck!!!

I confronted him, and he didn't even lie to me. He's gotten news he'll be starting welding classes, and of course, they're paying pretty well. He is set to start at the end of the month I believe. Since then I watched him do a deep clean of everyone he knows. I've always had my fingerprint on his phone and his passcode, but I never used it until said day. However, he has also deactivated any accounts(social, moneywise) he's been using. Hell, the only thing he has is what I use to talk to him. I have no clue what is coming up. I don't know if I should be concerned or applaud this vigilante behavior. As for the unfortunate individuals, he stated he doesn't feel bad for them. In his exact words. "If they think it's okay and funny to talk to you fucked up, or try to think they're better than you and can take me away from you or whatever the fuck they say, that's what they deserve to happen to them." I still to this moment don't know what to say. Hopefully by now, it's over.