I feel I should be mad at her, but I can't be...
The story
I used to date this girl, but we broke up cause she didn't really like me, but we stayed best friends. I've only had one person i've ever had a crush on like me back and that's my current partner. I first got a crush on one of my guy friends, but never told him. Then one day, he told me he had a crush on her and I acted normal about it, but I actually wanted to cry. Then, I knew one of my other guy best friends liked her. but I couldn't help. but catch feelings for him. I feel like I should be angry, but i'm not. I can't help how I feel, but everyone else has told me I should be mad at her, but I'm only mad at myself.
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It's interesting how you mention feeling like you should be angry, yet you're not; emotions can be complex and don't always align with what others expect. Why do you think people are telling you to feel anger towards her when the situation seems more about your own internal conflicts? Maybe it's worth considering why you're directing this frustration solely at yourself—sometimes our feelings point us toward understanding ourselves better 🤔
It's intriguing how you've managed to maintain such close friendships despite the emotional complexities—could it be that your feelings are a sign of personal growth rather than something to be frustrated about?
Honestly, mate, it's wild how you're juggling all these emotions like a pro and still keeping your friendships solid. So many people would let jealousy ruin everything, but you're just owning your feelings instead of throwing blame around. Maybe this whole situation is showing you something about yourself that you didn't see before. And hey, who says you need to be mad? If anything, not getting pissed off might mean you're more mature than the folks telling you how you should feel! I've been there too; sometimes we just gotta ride the wave and learn from it all 🧐