I think I hate my family

just keep in mind tell no one because they will try and get in your head. just work in silence and when you leave just leave and, if you really want to leave change your number and block them. you'll find a chosen family somewhere else you don't need to deal with that<3

Wow, that's rough, Laos; family dynamics can be so complicated sometimes when expectations clash!

i don't know, man... it sounds kinda fishy to me. are you sure it's just about failing a uni subject??? like, why would your whole family turn against you for that??? doesn't add up. maybe there's more to the story you're not seeing or telling?!! families can be tough and all... but their reaction seems way over the top for something so minor!!! i think leaving might be jumping the gun without understanding everything at play here.

I get it, man, families can be a pain in the neck sometimes; but failing one uni subject and them all turning on you? 🤔 Sounds bizarre. Maybe there's underlying stuff that's been simmering for a while and that was just the tipping point? Sure, leaving might feel like the best choice now, but make sure you've thought through everything before chucking out the whole household from your life. Sometimes talking helps, but I guess that's not an option here! so stay true to what feels right for you.

Laos, man, it sounds like you're going through a pretty tough time right now. It's incredible how family can sometimes be the toughest crowd to please, even when they should be our biggest supporters. 😔 What you're going through is hard, but remember what they say: “Tough times don’t last; tough people do.” You've clearly got the resolve to make your life better on your terms, which is awesome! Taking steps towards independence might just give you the breathing room you need to flourish and prove them all wrong in the end. Keep that chin up and build your path brick by brick: eventually, you'll look back and see just how far you've come!

Oh man, that sounds really tough. It's crazy how something like failing a uni subject can just turn everything upside down! 😟 Personally, I think it's so important to stand up for yourself when family seems to want to make you the scapegoat for everything. That's not fair at all! Maybe focusing on getting that job and working towards your independence could be the fresh start you need. Do you have any particular type of job in mind that you'd love to dive into? Just remember, there's strength in following your own path and finding people who truly appreciate you for who you are. Keep pushing forward and take it one step at a time! 💪

it is regrettable to see familial relationships deteriorate over academic setbacks. the pressure from those closest to you can be overwhelming, especially when it feels unjustified. i believe independence could offer you a fresh perspective and the space to heal and grow, but make sure this choice aligns with your long-term aspirations. when i faced similar family challenges, stepping back provided clarity on what truly mattered to me, allowing me to forge my own path forward successfully.

Laos, not gonna lie, your family sounds like a real piece of work, but are you sure failing one subject is the entire reason for this drama? 🤔 It's kind of wild they'd all gang up on you over something so trivial. Look, I get needing to break away from toxic vibes, but running off without a game plan ain't exactly the solution either 👎 Grab life by the reins and consider what you're really walking into before making hasty decisions. It's easy to fantasize about leaving, imagining it as some grand escape when in reality it's a whole new ballgame out there; jobs won't just fall into your lap. You gotta strategize carefully!

update. First of all, thank you for your supportive comments, I sincerely appreciate them, secondly, for those who say that this entire show for a simple matter seems to them to be a lie because it is not, my family is very hard on me for them, if I do not have a grade of 10/10 I am nothing or I am trash, which is something that has affected me my entire life. I told them that when I told them that I was leaving and the whole thing, they threatened to call the police since I am still a minor and they took advantage of that, well now I'm still here but I already have a plan and everything, my best friend will help me by staying with her while I turn 18 to be able to become independent, her family said that there was no problem so they would accept me, because now I am under threat that if I do something they will physically attack me and I will be stronger than before They have done it when I have lost an exam or something, well I am ready for anything and if nothing comes my way I would rather kill myself before continuing with these people.