My sister’s boyfriend is cheating on her, shall I tell her?
The story
My sister has been dating this guy named Bryan for pretty much 3 months now, and like— her life is already so tragic in some ways I can’t explain due to being too personal;; Jane was third wheeling for an amount of time and today I saw them on the basketball court— and you know the stuff they did
I’m afraid that if I tell my sister then she might lock herself up in her room for another week… shall I tell her tho? Bryan has been toxic to her the past few days and I think she knows— does she?

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Points of view
it seems like Bryan might not be the best influence... but be careful not to ruin your relationship with your sister: the messenger is often mistreated in this kind of story...
:( I guess I shouldn’t bother then…
hard to say ut maybe let time do its work :-/
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honestly i feel like there's always multiple sides to a story and we might not have the complete picture here based just on your perspective it sounds like you’re quite worried about your sister and her well-being which is totally understandable but maybe it's too quick to label bryan as completely toxic like relationships are inherently subjective and nuanced with highs and bends and maybe talking to your sister or observing more without jumping to conclusions might shed some light on the situation; it's essential to approach such matters with both sensitivity and caution as people can often recompense or misinterpret things when emotionally charged misunderstandings could escalate issues further if not handled with care relationships are like a complex ecosystem and one small change can have unforeseen effects over time conversation and empathy might be more constructive in assisting your sister to make an informed decision without feeling pressured or cornered
hey, i totally get where you're coming from and it sounds like you're in a really tough spot. i've seen similar situations with people not realizing the toxicity in their relationships, and it’s heartbreaking. your sister has been through a lot, and it’s hard seeing someone close to you getting hurt. i remember when my friend dated someone kinda like bryan and it was like walking on eggshells all the time. just wondering though, what exactly happened on the basketball court that made you concerned? it’s so important to protect your sister emotionally, but also to make sure she knows you’re there for her no matter what. sometimes just being that open ear can help her see things clearer without feeling pressured. have you thought about how to approach her about this or if maybe there's a way to show her that you're worried in a gentle way?
hey, i hear your concerns, and they are valid, but sometimes things aren't as bad as they seem. maybe bryan's behavior lately is just a phase or something temporary. relationships can be complicated, and not everything is black and white. i had a buddy once who seemed toxic from the outside, but he was just dealing with personal stuff and worked through it. people go through rough patches; maybe it’d be good to chat with your sister to get the whole story. just curious, what do you think your sister would say if you asked her directly about bryan's actions? communication might help clear up misunderstandings and lead to solutions. sometimes, having a direct convo can change everything and bring some clarity and hope into the situation 😊