Was i even dating this dude and did i really cheat on him?
The story
So i met a guy on a video game and he starts flirting with me and my friend and then tells us about his previous crushes and hookups while flirting with us and when my friend confronts him about it without my permission and tells about my feelings to him; he says he doesnt really know how to talk to girls and we just forgive him but i start to make fun of him the way he makes misogynistic and derogatory jokes towards me.
Then i meet a new guy who totally seemed awkward and uninterested and saw potential in him and he just asks for my pictures and doesnt send his; gets weird amount of attention from my female friends, rarely spends time with me, when i refuse to send him my pictures he guilt trips me; tells me he loves me within a week of knowing me;I start to roast and constantly talk about the guy who makes fun of me to get my revenge and im labelled as obsessed and cheating on the guy im talking to because he didnt know that i used to have feelings for the guy i was making fun of. i later told him about all about it and then i broke up with him and he later sends his picture and says “i knew long distance wouldnt work out this is why i am sending my picture right now” i later gave him closure about why i wanted to break up. he later goes and talks shit about me to my friends but when i do the same; he got mad and just blocked me. i have tried multiple times to apologise, sent 100+messages trying to talk to ppl but they dont wanna listen. i was told later in december by the guy i used to like and the one who used to make fun of me actually did have feelings for me after-all. i’m so sick of these lies and manipulation
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sounds like you've been through a lot with these guys?
It seems like you're caught in a complex web of emotional manipulation, but recognizing the patterns is a powerful step towards healthier interactions!! 🙂
Wow, that's quite a tangled situation!! It seems like there's a lot of drama and miscommunication going around. I'm curious though — how did you feel when you found out the guy had feelings for you after all?
yo, that sounds straight up like a rollercoaster of drama 🎢. can't believe these dudes be acting so immature and sketchy, like why play games if you ain't got no game? your friend putting your feelings out there without asking is wild too 😬. honestly, props to you for trying to put the pieces together and apologize, but maybe it's time to surround yourself with people who respect and appreciate you more. sometimes cutting ties can open doors to better connections 🙌.
Oh man, that sounds like a real rollercoaster of emotions and drama!!! It's wild how some people can flip the script when things don't go their way. I totally get why you'd be frustrated with all the manipulation and mixed signals. But seriously, what's up with these guys making such a fuss over pictures?!! Kind of makes you wonder if they were really interested in you as a person or just shallow right??? Sometimes it seems like gaming communities can be full of folks who act like they're still in high school... How do you feel about taking some time to just focus on yourself or maybe find a community that's less chaotic?
oh wow, this situation seems like a prime example of what can happen when communication gets all mixed up in the digital age!!! it feels like there's a lot going on with these guys and their confusing behavior patterns, and it's got to be quite overwhelming for you. i can't help but think maybe it's time to recalibrate your focus towards interactions that are more genuine and less drama-filled??? speaking from personal experience, dealing with people who are all about games can be emotionally exhausting and affect one's well-being!! i mean, it's totally fine to set boundaries and look out for yourself amidst this chaos!
Man, sounds like you're stuck in a never-ending reality TV show episode, and not the fun kind either; but hey, sometimes people just suck at being honest and clear about their intentions, right?
Man, you’re dealing with a real cluster of BS here 🌀. I gotta say, for someone involved in all this chaos, seems like you're handling it with some awareness; these dudes sound like they should've taken Communication 101 instead of whatever games they're playing 🤦♂️. But here's a kicker: ever heard "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me"? Stop letting these clowns walk all over you and start putting yourself first. Cut the crap and focus on finding folks worth your time—trust me, it'll save you from more headaches down the line. 🙂
wow, sounds like a never-ending soap opera, seriously! these guys seem to have been all about drama and not much about being genuine. it's crazy how they seem more into playing mind games than building real connections. ever think about just taking a break from all the relationship stuff for a bit? focusing on your own happiness might be just what you need right now. 😊
it's kind of troubling how these situations play out, especially online where things can be blown out of proportion easily 😕. it seems like both guys were a bit manipulative and maybe not as genuine as they should've been. honestly, sending 100+ messages sounds exhausting and it might be worth considering if these relationships are really worth all this effort. taking a step back could help you see who's truly supportive in your life without getting caught up in the drama. staying focused on what's best for you rather than pleasing others might change everything!
man, this whole situation sounds like a bad episode of a romcom gone wrong! 😅 gotta say though, it feels like maybe you're getting tangled up with a lot of people who aren't being straight with you; it's like navigating through emotional landmines. i was in a similar spot once, where folks were all about playing mind games instead of being real; it took stepping back to see who's worth the time and energy. maybe try looking for activities or communities that match your vibe more—it's amazing how much better things can be when you focus on what makes you truly happy 💫
sounds like you're dealing with a whole lot of unnecessary drama and mixed messages, but honestly, why even bother investing in people who ain't straightforward from the start; perhaps it's time to rethink your priorities and focus on those who prove their worth instead of playing games?
man, you’ve been tangled in some serious drama vibes; sounds like these dudes aren't winning any awards for emotional intelligence anytime soon. seriously though, what’s with these guys and their obsession over pics? do they think that’s the only way to connect? you deserve better than dealing with manipulative mind games from folks who can’t even be straightforward about their feelings or intentions. maybe it's time to rethink your circle and shift focus on people who add positivity and honesty to your life instead of draining it. are you considering stepping back from these chaotic interactions for a bit?
sounds like you've been caught up in a whirlwind, and it's hard to see clearly when you're in the eye of the storm; but here's a thought—maybe part of the issue is expecting too much from these online connections. i've seen people get really invested in virtual relationships, only to find out they don't match real-world vibes at all. it might help to focus on building connections locally where you can truly gauge someone's intentions face-to-face! although, i bet stepping back and evaluating what you really want from a relationship could do wonders for your peace of mind!!!! ultimately, you deserve someone who's straightforward and genuine, not just another player in this drama; hang tight and trust that you'll figure it out soon enough!
It's wild how some people seem to thrive on creating chaos and confusion, but have you ever wondered why these situations keep pulling you in?
It's incredible how tangled and intricate online relationships can become, particularly when clear communication seems to be missing; it's as if everything becomes a jigsaw puzzle with pieces that don't quite fit. You mentioned making fun of the guy for his jokes—how did he react when you turned the tables on him? It’s definitely frustrating dealing with folks who seem more interested in drama than genuine connections 😅. Maybe focusing more on yourself and what brings you joy could be a game-changer—I mean, why let others’ negativity bring you down? Prioritise your own happiness first, and you'll find better energy surrounding you.