My phobia is ruining me
The story
Have y’all heard of enoclophobia? A phobia of crowds, it doesn’t seem like a big deal, but for me it’s overwhelming
Basically my family owns a small business company, and they’re been forcing me to do presentations on the lastest products since I was young. And since there are lots of people in the auditorium, I panic, but I shouldn’t make humiliation of myself in this big event, so I just manage. By the end of the presentation, but face is blue;;
I’ve been telling my parents for years that I don’t want to be the heir of this company, and I don’t want to do these presentations, but I’m forced to, even my long term crush is going through the same situation, she doesn’t have any phobias tho… she doesn’t like me back bc of how stupid I act while on stage, buts it’s a natural born phobia, I wish I could get rid of it but how?
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Points of view
probably a stupid question but it's not an option to work somewhere else? I mean, if they don't take in consideration your phobia, that's not very respectful from them...
I mean… I could but they’re my parents you know?
Obviously! But respect must go both ways!
Some people manage to overcome their phobia: not always possible, we agree... but perhaps consider seeking professional help (a kind of coach) to help you overcome your phobia?
Or, for a less expensive option: sign up for improv, stand-up, etc. 😅
this idea is not stupid: trying to fight your phobia with stuff like improv, theater or who knows what which can help you in the long term! It will push you out of your comfort zone and it will benefit your career!
Phobias are legitimate concerns, but seriously, calling it "overwhelming" when public speaking is part of any business gig seems a bit much. Everyone deals with stage fright at some point. Loads of famous CEOs had it too but adapted. 😒 If you hate it that much, maybe try some cognitive behavioral therapy. But hey, who am I to question your plight when your "face is blue" on stage? You should really address the core issue instead of relying on not wanting to "make a humiliation" out of yourself. If both you and your crush are stuck in the family business treadmill, ever thought about teaming up to change the dynamic? Sometimes framing it as a "growth opportunity" could help.