Was i even dating this dude and did i really cheat on him?
The story
So i met a guy on a video game and he starts flirting with me and my friend and then tells us about his previous crushes and hookups while flirting with us and when my friend confronts him about it without my permission and tells about my feelings to him; he says he doesnt really know how to talk to girls and we just forgive him but i start to make fun of him the way he makes misogynistic and derogatory jokes towards me.
Then i meet a new guy who totally seemed awkward and uninterested and saw potential in him and he just asks for my pictures and doesnt send his; gets weird amount of attention from my female friends, rarely spends time with me, when i refuse to send him my pictures he guilt trips me; tells me he loves me within a week of knowing me;I start to roast and constantly talk about the guy who makes fun of me to get my revenge and im labelled as obsessed and cheating on the guy im talking to because he didnt know that i used to have feelings for the guy i was making fun of. i later told him about all about it and then i broke up with him and he later sends his picture and says “i knew long distance wouldnt work out this is why i am sending my picture right now” i later gave him closure about why i wanted to break up. he later goes and talks shit about me to my friends but when i do the same; he got mad and just blocked me. i have tried multiple times to apologise, sent 100+messages trying to talk to ppl but they dont wanna listen. i was told later in december by the guy i used to like and the one who used to make fun of me actually did have feelings for me after-all. i’m so sick of these lies and manipulation
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sounds like you've been through a lot with these guys?
It seems like you're caught in a complex web of emotional manipulation, but recognizing the patterns is a powerful step towards healthier interactions!! 🙂
Wow, that's quite a tangled situation!! It seems like there's a lot of drama and miscommunication going around. I'm curious though — how did you feel when you found out the guy had feelings for you after all?
yo, that sounds straight up like a rollercoaster of drama 🎢. can't believe these dudes be acting so immature and sketchy, like why play games if you ain't got no game? your friend putting your feelings out there without asking is wild too 😬. honestly, props to you for trying to put the pieces together and apologize, but maybe it's time to surround yourself with people who respect and appreciate you more. sometimes cutting ties can open doors to better connections 🙌.
Oh man, that sounds like a real rollercoaster of emotions and drama!!! It's wild how some people can flip the script when things don't go their way. I totally get why you'd be frustrated with all the manipulation and mixed signals. But seriously, what's up with these guys making such a fuss over pictures?!! Kind of makes you wonder if they were really interested in you as a person or just shallow right??? Sometimes it seems like gaming communities can be full of folks who act like they're still in high school... How do you feel about taking some time to just focus on yourself or maybe find a community that's less chaotic?