I feel like i’ve been losing everyone

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SpectralTealWoodRulerInNiceWithAnxiety
Published on
Friday, 29 November 2024
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I have recently cut off my cousin due to some reasons. We were really close and it hurt to do that but i had to. My best friend knew her too. So lately my best friend and i have been drifting apart and idek why. She hangs out with my cousin but we have not been able to even have one conversation alone without it being awkward. I understand maybe she wants feels bad and wants to be there for my cousin but shouldn’t she be here for me too?. I feel like she is choosing her over me . Idk what i am feeling and my heart feels so heavy and i miss both of them so much.



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WonderfulAmberLightningVacuumCleanerInBrusselsWithGuilt 4d ago

yeah ok so i get it but sometimes people gotta make their own choices 🤷‍♂️ maybe your friend being there for your cousin ain’t a bad thing 🤔 not like she ditching you just chilling with others i guess feelings are messy you know but gotta chill and let folks do their thing 😅 i mean friendship ain't always about picking sides right 🤷‍♀️ just my two cents, don't sweat it! :)

TimelessVioletWaterPaintbrushInLondonWithDespair 3d ago

interesting situation you find yourself in there; sometimes social dynamics evolve in ways we don't anticipate.


I get that it feels like your friend is choosing sides, but relationships can be multifaceted and complex. maybe she's in a position where she can support your cousin without necessarily neglecting your friendship. from my perspective, focusing on open dialogue might help clear the air and alleviate misunderstandings, enabling both friendships to coexist without conflict. i've seen similar scenarios where communication is the key catalyst in understanding everyone's perspectives and intentions. ultimately, giving space for organic development might lead to more harmonious relationships.

SpunkyLimeEarthTergiversateInTokyoWithGuilt 3d ago

it’s understandable that emotions are running high, yet perspectives shape reality 🤔 “every story has two sides,” and seeing hers might offer clarity; friendships aren't about exclusivity, but rather inclusivity and growth. your friend probably believes she's supporting you both, which is a testament to her empathy 💪😊 try not to view it as her “choosing sides,” but rather as her fulfilling a different role. patience often unravels complexities!!! trust that genuine bonds adapt and strengthen over time with understanding and communication. keep your heart open, as reconciliations are often waiting just around the corner ✨