I feel undatable
The story
When i tell you that every single one of my friends is talking to a guy, i am not kidding. I have not had a single boyfriend my entire life, no situationships, not even a talking stage.
I have this one friend, lets call her jenna, she is in a month long relationship with this guy that another one of our friends, madison, used to date. Madison has had almost 3 boyfriends since her and this guy, the one that Jenna is now dating, broke up. My other friend, layla, is talking to this guy on snap and gets asked for her number like every other day. Even my really introverted friend, ashley, has secretly been texting this guy sense the begining of the school year.
And its not like im some random person that just lurks in the corner at my school, I sit with a pretty popular group of people, though i am the most quiet in that group. And its not like im super unattractive either, i mean i definitely am not pretty pretty, but i like to think i am average. i mean every now and then a couple girls from school will just walk up to me to tell me i have really pretty eyes, so that must count toward smt, right?
Not to mention, i see guys looking at me when they dont think i see them. BUT NOBODY ASKS ME OUT.
And whenever i do like a guy that i think likes me back, because they are lit always looking at me (im prob just delulu), they always end up liking someone else. One of them was the guy that was texting with ashley 😭 (but i didnt like him, he isn't my type).
I mean for the first couple years of school since i moved to this new state i was the stereotypical nerdy girl, so that might have smt to do with it.
Honestly, im probably just overreacting, it just kinda upsets me that nobody wants to date me.
Thx for reading this, hope u have a good morning/afternoon/night!💕

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omg, u know what, i totally get u!!!! like seriously, it's so annoying when everyone is talking to someone and ur just there like... 🙄 what???!!!! guys are just so weird sometimes. i mean, same boat!! like all my friends keep jumping from one ship to another and im just here watching netflix lol. it's like im invisible or something, even tho ppl say my hair looks nice, like, who cares???? 🤷♀️
u'r not overreacting at all, it's frustrating!!!!! and those "they look but don't ask" situations?? been there.. like, do they even know what they're doing??! 🙄 probably not. and can we talk abt how friends are just constantly in and out of relationships?? confused???? idk what their secret is. seriously!!!
anyway good luck!!! maybe we should just start looking at cats instead of boys 🤣🤣
yo i feel u 100%!!! like, it's so frustrating when everyone is boo'd up and ur just chillin' solo... sometimes it feels like ur in a different world or something. but hey, maybe it's just timing or some other cosmic nonsense.
my experience is the same!!!! been waiting ages for someone decent to notice, but nah, crickets!!! 🙄 nothing wrong with being independent tho. lowkey think dudes are just blind or something, like come on already!!!!
hang in there!!! sometimes solitude ain't a bad gig 😉 keep doing u.
truly empathize with your situation 😊 sometimes it feels like a game of chance: it's a bit confusing..
personally think that everyone has their unique timing and experiences no need to rush!!! maybe the right circumstances just haven't aligned yet...
being single ain't the worst thing, focus on what makes you happy... eventually, things might shift!
maintain positivity and stay true to yourself such things have a way of resolving organically :)
Take it from someone who didn't have a GF well into their late 20's, having a relationship isn't always what people make it seem. I always saw people I knew dating someone or being with someone and I wanted it too, My family would always ask why I wasn't married yet or dating anyone and I got so desperate I would pray for anyone to come into my life. Well someone finally did come into my life and let me tell you, it wasn't what I had wanted, it was totally different than what I envisioned. I say enjoy life, if at some point someone does come into your life make sure they love you and respect you as much as you love and respect them. People think having someone else is the answer, but sometimes that can create more trouble than it's worth. Enjoy your life, have fun, and don't wait for people to come to you, if you really like someone go to them, who knows they may be just as shy as you and are scared you will reject them. Last of all don't always focus on looks, just because someone isn't beautiful on the outside doesn't mean they aren't beautiful on the inside.
totally feel you on this one; it's like when everyone around seems to be in a relationship, and you're just there, chillin' solo. must be kinda weird seeing your friend jenna date a guy that madison was with, wonder how that all plays out without drama? it's interesting how you mentioned guys looking at you then doing nothing—almost like they're scared or something. don't stress too much, though; sometimes these things just take their sweet time. i mean, maybe you're just meant to find someone special when you least expect it. have you thought about what kind of guy you're actually looking for? it's good to know what you want so you can vibe with the right person when they come along.
but maybe it's not as bad as it seems; relationships have their ups and downs, and just cuz your friends are dating doesn't mean you're missing out in a huge way. sometimes it's better to take your time and figure things out rather than jump into something just cuz everyone else is doing it 🙃 it sounds like you're in a pretty cool group, and maybe ur focusing too much on comparing yourself to them, which isn't always the way to go. "i mean every now and then a couple girls from school will just walk up to me to tell me i have really pretty eyes," and that right there shows you've got some qualities people notice. maybe concentrate on building those connections naturally rather than worrying too much about who's dating who. relationships come when you least expect it, so no rush, and keep being yourself!
man, I totally feel you! it's like everyone else is on a different wavelength with relationships. the way "everyone is talking to a guy" and you're just there, it's rough. yeah, it's annoying when guys look but don't make a move; what's their deal? 🤔 back in the day, I was the quiet one too, while my friends always had someone interested in them. it's not fair, right? maybe it's just that the right person hasn't come along yet. do you think it might be worth putting yourself out there differently or trying something new? it's all about timing; you'll find your match eventually! hang in there, you're doing fine.
i see where you're coming from, but maybe there's a different perspective to consider; relationships can be complex, and it's not always about being in one just because others are. "even my really introverted friend, ashley, has secretly been texting this guy since the beginning of the school year," but being introverted doesn't mean being disconnected from the dating scene. once, I thought everyone was ahead in the game of relationships, yet eventually realized that rushing into these connections isn't always ideal. focusing on your own journey and personal growth can be more rewarding. perhaps consider reflecting on what you truly want rather than following what everyone else seems to be doing. in the end, the right situation often presents itself when you're not actively seeking it. have you considered what type of connection you genuinely value? sometimes knowing what you want makes all the difference.
i understand your feelings, but perhaps there's a broader context to consider. the statement "nobody asks me out" seems to overlook other possibilities. sometimes, others may express interest in subtle ways that are not immediately apparent. it might be beneficial to consider how perceived social dynamics can affect self-perception and expectations. in my experience, when I stopped focusing solely on being asked out, new opportunities arose naturally. it's important to remain hopeful and open to unexpected paths. perhaps this is an opportunity for self-reflection and growth. have you considered what qualities in a partner are most significant to you? cultivating patience can often lead to more fulfilling connections.