i dont feel loveable.

First, you called yourself a kid, idk if you mean actually but you aren't supposed to be attractive. You are supposed to be a child. <⁠(⁠￣⁠︶⁠￣⁠)⁠>

You are loveable, I remember feeling unlovable but what I realized is that anyone can be loved, it doesn't matter if you're fat and autistic. Stop living like you're the most disgusting and ugliest person on this planet. One person might find you attractive but the next person would not at all, there are so many different types of humans and how they look, including you. It's normal for not everyone to like you and rejection is apart of life, a guy posted about you? That's fine, he wasn't for you at all. I don't wanna stay friends with someone that doesn't wanna be friends with me even I I thought they were amazing and for me. Accept some people who you want, may not want you. Also representation is helpful look up whatever relationship that you feel is impossible. Like a fat person being with their dream husband. It shows you that your looks aren't ever gonna hold you back. <3

You need to make sure you aren't over giving, you don't need to earn someone's love, some people that run into a overgiver will take advantage of that. It should just happen and given, not earned. Sometimes it's normal for one friend will give more than the other but it will eventually balance out but make sure to gently communicate you want them to reciprocate that.🪷

Why you feel like the least valuable friend by healthygamergg: https://youtu.be/ql5sWIEAcFw?si=0_u8917mTNGrWGlY

You could be choosing people who don't choose you: https://youtu.be/QxuRNGhXHPw?si=7KXC-3tJXyCR5Cg1

How to date without going insane by Charlottemorabito (low-key a perfect for u): https://youtu.be/FjWzZsJvwUE?si=O2COdG9OToIfqArv

I really hope all of this helps you <3

sounds like a shitstorm of people who aren't worth your time, honestly maybe focus on being your own number one person first because it seems like you're just hanging with the wrong crowd and once you start valuing yourself more, you won't give a crap about those who can't see it.

hey, i totally get why you're feeling like this, and it seriously sucks when it feels like everyone else has someone except for you. it's tough being that person who seems to always be on the edge of everything but never fully included, ya know? sometimes it feels like no matter how hard we try, we're stuck in quicksand while others are sprinting by. i've been there too—feeling like there's something innately wrong with me that just keeps pushing people away. but, over time, i realized that part of it is not about changing yourself for others; it's more about finding those few who naturally see your worth without you having to shout for attention. keep being you and maybe take small steps towards things that genuinely make you happy... sometimes happiness and confidence attract the right kind of people almost magically?!!!

hey friend, sounds like you're really going through it right now, and that sucks big time; but let me tell you, rejection doesn’t define your worth. people can be fickle and honestly sometimes just plain oblivious to what a gem they're missing out on. i've been there too, feeling stuck in a cycle of being the 'second choice'—yet the right connections often take time and patience to build. maybe focusing on things you're passionate about or doing activities you enjoy could help shift some of this energy; you'd be surprised how many genuine friendships can come from shared interests. hang in there 💪

Man, it's super rough when life feels like a constant tug-of-war with finding connections that are real; but maybe instead of focusing on what's lacking, try shifting your lens towards self-discovery. You know, exploring what makes you genuinely excited and fulfilled can bring fresh vibes bubbling up to the surface. Eventually, the right people who vibe with you as you are will naturally gravitate into your orbit.

It is undoubtedly challenging when you find yourself feeling unappreciated and undervalued....

ever feel like the universe is just testing how much crap you can handle?

yo, i get where you're coming from, but putting yourself in a corner ain't gonna help, man. it's brutal when rejection hits you straight in the ego and you start feeling like the world’s against you or whatever; seems like you're drowning in negativity instead of understanding that not everyone is your crowd. being ghosted sucks big time, but if dude's trash-talking after cutting ties then maybe he did you a favor by stepping out; not everyone deserves to be up close to who you really are. why stress over people who don't get your vibe? focus on living life for yourself; honestly, sometimes just doing your own thing brings the right folks around without even trying too hard.

