My loser daughter
The story
So, my 37 year old daughter left her husband and my grandchildren last year for a freaking convict! Now, I am all about 2nd chances but he's a loser with a capital l! She was screwing him before she left and now the 2 older grandkids are here with me and my ex, and she spends all her time up north with the prick! Whom I found out treats her like shit! I did not raise her alone to be like this! She thinks she did a good thing by leaving her husband and she's right. He was a dick, just realized it too late. Now my youngest granddaughter is with her dad because my loser daughter doesn't have fucking time for any of her kids! She actually told my oldest granddaughter she was "on her own and she couldn't be bothered by anything in her life" , what a fucking bitch! I fucking hate her and want to disown her, is there anyway legally I can do that? I'm about to freak the fuck out on her, I just haven't yet because my granddaughters asked me not to. But my health is also on the line, already had 1 heart surgery. What do I do?
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whoa, sounds like a mess! 😮
man, that's just a whole lot to unpack 🤯; kids should never have to deal with that kind of drama! it's tough when family goes down a path you can't support. sounds like you're doing your best for the grandkids, which is what matters most rn! hang in there and take care of yourself too ✌️
for the legal part, what country do you live in?
Gosh, what a whirlwind of emotions you're dealing with!!! 😧 It's heartbreaking to see someone you love make choices that seem so misaligned with their best interests, especially when it affects innocent kids. It's distressing how complex family dynamics can become and how they challenge our understanding of right and wrong. I'm not legally savvy, but perhaps speaking to a family attorney could provide some guidance on the situation?? Consider using resources like therapy or mediation as this might help you find some emotional clarity. 🌼 Remember, it's crucial to take care of your health; you can't pour from an empty cup!! 🤗 I've seen families in my neighborhood face similar dilemmas where parents had to balance their own well-being while supporting their grandkids. Stay strong!!!
so sorry you're dealing with all this 😔; it's crazy how family issues can cause so much stress, especially when your health is at stake :(
wow, that's a heavy load you're carrying there. i can only imagine how hard it must be to see your daughter make such questionable choices. i once knew someone who had to step up for their grandkids too and it was both rewarding and exhausting 😓 remember, it's okay to feel angry and hurt - those emotions are valid. maybe consider talking with a family counselor or therapist yourself; they might offer new ways to cope with the stress it's putting on you. just don't let this situation compromise your health – your grandkids need you around in good shape! also, keep those communication lines open with your grandchildren because they'll appreciate having a stable figure they can talk to.
jeez, that's a lot of layers to unravel 😳; it's definitely frustrating when someone you care about makes decisions that ripple out in unexpected ways. sometimes people make choices that defy logic and reason, especially under the influence of tumultuous emotions. it might be worth considering looking into guardianship options if you're worried about your grandkids' well-being long-term? while disowning could provide some emotional distance, focusing on solutions for the kids might ultimately bring more peace. remember, family law can get pretty intricate so professional advice would help navigate this puzzle 🙂