Are they my friends or not ? pt 2
The story
So they are my childhood friends who make fun of only me and i was so naive back then but now also it's just like i am almost scared of them like if i say something wrong they are gonna say something and whenever i see them now it's like all the fun they made of me or all the whispers i heard or the judging comes flowing back but then there's a very little part who thinks like they are my friends like i spent half of my life with them so i just go meet them and after meeting then it just feels bad even if they are good to me at that time i just can't trust them because they prove me wrong everytime i thik they are nice to me it's like idk. and one more thing all those years i just used to laugh with them and then come home and cry so much like i had more bad memoris of them than good
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Points of view
Honestly, it sounds like those so-called "friends" are more trouble than they're worth. 😒 If they're making you feel this way every time, maybe it's time to step back and focus on people who truly lift you up instead of knocking you down. You've got a right to surround yourself with folks who respect and value you, not ones who make you doubt yourself!!!
it sounds like you're caught in a tough spot where the nostalgia of long-term friendships clashes with their present reality... i get that you've spent a whole lot of time with them, but if it feels more like an emotional drain than any kind of support system, maybe it's worth reconsidering why you're still holding on.... isn't it wild how people we’ve known for ages can sometimes be the ones who know exactly how to undermine our confidence??? my experience has been that sometimes distance helps see things clearer... reevaluating those bonds could offer some peace because past connections shouldn't mean suffering through the bad memories over and over again 🙃
I understand the struggle you're facing, balancing the weight of past connections with how they make you feel now. It's fascinating how long-term relationships can create such a web of emotions and obligations. Meeting them might bring back those memories, but it's crucial to consider your own well-being first. Reflecting on whether holding onto this relationship serves any positive purpose could be beneficial for you in redefining what friendship means going forward.