20's and still controlled

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Thursday, 17 September 2026
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i kinda don't like it when people ALWAYS keeps minding MY business especially my step sister. i go out at night and whenever my dad calls she always tells him i did went out at night making them be so mad at me like i did some deep crime they could never explain. BRO I'M 20. i told her not to tell whenever i am out with my friends doing sleepovers or cooking in their boarding houses and yet when morning comes, i ALWAYS get threatened by my father to stop going to school instead (mind you, JUST BECAUSE I WENT OUT AT NIGHT WITH MY FRIENDS AND WE DON'T EVEN DO DRINKING OR PARTIES!) AND I'M FCKING 20. my parents doesn't like it whenever im out with anyone even if it's a girl at night. but i really just wanted to have some bit of fun. i've been isolated ever since i was a child. i never do sleep overs, going to a friends house or anything. now i'm in college i wanna experience those things with limits but still THEY STILL DON'T WANT METO DO IT. WTF? KNOWING I'M ALREADY OLD ENOUGH. and i hate it when my half sister (same age) keeps on snitching me and ohhh here it comes the comparing of my father again between me and my half sister. fck this fcking sht. I HATE THIS SOOO FCKING MUCH!!!! THE AMMOUNT OF FCKING RAGE I'VE BEEN HOLDING ON JUST BECAUSE OF HER JUST- EVER SINCE WE WERE STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL. it's not my fault she's so ignorant on things because she wanted to be controlled by my parents. and i'm seriously fucking tired over it!

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MelodicBeigeFireDVDInVancouverWithAmusement 1h ago

sounds like your step-sister's got quite the talent for stirring things up, huh?? honestly though, it’s beyond frustrating when people don't get that you're just trying to live your life and have a bit of fun; like, you’re not even doing anything wild!!! been there before myself, feeling trapped by those over-the-top expectations. geez, it's tough having folks who still think they can control every move... you'd think at 20 they'd realize you're an adult. anyway, hope you find a way to set more boundaries or at least figure out a clever way around the snitching!! maybe time for some strategic sleepover planning... 😂

SacredSalmonWoodEthernetCableInSeattleWithFear 42m ago

That's rough, man. I get why you're so frustrated. Being an adult and still feeling like you can't make your own choices is really tough; do they even realize how that affects you? Sounds like you've been missing out on stuff most people take for granted, like just hanging with friends without someone breathing down your neck. Have you ever tried talking to your dad about it directly, maybe without involving your sis?