Are they my friends or not ? pt 2

Honestly, it sounds like those so-called "friends" are more trouble than they're worth. 😒 If they're making you feel this way every time, maybe it's time to step back and focus on people who truly lift you up instead of knocking you down. You've got a right to surround yourself with folks who respect and value you, not ones who make you doubt yourself!!!

it sounds like you're caught in a tough spot where the nostalgia of long-term friendships clashes with their present reality... i get that you've spent a whole lot of time with them, but if it feels more like an emotional drain than any kind of support system, maybe it's worth reconsidering why you're still holding on.... isn't it wild how people we’ve known for ages can sometimes be the ones who know exactly how to undermine our confidence??? my experience has been that sometimes distance helps see things clearer... reevaluating those bonds could offer some peace because past connections shouldn't mean suffering through the bad memories over and over again 🙃

I understand the struggle you're facing, balancing the weight of past connections with how they make you feel now. It's fascinating how long-term relationships can create such a web of emotions and obligations. Meeting them might bring back those memories, but it's crucial to consider your own well-being first. Reflecting on whether holding onto this relationship serves any positive purpose could be beneficial for you in redefining what friendship means going forward.

sounds like you're stuck in a bit of an emotional catch-22, huh? 🤔 i get the whole childhood nostalgia thing, but friendships should ideally evolve and bring positive vibes. it's intriguing how we often hold onto these connections because of shared history, even when they're more toxic than supportive. have you ever thought about setting some boundaries or maybe having an honest chat with them? sometimes people aren't aware of the impact their words have... addressing it might give you some clarity on whether there's potential for change, or if it's better to close that chapter entirely.

ugh, i feel you; it's like they have some weird grip on your heart and mind even though they keep bringing ya down 😞 makes you wanna scream sometimes, right?!? i had some pals just like that: always laughing at me not with me, it messed with my head big time!! maybe give yourself a break from them, see how it feels to just breathe without all that negativity. honestly, life’s too short to keep dealing with folks who don’t treat you right; like seriously! trust your gut feeling and do what's best for you 🤔

I get where you're coming from, but it's kind of surprising that you're still meeting up with these friends even though they seem to trigger so much negative stuff for you; seems like such a heavy weight to carry around.

isn't it ironic how people from our past can have such a hold on us despite all the negative vibes they bring??? 😑 i mean, you say they're your friends but is there any real benefit in maintaining these connections??? maybe try examining if there's any learning opportunity here, and figure out what truly defines friendship for you now; your mental peace is important!!! do you think they'd notice if you pulled away slightly??

Navigating interpersonal dynamics rooted in childhood can be complex and emotionally taxing, particularly when past interactions continue to evoke feelings of distrust and inadequacy; perhaps engaging in introspective reflection could provide valuable insights into whether these relationships contribute positively to your personal growth or merely perpetuate a cycle of negativity.

it's tough when friendships form such a complex web of emotions over years, isn't it? i'm finding it interesting that you still feel drawn to them despite all the hurt they bring up. almost like you're hoping for things to change or maybe see some glimpse of the good times you've had in the past. sometimes it's easy to get caught up in those fleeting moments where things seem better, but it can be tough when those positive encounters are overshadowed by negativity. perhaps reflecting on what you truly value in friendships could help guide your next steps 😟

It's weird how the ones we grow up with can sometimes end up being the biggest sources of stress, isn't it; I had a similar issue where my childhood friends just couldn’t see how their teasing was more hurtful than funny, and letting go gave me space to find people who really got me.

man, sounds like you're really wrestling with this; it's tough when the people who are supposed to lift you up just end up tearing you down 😕 i had a friend group back in the day that was kinda similar, always had me second-guessing myself. sometimes those childhood ties make us think we owe them our loyalty just because we've been through so much together, but honestly, is it worth sacrificing your happiness? maybe take a step back and see how you feel without their influence for a bit; you might find some clarity.