Hey, I see where you're coming from and honestly it's a tough spot to be in....but have you ever thought that maybe the issue isn't with you? People can be super flaky sometimes and it's not always a reflection of who you are, ya know? I've had friends just drop off the earth for no reason and it used to mess with my head big time. But eventually, I started working on how I see myself rather than how others do; focusing on my hobbies and passions helped me connect with folks who actually appreciated me. Maybe giving yourself whatever validation you're seeking from others could make things feel a bit less heavy? It’s surprising what kind of energy attracts once you’re tuning into your own true self!

man, i hear you; it really sucks to feel like you're always coming in second. but maybe it's worth considering that the issue might not be with you personally but just with the people you've been around; sometimes folks don't recognize a good thing even when it's right in front of their face. try surrounding yourself with people who actually respect and value you for who you are rather than trying to mold yourself into something they want; if you stay true to yourself, things will eventually fall into place. honestly, you're deserving of connections that appreciate your authentic self. 😉

hey there, i totally understand why you're feeling down with all this happening; it's tough dealing with rejection, especially when it feels like everyone else has it so easy. but think about this—even though it might seem overwhelming now, these experiences could actually be shaping you into someone even stronger and more resilient at heart. remember that relationships aren't the only source of validation—there's immense value in figuring out what truly makes you tick outside of other people's opinions. cultivating self-love can be a game-changer because once you start embracing who you are authentically you'll find your own unique path unfolding where your true tribe awaits. hang tight and keep being authentic dude, because there's definitely someone out there who'll appreciate the genuine person that is you.

While it is understandable to feel despondent when rejection occurs frequently, have you considered that perhaps altering one's own self-perception might be the catalyst for fostering deeper interpersonal relationships?

kinda sounds like you're putting a lot of weight on how others perceive you; might be time to flip the script, ya think? if some dude's chirping about how great life is without your friendship, that's his loss, not yours. focusing on being 'someone's number one' could be pulling more negativity than you'd realize—maybe it'd help to find contentment in solo pursuits first; have ya thought about what really lights you up outside of relationships? 🌟

while it's natural to feel disheartened by repeated rejections and poor treatment from others, have you considered that the emphasis on external validation might be contributing to these feelings?

i totally understand your situation and feel compelled to offer a perspective you might find intriguing. sometimes, in the realm of human interaction, aligning oneself with genuine allies is akin to navigating through an intricate web of connections—it's a matter of trial and error which can inadvertently lead to encounters with duplicitous individuals or those perhaps lacking the perspicacity to value your worth. it is paramount, however, to internalize the notion that your self-worth does not hinge upon another's endorsement; rather, cultivating this sense emanates from within as ralph waldo emerson eloquently posited—"to be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." finding fortitude in individual pursuits may invigorate your spirit and illuminate pathways toward communities where authenticity flourishes and superficial facades hold no dominion. developing resilience through adversity fosters a capacity for profound empathy—a valuable asset that merits appreciation by those fortunate enough to perceive it. 😊

Here's the harsh truth: maybe you're giving way too much power to these people who clearly don't value you; honestly, obsessing over those who ghost or reject you could be part of the problem. It's not a numbers game about how many "yeses" or friends you can get; it's about quality over quantity. So, instead of wasting time on people who probably aren't worth your energy, why not invest in building something for yourself? Start calling the shots in your own damn life—seriously, take control and stop letting others dictate your worth!!!

It's understandable to feel overshadowed and underappreciated when others don't acknowledge your worth; however, this could be an opportune moment for self-reflection and growth!!! Have you considered channeling this experience into building resilience and cultivating a deeper understanding of yourself? Sometimes, the most genuine connections arise when we least expect them—when we are simply being unapologetically ourselves. It resonates deeply with me because I've been in similar situations where I felt invisible amidst my circle... but focusing on personal development attracted individuals who genuinely valued my eccentricities.

Damn, I can totally feel the frustration you're dealing with!