i dont feel loveable.
The story
i feel like im not loveable at all. all the times i've asked people out i've been rejected and i've been ghosted by a guy that overall i felt was overall a fantastic person to be friends with but he's blocked me and is talking to others about "how much better life has been after cutting off that shitty friendship". all the people i've tried talking to about this i feel like dont fully understand as their all conventionally attractive people who have partners or are in the process of getting one. while im stuck as this damn fat autistic kid who's only relationship ever was with a toxic person who manipulated me. i dont feel like im anyones number one person, that one person you go to instantly when something comes up, im always the second medal and it pisses me the fuck off but i dont know how to fix that
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Points of view
First, you called yourself a kid, idk if you mean actually but you aren't supposed to be attractive. You are supposed to be a child. <(￣︶￣)>
You are loveable, I remember feeling unlovable but what I realized is that anyone can be loved, it doesn't matter if you're fat and autistic. Stop living like you're the most disgusting and ugliest person on this planet. One person might find you attractive but the next person would not at all, there are so many different types of humans and how they look, including you. It's normal for not everyone to like you and rejection is apart of life, a guy posted about you? That's fine, he wasn't for you at all. I don't wanna stay friends with someone that doesn't wanna be friends with me even I I thought they were amazing and for me. Accept some people who you want, may not want you. Also representation is helpful look up whatever relationship that you feel is impossible. Like a fat person being with their dream husband. It shows you that your looks aren't ever gonna hold you back. <3
You need to make sure you aren't over giving, you don't need to earn someone's love, some people that run into a overgiver will take advantage of that. It should just happen and given, not earned. Sometimes it's normal for one friend will give more than the other but it will eventually balance out but make sure to gently communicate you want them to reciprocate that.🪷
Why you feel like the least valuable friend by healthygamergg: https://youtu.be/ql5sWIEAcFw?si=0_u8917mTNGrWGlY
You could be choosing people who don't choose you: https://youtu.be/QxuRNGhXHPw?si=7KXC-3tJXyCR5Cg1
How to date without going insane by Charlottemorabito (low-key a perfect for u): https://youtu.be/FjWzZsJvwUE?si=O2COdG9OToIfqArv
I really hope all of this helps you <3