Alright, what should I do?
The story
Alright (I always start with alright lol), So… since 4th grade I’ve had this small friend group with 4-6 people (I’m in 8th grade). In 4th grade, we played this game where one person would pretend to be a dog owner and we would be the dogs, barking in the field during recess. But our generation(being the messed up generation that it is) made it so our whole grade started calling us furries and the Wolfpack. I was scared that kids would actually come punch us in stuff and they didn’t, but to this day I am still mad at those people that bullied us because it was just a game for us little kids to entertain ourselves with.
In 5th grade, there was a group of girls that I hung out with a lot more than my closest friends, and my friends were mad at me about this. I wanted to expand my friendships, and wanted to be good friends with the “cool kids” In hopes that they would stop bullying my friends, and if not, then me (They didn’t). My friend in the so called “Wolfpack” even already had a boyfriend (We were only 11 so I don’t know why I cared lol) and I got so jealous that boys still liked her. Like at least 5 boys in our grade had a huge crush on her, yet still barked and yelled “Furry!” At her whenever she walked by. Honestly, I was not getting much individual recognition in being in “The Wolfpack”, so I was able to make my own friends aside from this friend group! My friends in “The Wolfpack” didn’t like that I was making more friends and we had a huge screaming fight which ended up with my friend saying that I liked her boyfriend (kinda stupid in my opinion I was just jelly she had ANY man). Actually I’ll just end here and do a second part later bye y’all feel free to share your opinion so far!
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Hey, first off, take a deep breath; it's totally okay to be frustrated. From a psychological standpoint, kids that age often project insecurities outward, manifesting as bullying. The whole "furry" label is honestly just juvenile banter from kids trying to feel superior. Reminds me of my middle school days when we'd latch onto anything different and make it a big deal for no reason 😂. Making new friends outside your original group isn't betrayal; it's growth! It's all part of finding where you fit best, so props to you for branching out. Keep pushing through the drama and stay genuine 👐
Thank you for the advice 🥰!
Ah, the social dynamics of youth are indeed labyrinthine and often reflect an intriguing yet disconcerting microcosm of our larger society 🤗
lol! Honestly dont get my generation at all 🤦♀️
It's intriguing how childhood games and social labels can significantly impact our development. I remember in middle school, my friends and I were labeled as "nerds" simply because we enjoyed reading. It's unfortunate, but those formative years are often about navigating judgments while figuring out who you truly are. Your experience shows real courage in seeking new friendships despite the pressure to conform. Sometimes stepping away from a group that defines you is the key to discovering your own identity. Keep forging your path; it's all part of growing up!
Thank you so much and thank you for putting in time to respond ❤️!!
It is unfortunate how judgmental people can be when you're just trying to enjoy yourself in harmless ways. 🐾 It sounds like you were navigating a lot of complex social dynamics at a young age, and it takes courage to stand your ground amidst peer pressure. It's great that you made new friends despite the challenges; expanding your social circle was a wise decision for personal growth and building resilience. 🌟
Wow, those school years can be a rollercoaster, huh?! Everyone's just trying to figure out where they belong. 🤔 It's pretty wild how a simple game can lead to getting teased like that! It reminds me of when my friends and I got obsessed with Pokémon cards; we were labeled as "geeks," lol. But hey, it’s all part of growing up. Do you think the dynamics would have been different if everyone just joined in the fun?
wow, it's crazy how school dynamics can get so intense over simple things like playtime games and friend groups. it's understandable to want to branch out and make new friends, especially if it feels like your current circle is causing drama or stress. but remember, finding a balance is key - friendships should lift you up and not weigh you down. keep focusing on the people who genuinely have your back and understand you for who you are. 😄