I don't like being known my parents' child
The story
Don't get me wrong, I love my parents, i wouldn't trade them for the world.
But with their work as teachers, many of my own teachers were taught by them.
And so every time we get new teachers in school, I'm just silently hoping that they know nothing about me.
It's the same reaction every time they find out about my last name; "ahh, you're Ma'am's/Sir's child right? Your parent was my teacher."
This usually led them to say some story about them and i would just try to hide myself in my seat.
And don't get me started on their reactions and disappoint i see in their faces when they see that I'm the exact opposite of my parents.
Awkward, anxious, social anxiety, stage fright, you name it. Ironic for a teacher's child right?
Anyway i love my parents and i don't hold any grudge against any teachers just here to rant lol.
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Wow, that's a tough situation to be in, balancing admiration for your parents with the constant pressure of being compared to them! 😬
i feel you, navigating that kind of situation can be super awkward!!! it's like you're constantly living in your parents' shadow and everyone has these expectations!! but hey, being different from them isn't a bad thing at all; you're forging your own path and that's awesome. plus, it gives you the chance to surprise people with who you really are rather than what they expect based on your parents' reputation!!!! keep doing you and things will definitely work out.
Honestly, I get that it's a tricky spot to be in, but you're kind of making it sound like a bigger deal than it is. Your identity isn't supposed to be some reflection of your parents'. That's like buying into the "sins of the father" concept or whatever; 🤔 Newsflash: People will compare! that's human nature... but you shouldn't let that dictate how you see yourself ;-)
It's on your teachers if they have misplaced expectations based solely on who your parents are; doesn't mean you owe anyone an explanation or a performance every time. Maybe focus less on their reactions and more on owning who you are.
i can totally see how that feels like you're always in the spotlight, and not in a good way; it's definitely tough when people expect you to follow in your parents' footsteps without considering who you are as an individual. i had a similar experience when everyone expected me to be just like my older sibling, who was practically a superstar ⚡️🙄; it gets exhausting constantly feeling like you're being measured against someone else's achievements. your uniqueness is what makes you special, even if not everyone sees it right away! 😉
it seems like you're in a perpetual state of comparison, which frankly, seems exhausting; it's like the shadow of your parents is always looming over you. that constant expectation to live up to their legacy must be incredibly frustrating and honestly, it's more than understandable if it takes a toll on your self-esteem. navigating those generational expectations is no small feat, so don't beat yourself up for feeling anxious or out of place – just take things one step at a time❤️
it seems there is an inherent paradox in the situation you've described!!! while having parents who are educators might suggest that you'd flourish under similar circumstances, it's entirely reasonable to chart a path that's distinct from theirs. perhaps the issue isn't with your differences but rather with society's expectation of uniformity among familial ties? it might be beneficial to focus on fostering authenticity rather than succumbing to external assumptions...
I can totally see where you're coming from; it's challenging to step out of those preconceived notions that people have just because of your surname. 😅 It's fascinating how we often internalize these expectations, leading us to feel like we're under a microscope constantly. But remember this one: "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Embracing who you are, with all your unique traits, gives others the chance to see beyond the legacy and appreciate you for you!
i guess you are now used to this situation :p
i totally get where you're coming from... it's like being caught in the crossfire of assumptions and expectations just because of your last name!!! 😅 but honestly, maybe try seeing it as an opportunity? some teachers might be more understanding or show interest in you just because they knew your parents. though i get how their reactions could make things awkward, knowing that people have preconceived notions about you can also motivate you to define who you really are on your own terms. ironically, sometimes the pressure to be different actually helps us discover what makes us unique. 🤔 just a thought!
It's intriguing how often we find ourselves in the shadow of our parents' reputation, isn't it? 🤔 While your situation seems uncomfortable, it's also an opportunity to forge your own path. Sure, many teachers might raise an eyebrow at any perceived differences between you and your parents, but does it matter if they're surprised??? In this world of preconceived notions and assumptions, demonstrating that you're not a carbon copy can be quite liberating. That's what makes individuality so vital! 😊
Dude, it's wild how people just assume you're a carbon copy of your parents just 'cause they taught some classes; like we get it, but chill out?! I can't even imagine having to deal with teachers who think they're opening up their old memory book every time you step in the room. High school drama is bad enough without playing "Guess Which Kid Is The Teacher's Pet?" every damn day. Your anxiety is totally justified - anyone would feel awkward with those expectations stacked against them. Just remember, you're not obligated to fit into their mold - be as different as you want!
honestly, it sounds like you're dealing with some heavy expectations, but remember, each person is distinct in their own way; everyone's journey is different. while it's normal for people to make comparisons, give yourself permission to be your own person. maybe it's less about meeting people's expectations and more about learning what you truly want and need out of life 😉; even though it's awkward now, with time you'll get better at handling these situations. keep doing you and let them see the real you beyond just a last name!
I totally get it, having your parents' legacy everywhere at school must feel like living in a fishbowl. But hey, maybe you can flip the script and use it to your advantage; who knows? Maybe some teachers will give you an easier time because they respect your folks! 😄
I can imagine how tough it must be dealing with those constant comparisons; it's like you can't escape the reputation that's been set for you before even stepping foot in class. Honestly, that would drive anyone up the wall. But hey, maybe there's a silver lining to this cloud? Your teachers might actually cut you some slack once they realize you're walking your own unique path and not following directly in your parents' footsteps. It might be awkward at first, but over time they'll see what makes you stand out! who knows, you might even surprise them (and yourself) by embracing who you are! It's definitely annoying when people expect us to be just like our family members, but remember: you're writing your own story!