Whats your opinion?..
The story
Him: For a moment, I thought maybe you’re one of those girls too. (because he heard of teenage pregnancy is increasing)
Who knows, maybe you have some boyfriend…
And you have s*x with him.
Him: Anyway baby, you’re really not doing such things, right?
She: ARE YOU CRAZY??? YOU MUST BE OUT OF YOUR GODDAMN MIND?
Him: Most girls have already done it.
It’s the same in every country—
Not just India.
She: What do you mean “doing it”?!
Him: I didn’t say that, honey…
She: Oh, you didn’t say it? But I’m saying it.
That thought was yours.
You think I’m a w**re?
I’m a bi***?
She: Hey, I’m not from (adcabc) you know that.
Him: (abcabc) is number 1 in this.
She: Are you mad? I’m from the East side!
And wtf you are thinking about my character?
Him: I didn’t say that, honey…
She: Oh, you didn’t say it? But I’m saying it.
That thought was yours.
You think I’m a whore?
I’m a bitch?
Him: Baby…
She: How can you even think that?
Him: I’m just saying what I thought for a second.
She: You are the dumbest fucking asshole I’ve ever met.
Him: Baby…
I was just talking about that moment, and I know now…
Baby…
Him: Baby…
I was just talking about that moment, and I realize now…
Baby, I love you. Really.
Let’s just drop all this… baby.
Her: This conversation has become completely inappropriate and uncomfortable.
Him: For you maybe, baby.
Not for me.
Her: You repeatedly made personal and offensive comments that are disrespectful and suspicious. I’m fucking ashamed that you even thought that.
Him: Because I love you.
And no matter what you say, it doesn’t hurt me.
I love you more than you love me.
More than anyone else.
I don’t care what you say, I only care that you’re saying something, and I love it.
What happened?
You should try to understand me.
Not just sit on one thing I said and fight over it.
That’s not it.
I’m not perfect.
Her: So now you’ll question my character? Hahahaha.
Him: But everything you do affects me so much.
I always remember those moments…
That someone once did that for me too.
Baby, I said it’s not suspicion.
Her: Then what would you call the things you said?
Him: To be honest, (something garbage)…
Her: At least spell my name right.
Him: You have the dumbest boyfriend.
I’ll stay single from now on, I’ll never get into a relationship again,
because I’m not worthy of it.
And honestly, I had already lost interest in girls.
I need to accept reality.
Her: Just tell someone—tell your mom or sister—that you said those things to your girlfriend.
You’ll never understand what it means to say such things to a girl, and how deeply it affects her.
Accept it.
Childish.
Him: Okay baby…
You’re right.
I understand now.
Because I’ve already said it.
I just couldn’t remember that moment before, but now ....
I’m sorry.
I love you.
I love you so much.
(After she calm down a little)
Her: Men are shit. I'm done with them.
I might die before I fall for anyone ever again.
Him: It’s okay, (girl name). Then let’s end it now?
(??)
Her: Sounds so eager.
Him: See you next time.
Her: You want to be free? Then go ahead.
Him: Haha.
Her: I've erased you from here (the chat), wish I could erase you from my mind too.
Him: I wish.
I hope you come out of all this soon.
Her: No clarity, no respect… why the fuck do I still love you?
Him: Yeah, (girl name).
For a girl, these things matter the most?
Her: Just go away from here.
Him: Okay then.
(She really loved him and after thinking for a while)
she:
I know you’ve been through a lot, and I wanted to be there for you to make things better. But right now, I need to step back for my own peace. I can’t ignore the hurt I’m feeling anymore. I truly hope you find the happiness and healing you need, but I also need to heal. Please understand that I’m doing this for myself.
Him:
Selfish.
I don't care about myself.
You know, I could die for you.
I love you more than anyone, even more than my own family.
But I also want this.
Selfish.
You know how much I love you.
But you don’t even try to understand.
You only care about yourself.
Her:
Playing the victim, aren’t you?
Him:
Leave it.
I can’t say anything now.
I think we should stay apart.
Just take care.
Her:
As you wish.
Him:
Honey, I love you.
But I’m not the right one for you.
I come from a poor family.
I’m not even handsome.
Her:
I don’t care.
But honestly, it feels like you’ve become mentally unstable.
I always thought you were handsome, good-looking, and a good person.
But what the hell is going on with your thinking?
Him:
I’m a small-minded person… just thinking like them.
Her:
Whatever.
Her: I’m done with this conversation. Take care.
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Points of view
man, that's rough!! totally get why you're upset. it sucks when someone questions your integrity like that; i've had similar bs happen to me. it makes you doubt everything. relationships shouldn't be about throwing accusations around. trust and respect are everything!! it's so draining when communication breaks down like this??? i hope things get better for you. just remember, you deserve someone who understands and values you💔
damn, that's seriously exhausting. totally get why you're feeling this way. dealing with assumptions and accusations is never easy; had a situation like that once, and it really messed with my trust in people. when communication goes south, it feels like everything's on shaky ground. it's like navigating a minefield of emotions. why can't people just talk openly without jumping to conclusions? hope things turn around for you soon, because everyone deserves to be in a relationship where they're respected and understood 😔
It seems like a very challenging experience, and your feelings are completely valid. However, might it be worth considering if any miscommunication led to this situation; communication is often the key to resolving such misunderstandings. In my experience, open dialogue has always helped mend similar rifts in relationships. Do you think there's a chance that discussing your feelings and expectations openly with each other could lead to a positive outcome? I hope clarity and mutual understanding can be achieved, leading to a stronger bond in the future.
sounds like you're overreacting!!!! why make such a big deal over a conversation?? seems like you're both not communicating properly. instead of getting mad, maybe try talking calmly? it's not all about you. maybe there's another side to this story; ever think about that? how do you plan to deal with this long-term? come on, work on finding common ground if you really care.
man, that's a tough situation you're in and honestly, i get where you're coming from. when someone questions your "integrity," it's super frustrating and can really "shake up" your perception of things; it's like, why can't people just have an open convo instead of jumping to conclusions? it's great that you're venting, sometimes letting it all out is just what you need. "communication is key" might sound clichéd, but it's on point in situations like this. do you think there's room for a more "constructive dialogue" moving forward? it's crucial to strike a balance between expressing your emotions and understanding the other person's perspective.
sounds like both of you need to take a step back and chill. yeah, it's not cool to jump to conclusions, but let's be real, everyone makes mistakes. "two wrongs don't make a right," they say. maybe try focusing on what brought you together in the first place? it could totally help to clear the air if you both just talk it out without all the baggage. keep your head up; things can always get better with a little patience and understanding.