I love everything about my life, but I hate my family
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Sorry in advance for my bad English
People often told me that they wished they had my parents because im allowed to do so much stuff but in reality, im not that happy with my family at all. If I were to make a top ten of things that make me happy, my family would be at the bottom.
Sure, they buy me stuff, are kind of supportive in my choices but I don’t feel safe or comfortable enough to be myself. I hide clothes I know they’ll judge me on, don’t show them the stuff I make or things I’m passionate about because i know they’ll laugh at me or judge me for it.
For example, I recently went to a concert and had a very beautiful outfit. I was too scared to show them so I didn’t until he got home from the concert and their reaction was just like expected. They told me it was lame, that I looked ridiculous while all I wore was a dress with some tights and a headband. I didn’t get it. I missed the fun I had at the concert and my friends and it instantly ruined my mood. I cried after that.
At school, I can be myself. I show my friends all I’m passionate about and I don’t feel pressured to hide things. My teachers are very nice, I tell them a lot too but when I get home, I want to go away again. I didn’t wish I lived another life, I just wished I had another family.
And please don’t tell me that they’re just trying.. that parents get tired too or get angry sometimes too because it’s not sometimes it’s everyday and it makes me tired and sad. I don’t remember a day where I felt genuinely happy to be home.

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Hey, I totally get where you're coming from, but part of me wonders if maybe you’re being a bit hard on your folks; I know it's tough not feeling understood by your family, but sometimes parents just don't get it, ya know? Like, my parents never got my style either, always made some snide comments about my ripped jeans and band tees. But I figured out that they just didn't understand my vibe. Over time, I found small ways to show them who I am without feeling too vulnerable. It’s annoying, but families can be that way. Maybe try finding a middle ground or maybe having a chat with them about how their words make you feel. It might not change overnight, but it could help ease some tension.
ugh, that sounds rough, I totally feel for you!! it's so frustrating when you can't be yourself at home and have to hide who you are. your family's reactions seem pretty harsh and it's no wonder you feel bummed out by it all 😞. i mean, shouldn't home be where you feel most safe and accepted; it's just not fair to have to deal with dismissive comments from your own family. sure, parents aren't perfect, but they should at least try to understand and support your passions and choices. why is it so hard for some families to get that??? hang in there, though; maybe things will get better with time, or maybe you can find ways to express yourself more freely without seeking their approval.
hey, i hear you, but i gotta be honest, maybe there's a bit of an overreaction here; sure, feeling misunderstood at home isn't a walk in the park, but proposing the idea that a different family would change everything might be a bit of a stretch. family dynamics inherently come with their fair share of challenges, and it's often a perpetual balancing act. i remember thinking my parents didn't get me at all when they'd critique my creative pursuits, but sometimes they just lacked the vocabulary to express support. consider the possibility that they may be dealing with their own communication deficits. not saying it's all sunshine and roses, but perhaps some introspection could reveal more than meets the eye. i know it sounds cliché, but understanding often requires a bit more digging than we initially realize 😅.
man, i totally get you!!! it honestly sucks when your own family can't just let you be yourself, right?? 😤 i've had similar experiences, where dressing up or talking about my interests would just get me eye rolls or sarcastic comments at home. and yeah, it's so tiring and disappointing; like, shouldn't family mean support and encouragement??? "home is where the heart is," they say, but it sometimes feel more like "home is where the judgement is." it’s great that you've found a safe space with your friends and at school, that’s a huge win 🌟! my advice, when things get heavy at home, lean more into that positivity you get outside and remember you’re not alone in this—many of us are right there with you. hang in there!!!
seriously, that must be exhausting 😤; i think there's some truth to your frustration. it's frustrating when those who are supposed to accept you seem to do the complete opposite. the so-called "unconditional support" from family sometimes feels like a myth. i once had to hide my passions too because the judgment was overwhelming. "a house is not a home," they say, and sometimes that's the harsh reality. but don't lose hope, you might find ways to stand your ground and express your individuality without their validation. it just takes a little bit of persistence and courage 💪.
man, i kinda get where you're coming from, but don't you think maybe you're blowing things out of proportion?? like yeah, it sucks when your family doesn't get your vibe, but thinking another family would solve everything might not be realistic. families are complicated, and communication can be a total mess sometimes. saying "the grass is always greener on the other side" rings true here!!! maybe your family just needs a different way to understand your world. i've been there too, thinking my folks didn't get me, but with time, things got a bit better as we all learned to talk more openly. hang in there and maybe give it another shot 😅.
sounds like a tough spot you're in 😕. i get it, families can really mess with your head sometimes. you're just trying to do your thing, and they're making it complicated; not cool at all. but let's be real, dreaming about having a different family won't fix it. every family has their own set of problems, and throwing shade at yours might not be super productive. sure, it's total garbage when they put you down, especially when you should feel safe at home!!!! but maybe there's room for more clarity between you guys. honestly, it could help if you try to explain what you're feeling, even if only just to clear the air. sometimes people need a wake-up call to see that their words are hurtful. who knows, it could make a difference.
totally feel you on this one, it's emotionally draining and disheartening 😞. can't blame you for feeling like "home" isn't really home when it's filled with derogatory remarks and dismissive attitudes. been there, done that; i had to endure my fair share of baseless critiques too, always made me feel like an outsider wearing my own skin. the sentiment that "blood is thicker than water" sometimes feels like a cruel joke when familial ties seem to hold only judgment instead of empathy. expressing individuality should never equate to ridicule, yet here we are, wrestling with this unwelcome paradox. here's hoping for a day when they might comprehend the vitality of acceptance and support in familial units, but honestly, not holding my breath. keep doing you, 'cause that's what matters most.
totally get where you're coming from, it sucks feeling like you can't be yourself at home. trust me, i've been there, dealing with disapproving looks and snarky comments that make you wanna hide all the cool stuff that defines you. while frequent critiques from family can feel stifling, perhaps their engagement is unintentionally rooted in concern for your welfare rather than a desire to undermine. families can be complex, and learning to communicate expectations can sometimes open channels for understanding. who knows, they might surprise you and come around, though i'm not saying it's easy or gonna happen overnight. keep holding onto hope, 'cause your happiness is key 💪.